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Ever hear of broken condoms?oliveira8 said:
The way I look at it, what's worse:
A) Accidentally getting a girl or yourself pregnant as an adult when you could potentially actually afford to support a child or
B) Same as A, but you're a teenager that doesn't have a chance in hell to be able to afford a kid
Even when taking adoption/abortion into account, A is obviously the lesser of two evils... ok, not "evils" just "mistakes".
One last point, though I see yours: they fail too.oliveira8 said:
Now, let's say we end this discussion in order to tell this troll:
to fuck off.The Volume said:
Volume, that's the last thing he needs right now. Go away and stop trolling unless you have something, you know, useful to say.
I think girls are idiots and you're probably better off leaving her alone and if she really loved you she'll be back. If not move on.
I feel sorry for you but I think I understand a bit of what she might be feeling. I know that you don't want to be told how young you are to be feeling like this and that eventually you'll look back and laugh at yourself but at least a part of you has to realise that it's true. She may be feeling like she's too young to deal with a serious relationship or maybe she just wants the chance to date other guys even if she still likes you. Whatever the reason for it you should give her her space and recognise that if she wants to get back together with you she will with no pestering from you.
Hey man, my girlfriend at 15 and I broke up over a really dumb reason, went our seperate ways, and ended up meeting again 4 years later. We were together for another ocuple years before she passed away. All I can say is that if it's meant to be it'll happen, but if you want to try and jumpstart destiny or whatever you want to call it, talk to her, really try to find out what the deal is. Be honest and supportive, buut not needy. Just let her know you're there for her. And if she completely blows you off, or just becomes a rancid B---- about the whole thing, eff her, you deserve better.
If she makes you happy, tell her.jonnopon3000 said:Ok i know the first thing anyone will say is "dont worry aboot it you shouldnt be"...but its my decision ot be and like i said im in love with her...i am 15 and the relationship was like 6 months. And please nobody say something along the lines of:WrongSprite said:A couple of pointers?
How old are you?
How long was the relationship?
This will greatly help answers from everybody
"kid, you shouldn't be worrying aboot this kinda stuff you have exams etc...just live life and be happy"
Cause its my decision to be worrying aboot it and i like it this way. I wanna be with her
Don't listen to people telling you to work hard. My dad didn't work hard at your age, he just had a laugh with my mum and just messed around. I'm very grateful as otherwise I probably wouldn't be here.
My advice. Tell her everything and be as open as possible.
Also, CALM DOWN, it is not the end of the world. Take everything in your stride and don't get too worked up. Just say you want to talk to her about something unrelated and arrange to meet, then confront her. If it doesn't work out, meh, you've still got us here at the escapist. That is assuming you one day learn how to use paragraphs.
You may not like it but yeah, your 15 another 5 or so years will knock the experiance into you women come and go and love cant be guaranteed at a young age. See if love withstands the trials of money, living arrangements, future planning, work, studies, sex and many other of the real worlds trials seriously trying not to be a jackass but otherwise its a romantic childish fantasy you'll get over it and there is so much more over the hill dude.
Sometimes it's pretty hard to infer causation in such situations... especially when you're 15. Try just being her friend - if she really does feel the same way you do, she'll want the relationship back.jonnopon3000 said:
I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but I was pretty much the same as you when I was 15 and nothing anyone said back then would have changed my mind. It's important to bare in mind that the reason people say "You're young, this happens, there's plenty more fish etc. etc." is because looooads of people have gone through this same teenage relationship angst stuff and do look back and see how naive they were.
Either way, good luck mate.
Sorry to do this to you, but I'm gonna have to do a Cynic Strikejonnopon3000 said:
First of all, before you get all defensive of young love, know that I am 15 next month, and I have been in long and tortuous relationships myself. I am neither to young to be naive of you situation, nor too old to be all jaded and uncaring.
However, what you have to do is relax for a moment and do the undramatic thing: don't just act, think. Once you apply thought, you will realise:
If she still likes you, her embarrassment will fade in time, and you can get back together. It will be ok
If she doesn't like you, what's the point in being in a one-sided relationship. I've been there, and all it does is bring you pain. In this set up, best to cut yourself lose and strike out for happiness elsewhere
As for an 'analysis'of the situation, my inner romantic says "shes loves him really, and it'll all be ok!". I want this to be true, but I can't promise it.
My advice is to back off and relax. Cool you thought and wait for a reaction. From there, determine the best choice of action. Logic and love don't go easily, but you can always try
Im not even gonna bother my grammar nazi'ing today, right now im going to say: well done on keeping a teenage relationship alive so long. they usually burn bright for a very short amount of time.jonnopon3000 said:
anyway, I doubt thats the reason. it may be similiar, but I wouldnt think shes 'embarassed' about it. also, if you want to try get her back, do something romantic or say something heartfelt, instead of what many boys your age would do (Follow her around saying 'Tell me why you broke up with me pleeeeaassssseeeee' over and over again)
Dont try gifts too much, she will think your trying to 'buy' her. Just try something...that cant phail. Your decision on what that is. ive been in this position before though...
ahhh why do you not use the letter 'u' when it's needed?! about and out ... spelled wiht a u not two o's. please try to fix this.
anyway, sorry about your situation. I agree that no know should tell you that you are too young for a situation like this, because you are not too young (plus its good to realize not every relationship is movie-perfect sooner). I would suggest sticking with it. Don't give up on her if you really care, give her time and some space b/c it seems like she may need it (however don't be none existant, you still need to let her know you care and are there for her, together or not).
I will advise not to stress too much about it (not b/c you are young) but because it won't help the situation. Give it time and be thoughtful.
anyway, sorry about your situation. I agree that no know should tell you that you are too young for a situation like this, because you are not too young (plus its good to realize not every relationship is movie-perfect sooner). I would suggest sticking with it. Don't give up on her if you really care, give her time and some space b/c it seems like she may need it (however don't be none existant, you still need to let her know you care and are there for her, together or not).
I will advise not to stress too much about it (not b/c you are young) but because it won't help the situation. Give it time and be thoughtful.
Yeah I am 16 I get the same way, but eventually I just learn to live with it. There is no advice, really. Just tell her how you feel, it's not really fair to you not to give you a reason. You will just learn to enjoy the freedoms you have been given until the time comes that you get another girl. I understand the wanting to be with her thing, and that it sucks. But, lets face fact, you probably wouldn't be together forever.
Lol i have prodded a lot more....i mean it took me ages to get her to tell me she just wants to be single. Cause her family is now litterally like my second, i still visit often but she never comes down, and according to them all she is very depressed and doesn''t let people talk to her...she only comes to skl cause she has to and her friend abby is the only person who is able to even talk to her at the moment...its worryinggoatzilla8463 said: