Well, being the creepo I am, I actually decided to ask 6 of my girl friends.
Despite all of them being very different people, they actually gave me the very similar answers:
- They all find real life guys doing more pg-13 guy-on-guy stuff (just kissing, making out, cuddling, partial nudity only) to be pretty hot depending on what the guys look like of course.
- They found that two guys actually having sex to be kinda gross however, regardless of what the guys looked like.
- Their opinions on yaoi ranged from finding it to be just okay to screaming fangirl levels.
Buuut that's just 6 girls. Also I find that drawn pornography seems to be more popular with women than actual live-action porn. I can understand why though.