So this is probably me being paranoid and insane, but I've lately been thinking that my boyfriend might be seeing someone else.
Now I know there's no universal signs to tell you 'yes, they're slipping it to someone else on the side', but I'm just been getting more and more paranoid all the time over this.
Time was me and Jordan would spent a massive amount of time together, we'd always be talking, and yeah we'd have sex pretty damn often.
But in recent weeks he's been blowing me off more and more (in the 'abandoning plans' way, not the fun bedroom-based way). Whenever I ask him why he flaked out on plans we had he never gives a real answer, and even when I try to make plans with him he's been telling me he's "busy" a lot more than he used to.
Plus he's more hesitant to talk to me nowadays. We still hang out, but it's nowhere near as frequently as it used to be, and he seems a lot more distant than he ever used to be.
And...well...the frequency of our sex has dropped significantly.
Combined all together I just can't shake the feeling that he's got someone else he's seeing behind my back and trying to keep it from me, and it's making me feel paranoid and upset. I mean...I want to trust him so doubting him like this makes me feel horrible, and the thought of him being with someone else makes me feel even worse.
With this information...do you think he's cheating on me?
Now I know there's no universal signs to tell you 'yes, they're slipping it to someone else on the side', but I'm just been getting more and more paranoid all the time over this.
Time was me and Jordan would spent a massive amount of time together, we'd always be talking, and yeah we'd have sex pretty damn often.
But in recent weeks he's been blowing me off more and more (in the 'abandoning plans' way, not the fun bedroom-based way). Whenever I ask him why he flaked out on plans we had he never gives a real answer, and even when I try to make plans with him he's been telling me he's "busy" a lot more than he used to.
Plus he's more hesitant to talk to me nowadays. We still hang out, but it's nowhere near as frequently as it used to be, and he seems a lot more distant than he ever used to be.
And...well...the frequency of our sex has dropped significantly.
Combined all together I just can't shake the feeling that he's got someone else he's seeing behind my back and trying to keep it from me, and it's making me feel paranoid and upset. I mean...I want to trust him so doubting him like this makes me feel horrible, and the thought of him being with someone else makes me feel even worse.
With this information...do you think he's cheating on me?