Help please (with a girl)

[Pegghead]

Sort it out with your friend. Enough said.

 

[IanBrazen]

Your friend already called it.

Sorry to put it like that but asking her out right after he tells you he likes her is a pretty shitty thing to do.

I agree.
U missed the opportunity friend.
Forgive me if im wrong, but you sound like your in highschool, and every kid at that age (includeing me) gets that highschool crush and thinks shes the one, but they arent, not by a long shot.
Next time dont wait, and even if she says no, dont sweat it.
Believe me, rejection is not as bad as you think (im an expert)
If she says no, dont make a big deal, in turn she wont either and you will go back to being friends, or whatever you were to begin with.

So let your friend have this one, and dont sweat it, there are plenty of other fish in the sea give it time my friend.

[HEADING=1]Bro's before hoes, man[/HEADING]

Well said my brother.
If she will put something between you and your friend, no one should have her.

 

[Volkade]

A few ideas, all of which will get you two things. The girl, and prison.
#1 Chloroform, it's finding it that's the hard bit.
#2 Kill your friend, get her to show at the funeral, then "comfort" her.
#3 Ask her out, if she declines, punch her in the face.
#4 What that dude said, get a ghillie suit and follow her.

Here are some that mean you don't go to prison
Just try to show up your friend, without making it look intentional.
Do what every other person here has said and talk to your friend.
If it's possible, try and befriend one of her friends.
If your friend is truly friend-zoned and you've talked to him, get him to host a party or some shit and invite her, talk to her then. With that idea if you say something stupid you can blame it on the drink.

 

[DemonicVixen]

So, to start off, I've known this girl for a good 10 weeks, but just in the past week have I started talking to her. She is pretty and smart, and I like her. Just in the past 3 days I've had a conversation with her for the first time (over facebook.... yeah i know :\) and we don't really know each other real well. I have thought about asking her out on a whim, but here is where I need some advice.

Yeah i think we have a problem right there [quote\]we don't really know each other real well. I have thought about asking her out on a whim[/quote]Come off it. You admited you barely know her but you say she considers your friend to be more of a friend so i assume she has known him longer or else been talking to him more. If this is the case then you really need to back off and let your friend have a go because if your only going to ask her on a "whim" then its not worth your friendship if it fails or succeeds and hurts your friend.

 

[Crazycat690]

Asking people wont give you world-dominance, so in short, SHOW NO MERCY!!!

 

[Goldeneye103X2]

Start talking to her any time you have a chance, and then.....

JUMP THE SHARK!

Seriously though, you will have to, if you want any chance.

and you should also talk to your other friend to try and sort something out. But my main adive is just.....

Jump the shark.

 

[Jammerz]

Ask her out and if she says no sing "Don't Stop Believing" to her untill she says yes

 

[Pimppeter2]

He called it. Its done.

Bros over Hoes.


I would know, I am a pimp

 

[SirDeadly]

Don't betray ur friend (mine betrayed me and now I don't care if he gets brutally murdered, dumped in a ditched and is mauled by wild dogs).

 

[Littlee300]

Maybe talk to your friend about it /:

 

[Deleted]

Bro rule: guy who likes her first has to make a move fast or the friend can come in, minimum waiting period of a week.

 

[The Buck Stops Here]

There is a way to adhere to bros before hoes and still bag the girl: work together on baggin' her, and tag team raw daddy her if you know what i mean

 

[RN7]

Talk to your friend about this. Let him know about your feelings towards the girl, and see where it goes from there.

 

[Altorin]

sounds like the beginning of a Shakespearian Tragedy to me

If you don't want drama, I'd side-step it as much as possible

 

[Deadpewl]

Looking for love advice on the internet? On a gaming forum? What the fu-

Seriously though, bros before hoes. Talk to your friend about it first.

 

[Tourette]

Life is too short to faff around. If your mate is a true mate, leave her be as women come and go but true mates stay forever.
If he is a fairweather friend, jump in and ask her out quick as i'm sure he would do the same if the shoe was on the other foot.
Better still, don't bother with chicks on the internet, go out and socialise more and meet a girl that way as it is more fun.

Hope you get it sorted anyway and good luck.

 

[InsertWittyName]

Hopeless with the opposite sex, December Edition, 2009.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Its simple, you challenge your friend to

[HEADING=1]MORTAL KOMBAT[/HEADING]

 

[Earthbound Engineer]

So, to start off, I've known this girl for a good 10 weeks, but just in the past week have I started talking to her. She is pretty and smart, and I like her. Just in the past 3 days I've had a conversation with her for the first time (over facebook.... yeah i know :\) and we don't really know each other real well. I have thought about asking her out on a whim, but here is where I need some advice.

My friend of 2 years recently started taking interest in this girl, and has been pretty open about it and talks to her a lot. If I'm not mistaken she considers him more as a friend than anything serious. He has no idea I like her, and he even told me yesterday that he was thinking of asking her out this week or next week.

I like this girl quite a bit but don't know her so well, and I'm not sure if she would be interested in me or not. I want to ask her out, but don't really want to rush things - or do I? I just don't want to give up the chance to ask her out because if my friend does then my chance is lost (granted she says yes). What should I do? Should I let this opportunity slip away and give my friend a chance? or do I go for it? (I don't think he'd be too mad if I went out with her).

You and your friend have to back off for a while and talk about it. Decide which off you is going to "go after her". Trust me, if it turns into a competition between the two of you, not only will your friendship be ruined, but the girl will feel crowded and won't like either of you.
[sub][sub]And if all else fails, there's always chloroform. *laugh*[/sub][/sub]

 

[MorsePacific]

Man Law dictates that you must allow him to try his chances first. If she says no, you give him six days to rebound and then take your chance.

Honestly, though, you should get to know her before you run off and possibly make your friend angry. You said you don't know her well, so how do you know you like her so much?