Help for a married man please!!

[Spyalt]

don't listen to the bull about cheating, you'll kick yourself at various points in the future for it, trust me

Your own experience is not the be all and end all mate.

agreed, I just thought it was important that someone who wasn't just a raging ball of teenage testosterone showed him the consequences of that path

No, the possible consequences. Hell for all we know his wife could ask the other women to join in.

 

[Caliostro]

Hey guys,
Got an interesting problem which im hoping you can give me some advise on. Here goes. Im married but lately ive also had two of my female friends trying to become more then friends if you know what i mean. So my question would be does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can get them to back off alil. Its not like they dont know im married either.

Well, here's a thought: "I'm married, fuck off".

If you wanna be gentle: "I'm happily married, I don't wanna do this."

It's really not complicated, you seem to dominate the English language enough to construct such simple sentences, so the question isn't HOW do you tell them you don't want, but whether you honestly don't want it.

 

[Nightfalke]

tell your wife and she will make sure they go away... My girfriend did and this girl tried to get on to me in a bar

This. No good can come from women hitting on you while you are in a relationship.

 

[Krakyn]

Hit that, brother.

 

[chumpzilla_69]

Just keep yo' pimp hand strong

 

[LethalBargi]

discuss the topic with your wife, and tell her u will talk with these woman to back off, honesty is the key for a successful marriage.

 

[Baby Tea]

Hey guys,
Got an interesting problem which im hoping you can give me some advise on. Here goes. Im married but lately ive also had two of my female friends trying to become more then friends if you know what i mean. So my question would be does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can get them to back off alil. Its not like they dont know im married either.

Get away from them.
I'm a married guy too (A year this May!) and were I in that situation, I'd tell them flat out 'no'. And if they didn't get the hint, cut 'em off completely.

I think trying not to be harsh is the wrong approach. Why? Well, not being harsh is a respectful way to tell someone something. However, these women aren't being very respectful of you, OR your wife, if they are going after you even though they are fully aware of your marriage.

They obviously aren't good friends because they are being selfish, with no regard for your wife or your marriage. Get rid of 'em.

If you're happy with your wife and truly love her, then the guilt will be unbearable if you went through with anything. I know I wouldn't be able to look my wife in the eye ever again. You'll crush her trust for you, and that will take a very very long time, if ever, to regain. Not worth it.

If you aren't happy with your wife (Which doesn't seem to be the case, but just in case you aren't), then either get counseling, or do her the courtesy of a divorce. Running around behind her back is a selfish cowards choice. I'm not saying you want this! I'm just throwing it out there.

And, again: Cheating = selfish coward.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

Poligamy FTW!

But seriously, just tell them you're not interested, unless you are, in wich case you might want to go for it.

For the love of God don't follow my advice.

 

[Killerabbit]

yeah, take em out for dinner, and for the entire meal say things like "Im so glad I have friends like you", tell them how amazing your wife is and if you havnt already, how you wanna have kids with her. Tried, tested, and works.

 

[a51himself]

be honest or lie and tell them you just found out your having kids