To me the female characters in games is something that gets my gripes, and its from the double standard i observe.
If a male character is poorly developed in character, its a poor character and declared as such.
If a female character is poorly developed (here, developed has nothing to do with cleavage), its suddenly another example of how the gaming industry always underestimates the female mind.
Do i think women are poorly represented on occasion? yes, but it's more than likely to be a poor character than one based on a flawed view of women. If you truly want acceptance, start with the developers, accept that crap characters exist as do good ones (Alex Vance, Cortana (apart from being an AI, she was a great female character, Samus Aran or The Prince of Persia chick). Give us some credit ladies (and menfolk who support the cause), we do sometimes make a mistake out of pure inability rather than a creeping maliciousness designed to undermine the female conscience.
Now, what the females wear... that i can agree on, nothing makes me more helpless in the hands of a woman like chest-stuffing... but some of the games are ridiculous. I like big boobs in games... but not gigantism localized on the ribcage.
Ultrajoe, not sure what he wants but damn sure he wants it since 1956. Thats right, his desires predate him.
Im on page one here, so if this has been covered i apologize.