Giving my track record , I'd probably punch her in the face. Figuratively. I'd probably be weirded out and never talk to her again while feeling a bit egotistical because of my own awesomeness.
Guys (or girls I guess): How would you react to this?
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I'd probably be weirded out. I don't find any of my friends attractive, because they are just that, friends, and nothing else. I'm not homophobic in any way, but I'm not even remotely interested in men, not even with "healthy curiosity", so to speak.
I hope I dont sound like an insensitive prick for asking this, but I kind of want to know, now that you mention it. Is it really easier for homosexuals to get laid? I realize that gays are a minority, but you often get the impression from the media and stories you hear (both completely reliable sources, indeed.) that homosexuals are far more open with their sexuality, so to speak?theemporer said:
I've always sort of thought that impression was just a result of the media, but now that you say it's easier to have sex than a relationship, I got kind of curious. Is there any truth in this at all?
I'd do what I normally do.
Not know what to say, say nothing for quite a while which would create an awkward silence thus making the guy feel really uncomfortable, and that leads to him thinking he did something wrong. Eventually, I really do mean that, I'd tell him I'm flattered and I don't know what to think or do, and see what happens from there after talking about it for a while.
Oh how being social awkward can make things go horribly wrong. FUN!!
Not know what to say, say nothing for quite a while which would create an awkward silence thus making the guy feel really uncomfortable, and that leads to him thinking he did something wrong. Eventually, I really do mean that, I'd tell him I'm flattered and I don't know what to think or do, and see what happens from there after talking about it for a while.
Oh how being social awkward can make things go horribly wrong. FUN!!
Well... I've been through this situation more than a few times within the last few months alone.
Probably didn't handle it the best of ways, but being bisexual/omnisexual prevents you from having a decent excuse other than "I have a girlfriend" >.>
That... still didn't go over well but at least it's somewhat blown over.
In the sense that they all pretty much hate me now and I don't see them anymore >.>f
Probably didn't handle it the best of ways, but being bisexual/omnisexual prevents you from having a decent excuse other than "I have a girlfriend" >.>
That... still didn't go over well but at least it's somewhat blown over.
In the sense that they all pretty much hate me now and I don't see them anymore >.>f
Turn them down gently.
I got a non too subtle hint of my friend walking up to me while I was changing in the gym changing room and cup my lower private area and say hey in a sexy way. I'll admit, threw me off a bit, but then I realized it was John, and said you know I dont swing that way, though I'm flattered. You'll find someone, just keep looking.
... he still dotes after me like a lost puppy though. But he does know its not happening and chooses to (and my other friends). Especially after an incident withthe WBC.
I got a non too subtle hint of my friend walking up to me while I was changing in the gym changing room and cup my lower private area and say hey in a sexy way. I'll admit, threw me off a bit, but then I realized it was John, and said you know I dont swing that way, though I'm flattered. You'll find someone, just keep looking.
... he still dotes after me like a lost puppy though. But he does know its not happening and chooses to (and my other friends). Especially after an incident withthe WBC.
Punch em in the balls then say "Yeah thats what you just told me did to my brain, now you're gonna forget that feeling and I'm gonna forget you ever said that as well as I can"
It's part of my code Bros before hoes, but bro on bro is a no no and if the hoes is REALLY fine, well just understand I need to get mine.
Or I'll do what I did last time a girl I didn't like that way tried asking me out, say "Urm..." until my best friend breaks off the convo by butting in.
It's part of my code Bros before hoes, but bro on bro is a no no and if the hoes is REALLY fine, well just understand I need to get mine.
Or I'll do what I did last time a girl I didn't like that way tried asking me out, say "Urm..." until my best friend breaks off the convo by butting in.
Immediately feel awkward and start laughing/cracking jokes and try to change the subject.
I'd be flattered I guess, but when someone is as blunt as "I wanted to fuck you" I'd just get really weirded out, no matter who says that to me. Tact is a wonderful thing to have, guys.
I'd be flattered I guess, but when someone is as blunt as "I wanted to fuck you" I'd just get really weirded out, no matter who says that to me. Tact is a wonderful thing to have, guys.
Been there, done that, have the T-shirt.
On top of everything else, it turns out I'm not even as completely straight as I thought I was at the time. She just wasn't my type. (Too neurotic, for one.)
On top of everything else, it turns out I'm not even as completely straight as I thought I was at the time. She just wasn't my type. (Too neurotic, for one.)
Happened to me. My immediate response was "and the award for futile efforts go to.., seriously do you feel better having confessed?" He said no, I called him a queen and things went on as usual.
Another time, a girl a grade level below me confessed to me that she loved me. I liked her but had to explain to her that I'm never going to have a relationship with someone I'm not physically attracted to, no matter how much I may like them as a person.
On the other side of things I've only ever managed to confess my feelings to women who, unbeknown to me at the time, already had boyfriends. How fucking hard is it to tell the guy your FLIRTING with and HANGING on that your already seeing someone?
My most agonizing confession goes to my friend Sarah, she is the kindest, hottest, nerdy lesbian you'll ever find. We met about 2 months into college, when she called me out on staring at her and her GF, at the time, making out in a park. We ended up hanging out daily for over 3 years till she graduated and moved back home. She basically felt for me the same way I felt for my underclassmen, she probably loves me as much as I do her but she will never be attracted to me.
It's heart wrenching, and more than a little frustrating, to know the woman of your dreams and know that she'll never, under any circumstances, will ever want to fuck you.
Another time, a girl a grade level below me confessed to me that she loved me. I liked her but had to explain to her that I'm never going to have a relationship with someone I'm not physically attracted to, no matter how much I may like them as a person.
On the other side of things I've only ever managed to confess my feelings to women who, unbeknown to me at the time, already had boyfriends. How fucking hard is it to tell the guy your FLIRTING with and HANGING on that your already seeing someone?
My most agonizing confession goes to my friend Sarah, she is the kindest, hottest, nerdy lesbian you'll ever find. We met about 2 months into college, when she called me out on staring at her and her GF, at the time, making out in a park. We ended up hanging out daily for over 3 years till she graduated and moved back home. She basically felt for me the same way I felt for my underclassmen, she probably loves me as much as I do her but she will never be attracted to me.
It's heart wrenching, and more than a little frustrating, to know the woman of your dreams and know that she'll never, under any circumstances, will ever want to fuck you.
