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bojac6

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Grey_Focks said:
Text sent. May God/Buddha/Vishnu/Satan show me mercy.

EDIT- Oh, and the actualy text I sent was "Plans after work? :D"

I should really just hand in my testicles...
You needed to get pumped up to send that text? Oh dear. This may be beyond my abilities.
 

Grey_Focks

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bojac6 said:
Grey_Focks said:
Text sent. May God/Buddha/Vishnu/Satan show me mercy.

EDIT- Oh, and the actualy text I sent was "Plans after work? :D"

I should really just hand in my testicles...
You needed to get pumped up to send that text? Oh dear. This may be beyond my abilities.
you underestimated me when I said how low my confidence was, old sport. I mean, it is LOW.
 

Minch

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I think it's really cute that you care enough about this girl to get so nervous about asking her out, she's a lucky girl! And even if she doesn't say yes then don't worry about it, she's obviously missing out on something good! :)

YOU DA MAN!
 

Broady Brio

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Grey_Focks said:
King_Burger said:
Pussy atleast say it to her face.
yea yea, I know...thanks for undoing what everyone else did, btw...
Seriously? You're gonna let this one person demoralize you?

 

bojac6

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Grey_Focks said:
bojac6 said:
you underestimated me when I said how low my confidence was, old sport. I mean, it is LOW.
Ok, here's what we're gonna do. No more of this "you da man" bullshit. We're going to give you confidence based on knowing what the hell you're doing.
Step 1: Texting is for quick messages, like "I'm outside ready to pick you up." Using it to ask her out leads to the problem that she'll think it's a friendly get together after work. When it's not, it's a date. Not too late though, you're still fine.
Step 2: Place. Movie and/or dinner. Those are your options. Anything else is too friendly. Girl can't miss out on that hint. Its traditional and simple and nobody is really going to say no. My vote would be dinner because then you have conversation, which is the key.
Step 3: Conversation. Be interesting. That's easy, talk about things that interest you, because that means you're enthusiastic. If she isn't interested, she isn't the right girl. Don't try to be something you're not.


And there you go, successful date with 3 rules. So easy, a middle schooler can do it. So you should have no problems (unless you're a middle schooler).
 

Woodsey

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Grey_Focks said:
Pump me up!
I'm thinking she's the one you want to be pumping you up... AMIRITE??? *wink**wink* *nudge**nudge*

OT: Just think about all the sex acts you'll get up to if she says yes. If that doesn't help you, nothing will.
 

The Bum

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I'd like to help and i've got the perfect pic but i don't know how to post pics tell me sow i may help this fellow!

Anywhoo YOOOU CCCANNN DDOOO AAAATTT!

If she says no you'll at least you won't be wondering what if?

And some one get bonsiak in hyar!
 

P-mac

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If this doesn't help, I don't know what will:
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Good luck :)
 

Brad Shepard

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Grey_Focks said:
I'm about to ask a girl out, something I haven't done in months. My confidence is almost non-existent. Escapists, I need your help! Post funny images, cheer me on, tell me ofcourse she'll say yes, anything! Pump me up!
the worst she can say is no dude, go for it, we all believe in you!
 

Grey_Focks

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might as well put a close to this chapter...I asked her out, she said no, I went to the bar, got another girl's number, my self-esteem is doing pretty good, and over-all I'm almost glad she said no.

Thanks for all the encouragement everyone! You guys did good.
 

Deshin

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Grey_Focks said:
might as well put a close to this chapter...I asked her out, she said no, I went to the bar, got another girl's number, my self-esteem is doing pretty good, and over-all I'm almost glad she said no.

Thanks for all the encouragement everyone! You guys did good.
Epic bounceback dude. Bar is something you didn't plan so it shows good "in the moment" apptitude. *forum five*
 

ultimateownage

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Grey_Focks said:
might as well put a close to this chapter...I asked her out, she said no, I went to the bar, got another girl's number, my self-esteem is doing pretty good, and over-all I'm almost glad she said no.

Thanks for all the encouragement everyone! You guys did good.
I kind of have to post this. Sorry if it offends you in any way, I don't mean it like that.

O.T. Unlucky mate. Better luck next time.