Have you ever had a gay (same sex) experience?

[mechalynx]

"Member" is a synonym for penis. Generally used as a more "politically correct" term, or apparently "romance" novels. I've never read one, but apparently the word penis ruins the feel of romance for some people.

I guess, which is why we have romantic and erotic terms like "raging schlong" and "tumescent sex rod". "Member" makes it sound like your dick is part of a cult.

Maybe.. I'm pretty sure that my husbands' "pink torpedo" worships me.

LOL, I just wanted to mark your post in my history.

 

[Souther Thorn]

Several, but found I enjoy women better, and the wife is thankful (occasionally though, Oh...some of those boys just give me the shimmies)

 

[Vareoth]

I'm gay so the answer would be yea. Don't really know what I should add since this isn't really the place to be talking about the details.

 

[Beffudled Sheep_v1legacy]

When I was 9 - 10ish and first hit puberty I fucked around with a few friends and one of them was male.

Well that's remarkably early ._.

Anyway OT: Nope. Going with the crowd of straight males who surprise surprise, don't find men attractive.

I kinda want to see the world from the perspective of a gay guy/woman, just to see what about it is so sexy.

I blame all the hormones in modern fast foods and cheap processed foods for my early puberty

 

[AngloDoom]

I'm more interested in how many homosexual individuals have had a 'straight' experience, I'll be honest. I find it funny how many times my gay friend has had girls 'jokingly' trying to lure him into bed and how very awkward he gets.

OT: Yeah, I'm a curious person so if I've ever wondered 'I wonder what it'd be like to do [x]' then I make a point of doing [x] on the next opportunity that presents itself.
My ultimate goal in life is to have sex with Johnny Depp so I can laugh at the legions of woman who faint every time he so much as sighs in a wistful way.

 

[Jenvas1306]

well, I am a girl and I did have some dates with girls, even had my first kiss with one. If you can call that homosexual experiances, well Id tend to do so even back then for them it wasnt like that. By now I am very sure that girls arent for me and I am glad I never tried to go any further

 

[Silvanus]

I'm primarily gay, myself; having had one 6-month relationship, one friends-with-benefits agreement, and one case of a straight guy "experimenting" (barely).


I'm not quite sure how I feel about girls. I can't really imagine myself having a sustained relationship with one any more, and yet the longest crush I ever had was on one. (On one? That sounds... uhrm, strange. "With one"? A crush "with" her? A crush... nevermind).

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Yeah, once, after taking a bucket load of Es. A guy picked me up (basically saved me!) walking with no shoes into on coming traffic on a dual carriage way after I got booted from a rave. Turned out he was gay, it all sort of happened and I woke with him cuddling me on a mattress in his living room. Freaked out but quietly, the cuddling bit was the most uncomfortable bit, so gave him a false number, went home, cried, panicked, told my Mum, who was very cool, never done it since. Kind of clarified I am not gay but, you know, equally, the world didn't end.

Once made mistake of telling one of my mates, who I'd always considered wildly open minded, and he was really, really disgusted so I had to backtrack and say it was a wind up. That clarified how bigoted people can be; very odd, he'd never criticise someone who was gay or even not include them in any group, we know plenty of gay people who come out for beers with us, it simply wouldn't be an issue, but the moment it was a close friend he couldn't deal with it.

See I find that weird- My experience with MDMA/ecstasy is that I lose all ability to comprehend sex (much to the frustration of a former girlfriend of mine). I've kissed one of my friends a couple of times on it, but it was more because it didn't feel gay that we did it (there were no tongues, I should probably stress here). I honestly don't think I could ever sleep with a guy on it, but I'd probably end up hugging them for hours.

 

[GroovySpecs]

I did once, it was with a long time friend when we were in our last year at univerity. I had never questioned my sexual identity up to that point and even now I wouldn't really identify myself as bisexual. I find other women asthetically pleasing and the fact I grew up in a household with a very conservative mindset made the whole thing feel exciting and naughty, like I was breaking the rules, but I don't feel the same purely sexual attraction to other women that I feel towards men.

That said it was a very eye opening experience and quite enjoyable. I am confident I know what I want from a relationship and that I want a relationship with a man, there is something about the emotional dynamic between a man and a woman that really makes a relationship what is it (I'm only speaking for myself here). That said, being single I wouldn't be oposed to repeating the experience with the right person.

The friend with whom I shared that experience decided a short while afterwards that she was in fact gay and was far happier in herself having discovered that. While nothing else happened between us (obviously) we have remained very close friends and we both regard it as something very special we shared.

Addition - Having read that back to myself and considering how I have never shared any of that before I'm suddenly quite taken aback that I just did

 

[FalloutJack]

I'm not sure I even know that many gay guys, or at least know if any of the people I know are gay. In any case, the answer's no.

 

[Leemaster777]

Well... there was that time in that gay bar where that deaf guy humped my leg. Does that count?

Okay, context time. I was with one of my friends, and we were walking around the Ybor area during Gasparilla. For those unaware, Gasparilla is a yearly pirate festival that happens in Florida. Fun times.

Anyways, she has alot of gay friends, so she wanted to go see some of them that night. We ended up going to a few gay bars to see her friends. Not gay myself, but I didn't have an issue. In one of the bars, we met two of her friends, a deaf gay couple. One of them was one of those over-the-top guys, and he (jokingly) humped my leg. His partner was apologetic, but I thought it was funny, too.

And... that's about it.

 

[GroovySpecs]

Y'know, it's a mystery to me how anybody, man or woman, can find the male body attractive, even a perfectly formed and healthy male body. It's all squarish at the top, the sides are too straight, the limbs are all lumpy and there's no squishy bits, unless he's fat. Also, male genitals are just downright comical.

Funny, I felt the same until I asked a girl what she thought about guy's bodies...and...it was the wrong move on my part! And she nearly blew my mind.

Let's just say girls are a HELL of a lot more perverse than guys would want to imagine. She was anything but modest or gawky about it, and when she went into super detail about things that turned her on...well...what's been heard, can't be unheard. Shit that's never crossed my mind. Shit that would have /b/ on 4chan going...0.o

We sure are, and you can bet there was still more she didn't tell you. Trust me when I say that in 99% of cases where a man complains his wife or girlfriend isn't adventurous enough in the bedroom, its either because hes never had the courage to actually talk to her about experimenting sexually or because she doesn't believe he will react well if he she tells him what she really wants. Women are just as perverse and have just as many kinks as men, we're just more private about it.

 

[TallanKhan]

I haven't ever had such an experience myself. I am not fundamentally opposed to the idea, if I met a guy I was attracted to I wouldn't rule out anything just because of his gender, however, to date I have never met a guy I have had any attraction towards.

 

[an annoyed writer]

I did once, it was with a long time friend when we were in our last year at univerity. I had never questioned my sexual identity up to that point and even now I wouldn't really identify myself as bisexual. I find other women asthetically pleasing and the fact I grew up in a household with a very conservative mindset made the whole thing feel exciting and naughty, like I was breaking the rules, but I don't feel the same purely sexual attraction to other women that I feel towards men.

That said it was a very eye opening experience and quite enjoyable. I am confident I know what I want from a relationship and that I want a relationship with a man, there is something about the emotional dynamic between a man and a woman that really makes a relationship what is it (I'm only speaking for myself here). That said, being single I wouldn't be oposed to repeating the experience with the right person.

The friend with whom I shared that experience decided a short while afterwards that she was in fact gay and was far happier in herself having discovered that. While nothing else happened between us (obviously) we have remained very close friends and we both regard it as something very special we shared.

Addition - Having read that back to myself and considering how I have never shared any of that before I'm suddenly quite taken aback that I just did

I can see why you were taken aback by what you did. You did more there than just have some gay experience: you helped your friend find herself! You deserve a puppy fistbump!

 

[Patrick Buck]

Kissed a dude once. That was about it. It was a jokey thing.

'part from that, no, not really.

 

[Julius Terrell]

I've had quite a few experiences I'd much rather date someone transgendered. Someone passible. I love tits and ass like other men, but I do love really pretty boys. I just don't meet them too often. I'd date a really pretty guy if he was attracted to me. I'm still attracted to femininity by and the more feminine the better in my book.

I watch a lot of yaoi and a lot of the boys on those shows are really pretty! ^_^

I guess it's a good thing I'm bi. I've struggled a lot with women in my adult years.

 

[Starik20X6]

I've never done anything with another guy, find nothing attractive about men, and the thought of kissing a guy almost makes me want to gag[footnote]Just to be clear, I've got no problem with other guys kissing each other, it's just the thought of another guys lips touching mine that makes me squeamish somehow...[/footnote]. However, I have had curious thoughts more than once. I doubt I'll ever act on it though, seeing as any and all curiosity evaporates the moment a pretty girl crosses my path.

 

[MrMixelPixel]

I'm married to another woman... I think it answer it

Ah I see, polygamist eh?

OT: ehhh, not really, I've gotten up close with males and the like, hugging, kissing, etc. But never really in a sexual way. I licked a guys face once, but was to prove a point. Nothing sexual about it.

 

[Shocksplicer]

Depends on what you mean by "gay same sex experience", but i've been felt up by a guy, and recieved a couple of lap dances. All from the same guy now that I think of it... I think I may have a chance here...

 

[Talvrae]

I'm married to another woman... I think it answer it

Ah I see, polygamist eh?

euh no not at all, we are only us 2, 2 girls