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How do I introduce myself to a girl I like?
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A-Z is like 1 cm at best mate, I pity you.innocentEX said:My penis is super big, some would say it could stretch from a-z on the keyboard... But I let the women do the deciding
ninjad Damn =.=
Anyway, be confident and yourself. Try to find someone with common interests, like a gamer or a geek. Or a geeky gamer
.Thrust in her face
Claim it's a medical condition, start talking about it.
Ask out on a date
Tell her you just wanted to break the ice
she leaves you
my idea is shit
everybody walk the dinosaur
Claim it's a medical condition, start talking about it.
Ask out on a date
Tell her you just wanted to break the ice
she leaves you
my idea is shit
everybody walk the dinosaur
Never get your wingman to do it, that defeats the objective of a wingman and the move. The move is meant to surprise the two of you so you both are on the same ground. If you get the wingman to do it then you come across too planned and the move goes horribly wrong.JWRosser said:
OT: Having a wingman to do things like this helps, but if you're looking for a long time thing then your best bet is to simply introduce yourself and talk.
If she isn't someone you've talked to before, then "Hi, my name is ****" is great. If you've talked to her before, then try and find common ground. But if you haven't talked to this girl before and you're pining after her, then why? Is she super hot? If she is, well then...good luck.
Just say: "Hi, -pause to smile- how are you?" But say it in the kindest voice that you could muster. That way, it'll be more like starting a friendship, rather than blatantly telling her that you really like her and want to be something more than friends.
After that, then talk to her more throughout the days.
After that, then talk to her more throughout the days.
A is next to Z on the keyboard.innocentEX said:My penis is super big, some would say it could stretch from a-z on the keyboard... But I let the women do the deciding
ninjad Damn =.=
Actually surprisingly enough that works with a lot of us girls.RastaBadger said:
Look us in the eyes not at our chests, treat us like humans, and don't act like you're afraid we're going to run away if you look at us or say hi. Offering a handshake after said introduction is always a nice one as well. Personally, I find guys who stalk my facebook/blog/whatever to figure out music I like to be kind of creepy. I prefer a guy to talk to me to find out music I like or to find out more about me. Take interest in her and don't appear desperate. Stalking social networking sites to find out about me reeks of desperation and makes me regard you as such and won't get you too far with me. Then again, that's just me and every girl is different. Most of us however(from talking to girls and listening to their conversations) prefer that you actually talk to us not stalk our social networking page.
Also. Hygiene. For the love. Please don't bathe in your cologne/body spray(I hate men and women alike who do that) and shower, brush your teeth, your hair, and wear clean clothes.
Girls aren't another species or always a potential sex target.Get over that mindset and act casual.Took me a while to figure this out.Afterwards be yourself and girls usually show interest themselves.
Step 1:
Approach in a non-threatening way in a non-threatening environment.
Step 2:
Baring your teeth is generally considered pleasant to human females.
Step 3:
Initiate casual, yet non-boring conversation. Humour is usually a good thing.
Step 4: Exchange names. You may swap steps 3 and 4 if you feel like shaking things up a bit.
ALL DONE!
On a more serious note, don't make it a bigger issue than it is.
If you encounter someone you find interesting/attractive or notice someone knows about something that interests you as well, strike up a conversation.
Just remember, real life isn't a hollywood movie. Love at first sight rarely happens at all and even if it does its usually only to one of the 2 people involved.
If you want to meet and get involved with women you need to learn to communicate with people.
A good place to start would probably to stop identifying yourself as "I am a socially repressed gamer".
Also, another important thing is that the more people you know (and who doesn't consider you a creepy stalker or desperate leghumper), the better the chances of meeting someone who'll find you attractive/interesting.
A few short tips:
-Be attractive. If you're not physically attractive dressing sharp and working out will help. Also remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, even Quasimodo had a hot gypsy chick love him after all
-Be interesting. Humour and knowledge, without being a smartass or one of those people who never can be serious, is usually very good tools for meeting and communicating with males or female.
Being mysterious or having an interesting/dangerous/exotic past is usually also a good bet, although hard to control yourself.
-Be confident. This one is usually a hard nut for people who reduce themselves to "socially repressed gamer", but you need to build some confidence.
-Be worth it. Don't be an asshole, don't be in it just for the sex. Even if you do intend to be a player, be a gentleman about it (don't kiss and tell, don't lie to get what you want, etc).
Also, the Facebook music advice is WEIRD
Approach in a non-threatening way in a non-threatening environment.
Step 2:
Baring your teeth is generally considered pleasant to human females.
Step 3:
Initiate casual, yet non-boring conversation. Humour is usually a good thing.
Step 4: Exchange names. You may swap steps 3 and 4 if you feel like shaking things up a bit.
ALL DONE!
On a more serious note, don't make it a bigger issue than it is.
If you encounter someone you find interesting/attractive or notice someone knows about something that interests you as well, strike up a conversation.
Just remember, real life isn't a hollywood movie. Love at first sight rarely happens at all and even if it does its usually only to one of the 2 people involved.
If you want to meet and get involved with women you need to learn to communicate with people.
A good place to start would probably to stop identifying yourself as "I am a socially repressed gamer".
Also, another important thing is that the more people you know (and who doesn't consider you a creepy stalker or desperate leghumper), the better the chances of meeting someone who'll find you attractive/interesting.
A few short tips:
-Be attractive. If you're not physically attractive dressing sharp and working out will help. Also remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, even Quasimodo had a hot gypsy chick love him after all
-Be interesting. Humour and knowledge, without being a smartass or one of those people who never can be serious, is usually very good tools for meeting and communicating with males or female.
Being mysterious or having an interesting/dangerous/exotic past is usually also a good bet, although hard to control yourself.
-Be confident. This one is usually a hard nut for people who reduce themselves to "socially repressed gamer", but you need to build some confidence.
-Be worth it. Don't be an asshole, don't be in it just for the sex. Even if you do intend to be a player, be a gentleman about it (don't kiss and tell, don't lie to get what you want, etc).
Also, the Facebook music advice is WEIRD
Start looking through the societies. Good way to make new interests, and meet new people with a shared common ground of hobby.
Start posting in the facebook groups for "[X University} Freshers 2011" - it's a good way to meet people, you'll never meet some of them. Ever. Some of them you'll randomly bump into, and you get that lovely "oh you're so and so! Can't believe we ran into each other, free for a drink?" etc - Fresher's week is a time all about socialising, everyone is in the same boat, out to meet new people, create a new friend base. I can be cripplingly shy at the best of times, my next door neighbour was a fantastic girl, showed up with a crate of beer on moving in day, immediately swept all of the flatmates into her room to get to know each other, got a job in the student bar, all of a sudden I was being introduced to a new group of people, great friends, my eventual girlfriend, all kinds of people.
Start posting in the facebook groups for "[X University} Freshers 2011" - it's a good way to meet people, you'll never meet some of them. Ever. Some of them you'll randomly bump into, and you get that lovely "oh you're so and so! Can't believe we ran into each other, free for a drink?" etc - Fresher's week is a time all about socialising, everyone is in the same boat, out to meet new people, create a new friend base. I can be cripplingly shy at the best of times, my next door neighbour was a fantastic girl, showed up with a crate of beer on moving in day, immediately swept all of the flatmates into her room to get to know each other, got a job in the student bar, all of a sudden I was being introduced to a new group of people, great friends, my eventual girlfriend, all kinds of people.
simple, be hermaphroditic in appearence, be a good 60 pounds under-weight, have more money than sense, be emotional to the point of being border line non-functional, and submit to her every desire without question ... oh yes and accept without argument that anything bad that happens is automatically your fault. these points should make you downright irresistible to women you will likely encounter at uni. best of luck.
...You're asking us how to introduce yourself to someone at university? Everyone there will be in the 'I don't know anyone' boat. Just walk up to people and say hi. Job done.
With regards to women - if you are planning on grabbing yourself a girlfriend as early as possible, talk to people on the same (or similar) course and/or the same societies as you (DO NOT go after people in the same halls of residence/flat/whatever). That guarantees some similar interests - all the stereotypes are there for a reason (for example, my girlfriend is possibly more of a geek than I am. She's a mathematician).
The first couple of weeks/months will be full of new people all not knowing anyone. Don't instantly decide 'I like this girl'.
Make friends with people of both genders first. After a while, they'll be able to introduce you to people with similar interests to them, some of whom may well be of your gender of interest.
With regards to women - if you are planning on grabbing yourself a girlfriend as early as possible, talk to people on the same (or similar) course and/or the same societies as you (DO NOT go after people in the same halls of residence/flat/whatever). That guarantees some similar interests - all the stereotypes are there for a reason (for example, my girlfriend is possibly more of a geek than I am. She's a mathematician).
The first couple of weeks/months will be full of new people all not knowing anyone. Don't instantly decide 'I like this girl'.
Make friends with people of both genders first. After a while, they'll be able to introduce you to people with similar interests to them, some of whom may well be of your gender of interest.
Well my research has shown that people in general tend to be more comfortable when they are with other people who they know. So your best bet is to wait until they are with one of their friends, walk up to them with all the confidence of bear and recite the following to the letter, "So... Threesome?"
But yeah friends first is a pretty solid starting point.
But yeah friends first is a pretty solid starting point.
Considering I don't know the first thing about american college life, this sounds like really good advice.Seabear said:
Preliminary communication with your coming schoolmates will put you on the social map I'm sure and if you can do something that will draw attention to you (in a good, socially acceptable way) at the start of your college life you'll really get a headstart in socialising with these people.
Strange. I always shout prophanities at people to make friends. Works like a charm!James Joseph Emerald said: