Goodbye home, hello world!

[Floppertje]

dude.
1. it doesn't matter
2. you want to get out on your own. your parents might not like that, but that's their problem.
3. they'll probably come to visit someday, so what are you gonna do? hide 3 hot chicks behind the couch?
4. what's the problem about living with attractive women? there's tons of attractive women i see on a friendly basis every week... besides, you have your own room for guy things and you have a hand and your fantasy, so i don't really see the problem.
5. maybe once they get to know you they'll decide your not so much out of their league after all?

 

[Jonluw]

Just, for god's sake, avoid walking out of your bedroom in a daze with morning wood.

Thanks for the advice

You're welcome. Jonluw comes with an array of helpful advice to make your everyday life easier. Among which you will find such classics as "Don't use corrosive liquids as eye drops".

Edit: Also, Yay 2000 posts. I like round numbers.

 

[Nickolai77]

Look, your a uni student and i'm assuming your a 1st year. That means your at least 18 years old. Why does your parents opinion matter so much? At worst all they can do is grumble.

I'm living with two attractive girls, both have boyfriends, doesn't bother me too much. I don't quite understand why this is a big issue. You should be more concerned if you can get on with these girls as friends, or at least maintain a cordial relationship. If you have doubts about this (i.e- they look like they might throw wild house parties and bring home strangers every night) then share your concerns with your friend and see if you can find a smaller house.

At any rate, you can enjoy the eye-candy.

 

[dragonslayer32]

ok why are you moving out if its only 5 minutes away? And Im also going to state that don't think about the girls THAT way. Just trust me no good can come of it.
Scenario 1(best case); you get a love nights fun and then its awkward forever after
scenario 2(middle case); You get rejected and its still awkard between the 2 of you forever after
scenario3: You get spectacularly rejected and the whole house gets awesomely awkard.

So yeah a big DONT DO IT on the girls side. But getting a place for yourslef is commendable if you can keep ontop of the rent, council tax. heating, phone , electricity tv licensing and all the other fun bills like that

good luck.

The reason I am moving out is because I want to live the student lifestyle, I want some independance and it is to help a friend out. Also, although the girls are extremely attractive, I wouldn't ask any of them out because of basically the reasons you have just stated. However, I am not sure I will pass on the opportunity if one of them comes onto me... The only reason they are moving in is because of bills, this way money shouldn't be an issue.
Thanks for the good luck.

 

[Jamboxdotcom]

Living with hot girls is not nearly as fun as it sounds. Expect a lot of partying, noise, and mess. My girlfriend lives with two hot college girls and I could kill them.

exactly. hot girls = constant parties and unwanted company. if you can't find a way to move in with your friend without these girls, you're better off staying at home.

 

[dragonslayer32]

Just, for god's sake, avoid walking out of your bedroom in a daze with morning wood.

Thanks for the advice

You're welcome. Jonluw comes with an array of helpful advice to make your everyday life eaiser. Among which you will find such classics as "Don't use corrosive liquids as eye drops".

Edit: Also, Yay 2000 posts. I like round numbers.

I'd also be sure not to put any corrosive liquids in my eyes lol. Congrats on the post man.

 

[Jonluw]

Just, for god's sake, avoid walking out of your bedroom in a daze with morning wood.

Thanks for the advice

You're welcome. Jonluw comes with an array of helpful advice to make your everyday life eaiser. Among which you will find such classics as "Don't use corrosive liquids as eye drops".

Edit: Also, Yay 2000 posts. I like round numbers.

I'd also be sure not to put any corrosive liquids in my eyes lol. Congrats on the post man.

Thanks. (Gah, I just noticed the spelling error)

I'm going to bed now. Good luck with whatever you choose to do. Whether you choose the path of girls and freedom or family and comfort.

 

[Vrach]

So Escapists, any advice? How do I break it to my parents that I am leaving them to live with three very attractive strange women?

Way number one:
"Hey dad, I'm gonna be moving in with my mate, we're gonna be living with 3 really hot chicks - don't worry, I'm throwing away my socks and packing the sock drawer full of condoms, just go tell mom for me, will ya?"

Way number two:
"Hey guys, I'm gonna be moving to an apartment with some friends, don't worry, will be pretty close to home anyway, just wanna try out and see how it feels to live with my mates for a change."

Or a ton of others. Just tell them and don't worry about being homesick, you gotta ween off that sooner or later (haven't checked your age, but either way). Don't know what your parents are like, but the bottom line is, it's your choice, just show some backbone with your decision.

 

[ethaninja]

Just be quiet about the female side of it all
Dude I would kill to be in your situation =(

Also, what the guy above me said =) Truer words never spoken.

 

[loc978]

Just don't do what I did...
"Hey mom, dad... I'm joining the army. Yeah, it's a combat arms specialty. I'm leaving in three months."
-a year of training later-
"Mom, dad... I'm being stationed in Europe. Yes, prostitution is legal where I'm going. Yes, I'm in very good shape now. Yes, there will be local girls clamoring to marry me for access to the PX... don't worry, I won't actually marry any of 'em..."

...I think I permanently damaged my mother's psyche with my changed attitude toward sex...

.

That said... Vrach gave good advice.

 

[dragonslayer32]

ok why are you moving out if its only 5 minutes away? And Im also going to state that don't think about the girls THAT way. Just trust me no good can come of it.
Scenario 1(best case); you get a love nights fun and then its awkward forever after
scenario 2(middle case); You get rejected and its still awkard between the 2 of you forever after
scenario3: You get spectacularly rejected and the whole house gets awesomely awkard.

So yeah a big DONT DO IT on the girls side. But getting a place for yourslef is commendable if you can keep ontop of the rent, council tax. heating, phone , electricity tv licensing and all the other fun bills like that

good luck.

The reason I am moving out is because I want to live the student lifestyle, I want some independance and it is to help a friend out. Also, although the girls are extremely attractive, I wouldn't ask any of them out because of basically the reasons you have just stated. However, I am not sure I will pass on the opportunity if one of them comes onto me... The only reason they are moving in is because of bills, this way money shouldn't be an issue.
Thanks for the good luck.

ah i wasnt meaning the money part of all thats the problem. its the organisation of staying on top of it all (especially the ones you share as a group). I would recommend passing because i have seen first hand how awkward it gets,but it is your life and your call ultimately. And tbh half of the student life is living a new place(location town etc). Living 5 mins away doesn't really equate that. Moving to uni changes your definition of home because you have gotten used to a different place but thats just my opinion. I know its a lot harder moving further afield if you don't have a good reason.

Thanks man, I appreciate the advice I suppose all I want is a sense of freedom, at the minute I wouldn't dream of bringing a girl home after a night out but that is the sort of thing I was hoping to do in a place with friends. But now, I think it may be a bit wierd taking girls home to girls, my friends wouldn't judge me but they might... Although, thinking about it now, I found the place and invited them, I have just as much, if not more, right to be there than them. If they don't like me, they can find another place.

 

[Naturality]

I'm also in my first year of uni, but I'm currently living off-campus with three moderately attractive women. If you're anything like me, it won't be a problem. By 'like me', I mean shy and very unlikely to act on attraction, as well as being (I like to think) rational enough to control my emotions for the good of living with these people.

 

[dragonslayer32]

I'm also in my first year of uni, but I'm currently living off-campus with three moderately attractive women. If you're anything like me, it won't be a problem. By 'like me', I mean shy and very unlikely to act on attraction, as well as being (I like to think) rational enough to control my emotions for the good of living with these people.

That really sounds exactly like me. Thanks for the advice, I have came to the conclusion that if they don't like me, they can find somewhere else to live, I'm just going to be myself, I have already given up my XL room for a large...

 

[Wharrgarble]

If you move five minutes up the road, your parents will probably find out about the girls. I mean... It's not like they'd really have to call ahead of time to come visit. I moved with my boyfriend into an apartment over three hours away from where he lived and his parents still show up unannounced from time to time. You may as well just tell them now.

Also, if you're really uncomfortable about the idea of living with these girls, you could use your parents as an "out" so to speak. They don't want you in that type of situation, you don't want to upset them, etc...

As a girl? I actually prefer to live with guys, but that's mainly because I like to wander around in my PJ's and play video games until 3am... But that's just me. They sound like the type to constantly be partying and will probably ruin your peace. I'd say either explain the situation to your friend and try for a different place, or just use your parents as an excuse.

No reason for you to have to be uncomfortable in your own home.

 

[KiKiweaky]

Never moved out, but from what my mates tell me its going to be ones of the best decisions of your life. If not you can always come crawling back =D