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Silent Protagonist said:
ObsidianJones said:
Silent Protagonist said:
Usually gun rights advocates use the more pragmatic "the time it takes for a home invader to do harm to me and my loved ones is significantly shorter than the time it takes the police to respond to a 911 call" argument rather than a "I don't trust the cops because of racial history" argument, but the former has been falling on deaf ears for years. Apparently there can only be two all encompassing sets of beliefs now and the anti-gun stuff is usually lumped in with the police prejudice stuff so maybe your way will gain more traction. At least the topic isn't women's self defense where you get those bizarre "Women shouldn't have to defend themselves, criminals just shouldn't do crime" arguments.
Though I will say if you do ever find yourself in a situation where you need to use a gun to defend yourself,even if you don't need to fire a shot, you absolutely should get the police involved, even if only after the fact.
I'll take it under advisement, but I have to weigh it against police actions [https://newsone.com/playlist/black-men-boy-who-were-killed-by-police/item/2]
I more meant in the sense that you probably won't be a home invaders first or last, and notifying the police can help lead to their arrest and prevent more innocent people being harmed. And if you are their last, it's probably a lot safer to let the coroner handle disposal than to try to do it yourself.
Dark jokes aside, I'd like to try to encourage you to take a step back and try not to let examples and statistics from the internet color your opinions of entire groups of people. Confirmation bias plus internet can be a terrible combination. I know this is impossible, and I don't mean to suggest your views are wrong or unwarranted. Let me share with you a personal experience/realization I had. I used to live/work in a city with a substantial black population. I experienced several cases of anti-white racism from black people during that time, and there was no shortage of further examples to be found online. I began to have anxiety when encountering strangers who were black because I was worried what they thought of me as a white stranger, if they hated me for being white or thought I secretly hated them for being black. This was cured pretty quick when I realized how much easier it would be for a black person to fall into this same trap. I was negatively affected by a few real world experiences and a handful of fringe bigots on the internet. I realized that they not only have to deal with those things but an entire history and culture of those bigoted attitudes, and all in far greater magnitudes than what i had experienced. I knew that realization didn't make the things that happened to me any less bigoted and wrong, or that it was any less likely that some of the people around me harbored unspoken prejudices against me because of my race. But I learned that by dwelling on it and worrying about it that it was poisoning me and probably becoming a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy. That's the horrible thing about bigotry is that it feeds into itself and experiencing it tends to create more of it.
On a lighter(?) note, what kind of ammo do you use for your shotgun? Do you keep any non-lethal types on hand? I don't own a gun myself but the people I've spoken to that have a shotgun for home defense usually tell me they keep it loaded with one or two non-lethal shells such as salt or beanbags to fire first, followed up by more conventional(and deadly) shells if that doesn't scare them off. What is your philosophy on this?
So, it's probably best that I spell out what I'd actually do in a situation if it occurred.
If there was rustling in my house at night that woke me up, I would know something is wrong because there wouldn't be anyone downstairs to rustle. That means a clear cut intruder.
I would unlock my shotgun, I would load it, I would open the door and call out as loudly as I can that I have a shotgun and I have called the police.
I will not seek out. I do not want to engage. I just want the person out of the house. If they come upstairs and to me at that time, it would be impossible and foolhardy to assume the intruder has the best of intentions. They know I'm armed, they believe the police are on the way, and they were given warning of each of these situations. I haven't seen them, so any further attempts to come towards me at this point, thinking anything other than ominous is playing with one's life.
Either/or, I am not going to dispose of anything. If the burglar leaves, wonderful. That's all I want. If other matters have to occur, the outcome is still going to be the same. I will go to the police station in person. I will explain the entire situation. I'm not foolhardy to think that the situation will be all wiped under the carpet because of something like the Castle Doctrine. I do know that the police will have to be involved, as they should be.
But I am going to take every opportunity to make sure that I'm not going to be harmed by the intruder and the police. And yes, I have more concern of cops than I do criminals. I have concern with anyone where there's a power imbalance in their favor. A cop is a human. Not a sainted Evolution of Man. If a job's responsibilities were enough to transcend everything that makes a human unpredictable, then our adminstration would have been handled a lot different than it has been for the last three years.
You never, EVER keep a weapon loaded. You do not. For several levels of safety. On the mild end, you hear stories about shells warping in the tube.
Guns in their own safe. Shells in another.
But for the loading, I'll make a judgment call. I'll particularly want to do less than lethal for the very reason that I don't want anyone to die by my actions. But combat loading can make it so that if I have to make that final choice, I can do it.
Silvanus said:
I keep my weapon as simply a matter of making the best of a bad situation. I'm too poor to afford professional security, live in a country where the police can ignore 911 calls and are under no obligation to protect me, and een if they were, the response time here is measured in hours. When it comes to self defense, I'm on my own.
I can understand an individual's choice to own a gun when living in a society in which they are already commonplace. What I can't understand is the citizenry as a group being willing to allow that situation to continue, at their own safety's expense.
If I can answer this? It's because it's not the tool, it's the person behind it and their intent. Almost every person who had an actual crime in my life committed against them, it was the majority just bigger numbers.
My cousin was jumped in Brooklyn just because some roughnecks wanted to prove how big they were. My childhood best friend was jumped repeatedly for the the one time he worn a chain and his Tommy Hilfinger clothes. An online friend now has permanent brain damage because some kids in Virginia Beach decided they wanted to fuck with him while he was relieving himself in an alley. I remember going to a girl's house whom I was dating at the time, and having her telling me they were waiting on the Stoop with a guy who was jumped by some guys for reasons we never found out.
Safer is a relative term. Of course I will be safer from the risk of being shot if guns vanish tomorrow. That doesn't mean I'm safer from being jumped that next day. Or stabbed. Or anything. As a person without criminal intent, I can just summon people to hang out with me at all times because we're safer with bigger numbers. People with criminal intent and see their job being relieving me and others of the money we work for? Yeah, they can find similar minded people to do that all day. Or all night.
The facts are, we all live with dangerous different than other people even in our own neighborhoods. We all have to find ways to mitigate and try to live with these dangers. None of you know what it is like to be me. I have no idea what it is like to be any of you and how you find ways to survive the days. Some of you don't even think about it because danger is that muted for you. And those people are so lucky.
But we all don't have that. And that's the truth.