Girl Problems: Which to choose?

[Tharwen]

How about you get to know both of them a little so you can actually make a decision?

 

[Anonin]

"How about you get to know both of them a little so you can actually make a decision?"
I think that is what to go with, but how?

 

[Jackal_Legacy]

Most of the decent advice has already been said but i'll throw this last little piece in there... Which one has the bigger capacity to make your life hell if you break up? sorry to be pessimistic but in high school odds are it won't last forever. If it does go bad then her mean streak could come out and trust me it can be pretty annoying.

Another thing to look at is... How good friends are you with them? i speak from personal experience when i say that you can ruin a perfectly good friendship this way.

now, pessimistic nay-saying aside you should just go for the first one because a sure thing is better

 

[Anonin]

I hate to ask but does actually use the advice we give them? I have seen a lot of help me threads and yet I haven't seen any of them come back and say it worked.

On Topic: If you can't decide which one you like yet best thing to do is figure out which one you like first and then decide to tell that one you like them.

Also, I wouldn't trust that friend, I mean she could be just saying that girl likes you as a cruel joke. Best piece of advice I can give is Never Trust Anybody.

I thank you for the advice, but if we base out society on never trusting anybody then our society will fail. The logical consequences will result in that we must experience things firsthand, and thus a non-belief in otherworld issues. + not trusting your girlfriend, for no valid reason, would result in you having to stalk her.......

 

[The Cake Is Annoying]

but what if i hurt the other one?

So what?

Really. So what?

Going through life, trying to never hurt anyone's feelings is futile. She'll just have to learn to express her feelings next time. All you need to know is it is not your problem in this situation.

 

[Anonin]

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There is actually an odd trend that is noticeable by our internal metrics that show that relationship threads get more views per post than most other threads. Maybe not everyone is posting, but they sure are looking at the threads! Maybe they hope there's some secret that they will find inside that will help them in their own love problems or perhaps they really just find that sort of drama interesting.

Or perhaps there is a third, more sadistic possibility, in that people enjoy reading about the trainwreck of another's lovelife. I think most views are generated by this.

Either way, these threads tend to boil down to the OP being young and confused, (in which case he should probably just have a chat to dad/older brother/other male role model, - if none of these are that kind of person, then coming here is fair enough) or being too shy and unconfident to make any kind of move. Which we can really do nothing about.

As much as I am all for helping others, I just dislike seeing thread upon thread upon spam upon thread about girl problems.

Eurgh.

Fair enough. Perhaps you could try ignoring them and moving on to threads that you would enjoy posting on? Just saying.

EDIT: BTW, would have talked to me familia, but me being in a boarding school kinda hinders that somewhat.

 

[x0ny]

... dude... BOTH.

nah, seriously, I say make them mud wrestle for you.

This, but I'd replace the mud with jelly(UK)/ jell-o(USA).

 

[tthor]

Right, so here is the scenario.
There are a lot of cute girls in my school. Recently I found out that this girl who goes 1 year lower than me, likes me. I was told so by her friend, and I guess that she is telling the truth.
BUT
Realising that this girl liked me, I realised that there was another girl that liked me, because they always act really similarly around me. They are shy, smile a lot, always say hi to me, and laugh at everything I say. Well, the laughing part is girl B...
So, Girl A is in my lower class and I know that she likes me. Girl B, I believe that she likes me. So, I don't know which one I like, and if they both like me, won't I hurt the other one by going out with the other?
:S some help would be appreciated

you don't really sound like you have any feelings for either of them, and it sounds like their feelings towards you are possibly based off of some superficial attraction (all of this meaning that as of the moment, any relationship created with either of these girls would be doomed to fail). so, i say you choose neither, for now. tell them both that you don't know them well(if that is indeed the case), and that you would just like to be friends for now, and just see where it goes from there.

may i ask, how old are you?

 

[Squarez]

Universal guide to dating:

1) Determine which girl you like best (other than those who have turned you down)
2) Ask that girl out
3a) If she says "yes", enjoy your date
3b) If she says "no", go back to step "1"

Always remember: Be nice, polite, and never fear rejection

If only all relationships were this easy to figure out.

 

[Shock and Awe]

I kind of doubt girl B likes you since she would tell you that girl A likes you, its really self sabotage.

 

[Cain_Zeros]

"How about you get to know both of them a little so you can actually make a decision?"
I think that is what to go with, but how?

Just spend time with them dude. Best way to get to know someone is to hang out with them.

 

[Anonin]

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snippety snip.

You make a fair point, but there are so many of them posted so often.

I can't really argue against that, but it hardly ever makes for interesting discussion. The obvious conclusion is always reached, which is talk to the girl.

Most people forget the significance of the word friend in girlfriend.

"Talking"? What is with this strange and odd concept never heard of before? Does it involve comparing tallness?

 

[Thaius]

You said you don't know either of them well enough to know which one you like more. So don't. Stay friends with them, keep going as is, develop a relationship before risking anything. Unless you want to be in an out of a bunch of relationships, wait until you know them well before thinking about developing a romantic relationship. Get to know them, be friends with them, then see how it all turns out. The answer will be obvious over time.

 

[danielsharpe1634]

dude its okay. If you go for one and the other feels hurt, you can just play dumb and act like you didn't know they were into you. Besides [I'm assuming this is high school] it will all be a distant memory in a year or two, so have some fun while you have this chance.

 

[danielsharpe1634]

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You make a fair point, but there are so many of them posted so often.

I can't really argue against that, but it hardly ever makes for interesting discussion. The obvious conclusion is always reached, which is talk to the girl.

Most people forget the significance of the word friend in girlfriend.

"Talking"? What is with this strange and odd concept never heard of before? Does it involve comparing tallness?

bahahhaa

 

[Ungenericteen]

Pick which ever one you have more in common with,

 

[HigherTomorrow]

My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.

Amen, broski.