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EchetusXe

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What should you do?

Nothing. You gave her a good time, were pleasant, polite and respectful (I assume).

If she decides another lad is better looking than you and therefore she will dump you to go out with him then I think you have an insight on her personality and you can count yourself lucky that she has gone out of your life. Move on. If she chooses the other guy because she has a better connection with him then bad luck. Move on. If she decides to stick with you than bear this incident in mind for the future and again, move on, this time together.

Good luck.
 

Arkhangelsk

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How about letting her decide? You can't force her to choose you. Just be yourself with her, and let her decide if she wants to be with you. It's her life too.
 

quiet_samurai

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Do something completely sporatic, unique, and awesome. Or something daring, like shoplifting something for her that she likes, unless she's a total goody-goody she will love it.

or

Just tell her how you really feel.
 

Baby Eater

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antiwheat said:
AkJay said:
Bawwwwwwh. Don't make a new account just to complain to us about your life.
Bawwwwwh? What sound effect is that?

I do not feel the need to reiterate what those above me said.
a very depressed sheep? o_O
 

Chicago Ted

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No pity for you right now. I'm in the same situation except it's a lot more complicated and shitty for me. I have pretty much accepted it, said fuck it, and remembered why I'd avoided high school relationships for so long, because of the fucking drama.
 

meglathon

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If you read this hear me out.
I have been in the exact same situation and the similarity are a bit creepy.
But here what i did.

1) you really need to gauge the connection between the two of you is an important step, since if there are some fussy spots that be careful on the next step.
2)Balance what you will gain from what you will lose and don't tell yourself that there is nothing to lose cause there always is.
3)Never Ever rush anything with her and let her make the choses .

For me I did not get the girl, but I did get the best friend a guy could want, we have a special connection that is not love and if not exactly friendship either but is something worth having. Being friends with a really hot and sexy girl/women means that there always a pretty face that smiles and says hello to you and that to me is awesome.
 

Kuchinawa212

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I say just live and let live. If it doesn't work about between then she'll come to you. And if she dates you and likes you more then no need to worry about the other guy.
 

KurtzGallahad

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Date her and if she feels more comfortable with you than the other guy you have your girl, if she feels more comfortable with the other guy challenge him to a duel, he'll choose the weapons but you get to choose the place, I would be honoured to act as your second
 

Ryuk2

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Dump her. If she can't decide, shes not good enough for you.
Probably the other guy just has more cash and he's better looking.
 

Booze Zombie

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Well... try not to seem controlling about it, but tell her she can do whatever she feels happy doing.

If it's meant to happen, it'll happen.
 

PurpleRain

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xmetatr0nx said:
Let her decide. Is this really that complicated? Its her choice, just deal with her decision when it comes.
You are the greatest Escapist member alive! You, you have sense.
 

TriggerUnhappy

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Berethond said:
Blitzkrieg8 said:
Duel the other guy
Yeah!
You could pull an Andrew Jackson!
Or a Hamilton!
Hopefully an Andrew Jackson, because Hamilton got his ass shot.

Actually come to think of it, Jackson was shot as well, but still managed to kill the bastard that did it, and then carried the bullet with him for the rest of his life. So yeah, pull an Andrew Jackson on the bastard.
 

Woem

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Greenman91 said:
i want to start dating my friend, and i asked her out. we went on a date and it went pretty well, but she doesn't know if she wants to continue dating me cause someone else asked her out at the same time. we are really close and i know a lot about her, so i feel like I'm at a bit of an advantage, but i don't know anything about this other guy. what should i do
Just ask her out again?