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Seydaman

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So, does anyone feel like they have hit a point where they spend more time looking for something to enjoy rather than actually enjoying stuff? I swear I spend more time looking for games to play than actually playing games.

This extends to other stuff too, it seems bizarre, I'm just bored of damn near everything. Anyone else have this, or have had, this happening?
 

Jux

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Might just be that you're growing away from gaming, or at least are in a lull. When you say 'bored of everything' do you mean everything, or just everything you normally do? Because 'everything' is a lot of stuff.
 

chozo_hybrid

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Find a new hobby. you may be burnt out on your current interests and need a break.
 

redmoretrout

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I know what you mean, I'm in the same boat. Unfortunately that means I really can't offer you any advice.
 

Happiness Assassin

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I'm 19 and I am stuck at home unable to get a job. I burnt out on all my old games and are looking to some old favorites. Right now I am on Oblivion. But I can't keep this up for much longer. I know what you mean.
 

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seydaman said:
Captcha: "What even"

So, does anyone feel like they have hit a point where they spend more time looking for something to enjoy rather than actually enjoying stuff? I swear I spend more time looking for games to play than actually playing games.

This extends to other stuff too, it seems bizarre, I'm just bored of damn near everything. Anyone else have this, or have had, this happening?
I'll agree with you. I have the same problem myself in nearly all walks of life - although I have solved my gaming boredom by buying FarCry3.

I'm getting to the point where I'm about to gather a resume for myself and find new work. Just one problem. I'm tired of working for people. I want my own kitchen again and there's just nothing out there, neitherr do I have the backings to start my own caper. It's getting to a point where I'm seriously thinking a career change is the only option for me...and this is an example that can relate to anything. As others have already said, you may well be burned out by the same old thing over and over again. Some people are perfectly fine living in their little 'Ground Hog Day' world. People such as ourselves may need to step back from things and do something else for a change.
 

Dwarfman

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Happiness Assassin said:
I'm 19 and I am stuck at home unable to get a job. I burnt out on all my old games and are looking to some old favorites. Right now I am on Oblivion. But I can't keep this up for much longer. I know what you mean.
You are unable to get a job? Or you just don't like what's available. I don't know the pay rates in America (sorry checked your bio for your nationality) but my advice is find a crappy job within or near-to the career you want to work in later in life, failing that become a glassy or dishwasher in a bar or restaurant. Yes the pay is crap but start at the bottom of the ladder where experience isn't necessary, and soon you will find yourself with money and hopefully resume material so you can get a better job.

Also. Once working a hard day, coming home tired and grumpy and needing to release your mind from work so you can sleep. Playing Oblivion - or any game really - becomes not just enjoyable. It becomes therapeutic as well.
 

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Dwarfman said:
Happiness Assassin said:
I'm 19 and I am stuck at home unable to get a job. I burnt out on all my old games and are looking to some old favorites. Right now I am on Oblivion. But I can't keep this up for much longer. I know what you mean.
You are unable to get a job? Or you just don't like what's available. I don't know the pay rates in America (sorry checked your bio for your nationality) but my advice is find a crappy job within or near-to the career you want to work in later in life, failing that become a glassy or dishwasher in a bar or restaurant. Yes the pay is crap but start at the bottom of the ladder where experience isn't necessary, and soon you will find yourself with money and hopefully resume material so you can get a better job.

Also. Once working a hard day, coming home tired and grumpy and needing to release your mind from work so you can sleep. Playing Oblivion - or any game really - becomes not just enjoyable. It becomes therapeutic as well.
Telling someone that dishwashing experience is going to help on a CV. It will not, unless the next job he applies for is also dishwashing. There is no working your way up from the bottom these days. You have to already have access to what you want to do, typically by working for free for ages so you can come ready trained to the position you want. Whatever happened to training as you work? Industries these days, all of them, are a joke.
 

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seydaman said:
Captcha: "What even"

So, does anyone feel like they have hit a point where they spend more time looking for something to enjoy rather than actually enjoying stuff? I swear I spend more time looking for games to play than actually playing games.

This extends to other stuff too, it seems bizarre, I'm just bored of damn near everything. Anyone else have this, or have had, this happening?
Amen mate, lifes getting abit dull and same same here. A change of pace is probably what we need, as others have said a small vacation or variation might be the best idea.

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Telling someone that dishwashing experience is going to help on a CV. It will not, unless the next job he applies for is also dishwashing. There is no working your way up from the bottom these days. You have to already have access to what you want to do, typically by working for free for ages so you can come ready trained to the position you want. Whatever happened to training as you work? Industries these days, all of them, are a joke.
America must be different then, since here in Australia I started as a delivery driver, then moved onto rolling out computers and printers (so the driving experience helped me get the job) and kept working my way up for the last 2 years. Currently I'm working for HP at HSBC, so unless the states is really that different which I doubt, it's possible. You just need the opportunity to arise, it's not quick, it took me a few years to get it, but it's there.
 

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Find something else to do, like something you wouldn't normally think you'd ever do.

Because you are not getting old until you hit around 60...fuck anyone that says this.
 

Dwarfman

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Alandoril said:
Dwarfman said:
Happiness Assassin said:
I'm 19 and I am stuck at home unable to get a job. I burnt out on all my old games and are looking to some old favorites. Right now I am on Oblivion. But I can't keep this up for much longer. I know what you mean.
You are unable to get a job? Or you just don't like what's available. I don't know the pay rates in America (sorry checked your bio for your nationality) but my advice is find a crappy job within or near-to the career you want to work in later in life, failing that become a glassy or dishwasher in a bar or restaurant. Yes the pay is crap but start at the bottom of the ladder where experience isn't necessary, and soon you will find yourself with money and hopefully resume material so you can get a better job.

Also. Once working a hard day, coming home tired and grumpy and needing to release your mind from work so you can sleep. Playing Oblivion - or any game really - becomes not just enjoyable. It becomes therapeutic as well.
Telling someone that dishwashing experience is going to help on a CV. It will not, unless the next job he applies for is also dishwashing. There is no working your way up from the bottom these days. You have to already have access to what you want to do, typically by working for free for ages so you can come ready trained to the position you want. Whatever happened to training as you work? Industries these days, all of them, are a joke.
Oi. My first job was as a dishpig and now years down the track I'm a fully qualified chef thankyou very much!

It may seem that way. The most important things to take from a crappy job like dishwashing is discipline and character. I know. I know. Bear with me here.

So you get said crappy job. You turn up on time. You come to work well presented - sure you're gonna look like shit afterwards but that's no excuse. You get the job done. You start to take orders without complaint and you start thinking for yourself "How am I going to go about all this shit so I can get it done in a quick and efficient manner". In the end what counts on that CV isn't you worked as a kitchen hand for six months at Blah! It's future employer rings up past employer and past employer says " Alandoril? Yeah! That bastard was awesome, keen to work and a pleasure to work with, why I'd hire him again myself!" That there my friend is your foot in the next door. Let's face it, is the employer going to choose out of two graduates the guy who has just graduated and is looking for work, or the guy who has just graduated and whilst looking for work found a job in between and has proven himself to be a capable worker? Also you'd have money!

As a tradey (Well a chef, but we're tradesmen) We received training - and still receive training - on the job and at college. I'm not sure about the white collar industry. But Aren't there internships you can apply for? Unless it's the computer industry. My brother is a software engineer and he's always complaining about the lack of internships in the IT industry to help train and develop the youngsters graduating.

Mind you all this 'old man' advice is coming from someone in Australia, I'm not sure how America works in these matters.
 

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this is pretty much my life in a nutshell, but I found getting a new HDTV sort of fixed a lot of it.

How did I live without HD for this long?
 

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Dwarfman said:
Alandoril said:
Dwarfman said:
Happiness Assassin said:
I'm 19 and I am stuck at home unable to get a job. I burnt out on all my old games and are looking to some old favorites. Right now I am on Oblivion. But I can't keep this up for much longer. I know what you mean.
You are unable to get a job? Or you just don't like what's available. I don't know the pay rates in America (sorry checked your bio for your nationality) but my advice is find a crappy job within or near-to the career you want to work in later in life, failing that become a glassy or dishwasher in a bar or restaurant. Yes the pay is crap but start at the bottom of the ladder where experience isn't necessary, and soon you will find yourself with money and hopefully resume material so you can get a better job.

Also. Once working a hard day, coming home tired and grumpy and needing to release your mind from work so you can sleep. Playing Oblivion - or any game really - becomes not just enjoyable. It becomes therapeutic as well.
Telling someone that dishwashing experience is going to help on a CV. It will not, unless the next job he applies for is also dishwashing. There is no working your way up from the bottom these days. You have to already have access to what you want to do, typically by working for free for ages so you can come ready trained to the position you want. Whatever happened to training as you work? Industries these days, all of them, are a joke.
Oi. My first job was as a dishpig and now years down the track I'm a fully qualified chef thankyou very much!

It may seem that way. The most important things to take from a crappy job like dishwashing is discipline and character. I know. I know. Bear with me here.

So you get said crappy job. You turn up on time. You come to work well presented - sure you're gonna look like shit afterwards but that's no excuse. You get the job done. You start to take orders without complaint and you start thinking for yourself "How am I going to go about all this shit so I can get it done in a quick and efficient manner". In the end what counts on that CV isn't you worked as a kitchen hand for six months at Blah! It's future employer rings up past employer and past employer says " Alandoril? Yeah! That bastard was awesome, keen to work and a pleasure to work with, why I'd hire him again myself!" That there my friend is your foot in the next door. Let's face it, is the employer going to choose out of two graduates the guy who has just graduated and is looking for work, or the guy who has just graduated and whilst looking for work found a job in between and has proven himself to be a capable worker? Also you'd have money!

As a tradey (Well a chef, but we're tradesmen) We received training - and still receive training - on the job and at college. I'm not sure about the white collar industry. But Aren't there internships you can apply for? Unless it's the computer industry. My brother is a software engineer and he's always complaining about the lack of internships in the IT industry to help train and develop the youngsters graduating.

Mind you all this 'old man' advice is coming from someone in Australia, I'm not sure how America works in these matters.
It's really not much different here in the U.S. The biggest thing is don't look at it like getting the job "for experience." Get any job any way you can because its easier to get a job if you already have one. That sounds weird, but it's true. The hardest times I've ever had finding employment came when I was jobless. The times I've wanted a change while I still had a job... I've gotten the new job I wanted with very little trouble. Usually upgrading pay and benefits.
 

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When I was on my summer holidays I got bored of everything, sometimes I would just watch tv for the hell of it. Gaming was boring and at the time I was out of episodes of my favourite shows to watch. I was unable to get a job (I''m nearly 20 and have never been employed, out of tons of resumes I have only ever had one interview...) so I took up practicing magic. Soon I want to start performing at children's parties. I'm studying to become a teacher so working with children is something I need to get used to doing.

My advice is try something new and enjoyable, magic is awesome and the reactions you get make everything worth it.
 

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Kyrian007 said:
It's really not much different here in the U.S. The biggest thing is don't look at it like getting the job "for experience." Get any job any way you can because its easier to get a job if you already have one. That sounds weird, but it's true. The hardest times I've ever had finding employment came when I was jobless. The times I've wanted a change while I still had a job... I've gotten the new job I wanted with very little trouble. Usually upgrading pay and benefits.[/quote]

I know, how weird is that. You have a job and someone you meet says "So you need a job?" Unemployed for a month or two? Nothin'.
 

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Alandoril said:
Telling someone that dishwashing experience is going to help on a CV. It will not, unless the next job he applies for is also dishwashing. There is no working your way up from the bottom these days.
Showing that you can hold down a job and stick to it on your resume is going to help, even if all you've done is something like dishwashing. Its not so much about your dishwashing skills qualifying you for a more complicated job, but about the general work experience you will get.
 

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Dwarfman said:
Some people are perfectly fine living in their little 'Ground Hog Day' world. People such as ourselves may need to step back from things and do something else for a change.
Far be it from me to say and largely petty and tangential; but is there a particular reason you're looking down on people who're satisfied with living like that?
 

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seydaman said:
Captcha: "What even"

So, does anyone feel like they have hit a point where they spend more time looking for something to enjoy rather than actually enjoying stuff? I swear I spend more time looking for games to play than actually playing games.

This extends to other stuff too, it seems bizarre, I'm just bored of damn near everything. Anyone else have this, or have had, this happening?
Sounds more like a chemical imbalance in your head than an issue with growing old. I've had the same issues before, and when it happened it was due to depression. Though mine was caused by not having a job, and I am used to working at least 10 hours a day (grew up on a farm). So evaluate your life and see what has changed. If you think you may be depressed, look into getting some help with it. Rapid changes in behavior patterns often denote some underlying issue.
 

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Jux said:
Might just be that you're growing away from gaming, or at least are in a lull. When you say 'bored of everything' do you mean everything, or just everything you normally do? Because 'everything' is a lot of stuff.

Yeah i fell out of gaming altogether for a long time.. and even now I only dabble in a few assorted free mmos (GW2, SWTOR, NW, CO, RIFT)... I write and draw, and am getting back into mini gaming... i like to have a variety of things to keep my mind and hands busy. If i feel myself getting bored, i switch it up before it becomes a chore..so i can come back to it sooner rather than later.
 

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Totally understand where you're coming from. I still enjoy gaming but man am I just getting tired of looking for things to catch my interest. WoW, LoL are the majority of what I play and you can understand how I'm getting burnt out.

Bioshock Infinite was a blast and somewhat sparked my interest again but after playing them through twice I just don't see a reason to go back to it.

Been playing lots of guitar and reading to make up for my lack of gaming.