Nice guys finish last.... but if they didnt they would just be one of the ex'sTheLoneBeet said:
lol ya i know about women treating nice guys like a doormat...
Guys are jerks. But girls...?
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lol ya i know about women treating nice guys like a doormat...
Haha oh violence... thats why i dont mess with sleeping people and why my friends dont mess with me after i shot one of them point blank with a CO2 powered airsoft pistol i keep under my pillow... atleast i dont keep a real gun under it right?Shadow flame master said:
I usually hear more stories about men being mistreated by women, from my all-female family and mostly-female extended family. I don't really hear much about these asshole guys stealing money, virginity and self-respect whenever they can from women... except on Judge Judy.
That is to say, I can't really say. I personally haven't been mistreated by women that much, and when I was it wasn't limited to just the girls being jerks, so again I wouldn't know. Maybe I just don't understand the question?
That is to say, I can't really say. I personally haven't been mistreated by women that much, and when I was it wasn't limited to just the girls being jerks, so again I wouldn't know. Maybe I just don't understand the question?
the stuff in the FB post kinda reminds me of a couple experiences...i can't say the girls i've pursued are dicks, but they definitely had/have their faults, just as i do. i'm not worried about it, because we're all equals here. all in the same boat.
I have been beaten, robbed and inappropriately touched by women (not all at the same time, sometimes more than once). I'm not counting things like insults and leaving me hanging on their part of a group project (oddly enough, this has only happened to me at university) because they seem to petty to really be worth bothering about (although writing someone else's have of your programming final the night before your Chinese final is not fun). On all the more serious occasions listed the girls in question were never punished, the idea of girls ganging up and attacking a guy was never taken seriously, and I was forced several times to write them letters of apology for even voicing the complaint. Aren't double standards wonderful?
There really is no excuse for it, a traumatic childhood does affect you, but why hurt someone else, I had a traumatic childhood and I don't feel the need to go around inflicting further pain on others. As for the other "you were never there for me" that is a legitimate reason to LEAVE them not to CHEAT on them. "He Treats me better" if anyone ever said that to me I would punch them in the face especially if it's in the non-existent context present above.Cheshire the Cat said:
Regarding the Facebook cap, I think some of the comments in here are absolutely spot on. Why is she accepting his gifts if she's uninterested? And I will never, EVER understand why some women seriously believe that consent must be explicit but dissent can be implicit. Until this girl said "I'm not interested" and said she did not want his gifts, blaming him for "not getting it" is victim-blaming, plain and simple. It is *not* this boy's fault for struggling to parse the mixed signals when he is of the gender on which lies all the pressure to take the initiative in the romantic arena. And the fact that some posters are indulging in it just touches on the double standards rampant in our society.
And, as a few people touched on, you're more likely to be punched in the face by a woman than by a man, especially in public; frankly, I'd rather that if someone were going to hit me, I'd be able to defend myself, which one cannot do without fear of insanely disproportionate reprisal when a woman strikes you.
And, as a few people touched on, you're more likely to be punched in the face by a woman than by a man, especially in public; frankly, I'd rather that if someone were going to hit me, I'd be able to defend myself, which one cannot do without fear of insanely disproportionate reprisal when a woman strikes you.
He may have not taken a hint, but if her immature behavior and avoidance of simply outright telling him to fuck off don't scream mean-spirited ***** I don't know what does. This is coming from a female, by the way. Guys can be thick, but she outright and unapologetically used him for her own personal gain, never TELLING him to stop. She just reaped the benefits and ran, every single time. The accepting of the gifts was a positive sign, and then she followed them up with negative signs. How can you blame him for not knowing what to do with the mixed signals? He never got an outright no, so he had no reason to stop.GigaHz said:
I was stressed one day, and accidently snapped at my ex. I of course profusely apologized and clearly stated I was in the wrong for doing so and she didn't deserve to be yelled at. This was the first and last time I ever yelled at her. Instead of proving she understood who I was and asked what was wrong, she proceeded to treat me like shit, piling on uneccessary stress that I didn't need. What makes it worse is that I wasted 12 months of my time treating her as best I could and she couldn't return it once when I needed it.
Umm, first of all, he accepted the consequences of his own actions after each bad decision. He didn't go on Facebook and complain that girls were ruining his life after each time she hurt him. In fact, the only reason he DID post that at all was to offer a counterexample to her comment. He even admitted that guys can be dicks with his post.GigaHz said:Hate to say it, but if that story is rooted in truth, the guy is a moron.DrgoFx said:Just to clarify, I was encouraged to do this through this image:
-Year 7, chump does group project himself. Doesn't realize girl has no respect for him
-Year 8, chump sends way too many valentines cards, plus gifts. Still doesn't get the hint.
-Year 9, chump asks girl to dance with him. Girl, who is classy enough not to get a restraining order on the creep, decides to mess with him. Chump literally waits a full 2 hours for the girl to get out of the bathroom. If that doesn't scream moron I don't know what does.
-Year 10, chump in a fit a retardation buys girl tickets for some concert, when he should have just given her one and held on to the other. Girl, suddenly having more than one ticket decides to take friend instead of the guy who never really thought the plan through.
- Year 11, chump broadcasts his terrible decisions to the public in order to garner sympathy. He does receive sympathy, but not for what he intended.
- Year 12, suicide (hopefully)
Basically, he accepted the consequences of his own actions like any adult should. She, on the other hand, blamed her problems on guys without even backing up her claims.
ohhh i try to be nice but, you get me on a bad day, ie, the time of the month, or when im just pissy, be ready for an earful or a kick in the junk.
To be honest, I never really thought about it. But now that I am, I agree with a lot of the posts here. Guys, if they're a dick, it's just plain fucking obvious. Girls... As many people have surely said, they are much more subtle about it. Hell, I know the feeling. Another thing is they tend to act like the victim. For example, they wave their ass at some guy, but freak the fuck out when that guy says they're attracted to them or something. Actually, now that I think about it, those types of girls aren't necessarily dicks, they're more bipolar and stupid. Except that girl in that facebook photo. She's just an asshole.
I've never been mistreated by a man, but as a girl, I can assure you that yes, girls can be dicks. Absolutely.
Also, as a point of interest. Out of my parents, it's definitely my mother who wins the prize for 'bigger dick'. And it's not like my dad can't be a dick, because he can. Mum's just waaaay better at it.
Also, as a point of interest. Out of my parents, it's definitely my mother who wins the prize for 'bigger dick'. And it's not like my dad can't be a dick, because he can. Mum's just waaaay better at it.