"I don't like shows like TMZ either, why would I think it's fun or funny to engage in the exact behavior that pisses me off?"
Love the article but this pretty accurately represents my issue with this whole thing lately. That logic makes no freaking sense. You said before that you enjoyed running people over and killing random people in some GTA games yet you act like simulating TMZ is where we need to draw the line.
I don't like TMZ in real life either, nor do I like mass murderers, it doesn't mean I wouldn't enjoy doing either of those things in a video game. I mean seriously think about what you are saying, is it really so hard to imagine why what you are describing might be really fun for some people?
I like the idea of playing an asshole in a game because I'm just a normal guy in real life that stays out of people's way and I never get anything out of it, I love to play in a simulated world where I can do some things I wouldn't do in real life but could, in theory, do.
I mean it's like people arguing that realism in games is awful. "Why would anyone want to play a realistic war game? Can't you just fight a real war?"
Yes kid, you can "just fight a real war" but that's not really the healthiest thing to do, physically or psychologically.
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"A lot has changed since 2001, when GTA III came out. I got married, had two kids, and I'm now in charge of a website dedicated to discussing the experience of games and their impact on our culture. The world has witnessed acts of terrorism around the globe, and shootings here in the U.S. are frightfully common. I don't like to watch the news; I play games for an escape from all that shit."
I never understood the escapism argument. People used it as a reason to praise saints row even though the first three saints row games did nothing but glorify gruesome gang violence, sexual enslavement, and dealing drugs. That's not escaping reality, that's glorifying some pretty dark portions of it.
If you play games to "escape" from reality than perhaps you shouldn't play video games, you may have some psychological issues that you should deal with first. Personally I feel no need to escape from the world. It's not perfect, but it's amazing. I love this world, and I accept the carnage that comes with it. Yeah some people get sad when they watch "tragedies" involving a ton of people dying but it's natural, it's part of life. We have no shortage of people buddy, these killer storms, psychotic shooters, and chemical attacks are not really horrible events, just events that affect us in a hurtful way. Sometimes you need to get a painful shot in the arm to keep you from getting an infection and experiencing something far worse. That's what those "sad stories" on the news usually are, tornado wipes out a bunch of people? Ouch that hurts, but at least we are one step closer to not starving ourselves to death as we poison our own air and water.
And on that note, I don't play games to escape reality, I play for the same reason that I watch movies, read books, and listen to music. To enjoy myself, feel something, or gain some perspective on life.