He didn't really "***** and moan" that much in the game. Whenever he did mention trying to find her, it's because that's a part of the plot. He loves his wife and wants to find her, and usually mentioned her when he was asking about her or making a decision that involved his search for her, which makes sense. Did you also think everyone in the game was whining too much about the Locust all the time, or did you just make this comment because Yahtzee said it, so it must be right?