How do people stay thin?

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Danny Ocean

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Kytseo said:
What's their secret?
We don't actually eat a lot. We do eat when there are others with us, though. I've been living fine off two normal sized (small by USA standards- not stereotyping, I've been there) a day for weeks now because I'm too lazy to cook but I have standards over what I eat. I'm male, 18, 5'10"/11" and ~55kgs (~121 lbs).

Basically, I don't mind being a little hungry every now and again. I don't starve myself, by I do skip meals if I'm doing something else at the time I'd normally be eating them, or I just can't be bothered to cook whatever's left in the fridge (like when my only option is to cook a whole damn fancy dinner rather than some rice with stuff in it).

It also helps that I've never really stretched my stomach, and I eat rather slowly, so a small amount of food can fill me up. The more you eat and the faster you eat it, the more you eat. It's a vicious circle that's hard to break, but it's also hard to start.

My house is rarely heated, and I walk almost everywhere because I don't like buses and can't afford a car. My bedroom is up five flights of stairs from the living room kitchen and dining room, so I probably run up a flight of 15-or-so stairs ten times a day. I walk the dog every day for about 3 miles, up a steep hill at the end. Every now and again I go to martial arts. I don't *try* to be skinny, it just kinda happens.
 

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Kytseo said:
I've wanted to lose weight for a while now, and I have tried nearly everything (except diet pills and starving, I have my standards). The weird thing is that quite a few people I know tend to stay thin despite regularly eating burger king and such. I know some of them do work out, but some (like my girlfriend) somehow can stay thin without working out and despite apparently eating a lot (hell, I'm in much worse shape than my girlfriend, yet I have an easier time walking, thank you Mini-Boot Camp). I gotta ask, when it comes to those people, what's their secret?
I have a friend that is just like that, eats like a pig and stays thin as a pencil, but then he walks around everywhere, I don't have that great metabolism, in fact I have 50% of my genes working against me (everyone on my dad's side of the family is MASSIVE) plus I can't walk (although I do regularly wheel my wheelchair to town and back for a round trip of about 5 miles at least once a week,)

as for diets some people are just lucky b*stards I myself am on a diet that works quite well for me, I'm averaging at a loss of 1 stone (14 ibs) a month, I lost 10 ibs in a week it slows down, but I can finally say an XL size shirt is too big, which is refreshing, still a bit to go but I'll get there,

in answer to your question on how to stay thin, assuming you don't have the gift of metabolism, just eat properly, DO NOT starve yourself, if you're hungry you're doing something wrong and the weight will stay on longer, basically just eat the right things, and for the most part avoid processed food, butter, white bread, y'know that kinda stuff, eggs are great if you don't have a cholesterol problem and lean meat too (chicken's great for diets as long as it's not processed) and make sure to cut any fat off meat, y'know just that kinda stuff

again I'm averaging at a loss of 14 ibs a month, and I still order a pizza every weekend lol
 

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A treadmill in front of a TV. I'm dead serious. Running (or simply walking briskly) is boring. Doing it in front of a TV is... still boring, but bearable.

Sure, I *could* cut down on the sweets, but in terms of overall quality of life, I feel I'm better off feeding my chocolate addiction and working it off on the treadmill.
 

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It's been said many times by now, but metabolisms.

Still, because you have a slow one, doesn't mean you -have- to be large. Do some research into various diets, not to go on one, but to see what they ultimatly try to teach. Generally it's more vegitables, less fats and sugars. Eating less doesn't hurt iether, but I've found that changing -what- you eat can often be enough.

Example: your body absorbs less from 100 calories of proteine than it does from 100 calories of sugar because it's so hyper-efficient that it shies away from the effort needed to break the complex proteine structures down into useable energy.

Then you have to take into account which types of meat are good or bad for cholesterol etc etc. It can take some effort, but the results are usually well worth it ;)
 

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Blablahb said:
A commercial book written by a shady author is not a valid source of information. Experience with such writers has taught me that it's almost never that such people have done actual research, and most of them base themselves on pretty much just fried air.

I don't buy it, not the book, not the myths.
Do you have anything to base your claim that he's a shady author on other than the fact that he wrote a book? Because writing a book does not make an argument invalid, nor the research that went into it. If you want to discredit something you have to do a little better than simply saying someone is shady. Actually looking at the research the author did and finding issues with it directly would be a good start, but from your posts I'm not sure you have any interest in looking into actual research done in the field of nutrition. It seems you'd rather just regurgitate things you've been told without ever having to think critically about them. That's fine if you want to live your life that way, but it's not the way to approach a serious discussion about any topic.

Blablahb said:
Nonsense. People ate it before those times as well as hunter-gatherers.
They didn't actually. Most grains can't be eaten raw as is without processing them. Modern grains don't even grow without utilizing agricultural techniques because they have been so extensively modified from even what we were eating 50 years ago, let alone 10,000 years ago. Where's your evidence that hunter gatherers were eating grains? Because without the ability to process many of them into foods such as various forms of bread you literally can't eat them.

Blablahb said:
Besides, why are you calling 10.000 years a short period of time? That's at least 5% of the total time of existence of the homo sapiens, a lot of time to evolve, certainly enough to adapt your diet.
Except we haven't adapted to process wheat very well. As evidenced by the fact that consuming it in large quantities will make the population fat, as well as sick. The incidence of celiac disease alone is much higher now than it was even 50 years ago. And the government is recommending people eat more grains than ever. And sure, 10,000 years represents 5% of the time period in which modern humans have existed.

But let's stop and think about what you're suggesting for a second. Anatomically modern humans have existed for 200,000 years or so. Meaning there has been little change in our physiology in 200,000 years. But we apparently adapted to eating foods we had never consumed in out entire history in only 10,000 years. Despite spending the 190,000 years before that eating diets that were much higher in protein and fat. Not to even get into what our ancestors were eating for a million plus years prior to that. More over, you're suggesting that we would evolve to adapt to a diet high in grains when there's no evolutionary pressure to do so in an agrarian society. Obesity and diseases like type 2 diabetes and heart disease aren't likely to outright kill you before you have the chance to reproduce, so where's the evolutionary pressure that's killing off those who can't process grains before they pass on their genes? Oh that's right, there really isn't, and hasn't been any.

Blablahb said:
Oh yes you do. It just involves a little displine and not eating sweets the moment you feel hungry or are unhappy or bored.
This shows you literally know nothing about how the body stores fat. I'd strongly recommend actually looking into research rather than simply buying into everything the government tells you. But if you aren't going to actually do that then there's little point in continuing any sort of discussion of nutrition with you.

Blablahb said:
Besides, a little googling taught that only shady characters like that book author claim that grain make blood glucose levels spike. So why don't you first show us a clinical trial in which that connection is proven, and maybe after that you could claim it is a substitute for self-control.
For starters, you can easily test out whether eating grains spikes blood glucose on your own. Get a blood glucose meter, eat some grains and test your blood sugar before this and then again an hour later. Hell, ask any diabetic. Carbohydrates make blood glucose spike. Grain based foods are much higher in carbs than comparable amounts of vegetables or even fruit, so I'm not sure what sources you're finding that are saying grains won't increase blood glucose, because even suggesting that is laughable.

As to studies which back up limiting carbs to control blood glucose, we can start here: http://www.gutenberg.org/files/26058/26058-h/26058-h.htm

It was a paper written as a treatment guide for treating and managing diabetes way back in 1915. Before insulin shots existed, when the only way to control blood glucose was through diet and if diabetics didn't do it they would die. For a specific example from this paper, Case 8 was a woman who once they had her blood sugar under control had her carbs increased to include 2 slices of bread. This raised her blood sugar levels too much however, so it was dialed back. And this was on a diet that was calculated to be no more than 63 grams of carbs. The USDA recommends over 300 grams a day. Tell me that's not going to consistently raise blood sugar throughout the day.

But now I'm going to put the same question to you. Show me a clinical trial that has ever demonstrated that simply following the formula of calories in minus calories out led to the predicted weight loss that comes with that hypothesis. I've never seen any study that proved that relationship, or even came close to the predicted weight loss, where calories is all that they controlled, so I expect I'll be waiting a while.

Dastardly said:
2. "Cal in - Cal out = Weight loss" is a simplification of the process. That's obvious and intentional. Simplifications don't make things incorrect. "Sunlight + Water + Carbon Dioxide = Sugar + Oxygen" is an intense over-simplification of photosynthesis... but does that mean it has no value for teaching the basic concept to beginners? You try talking to a group of sixth graders about adenosine triphosphate and see how far you get.
But the trouble is that it's not just an oversimplification, but it doesn't even remotely resemble the mechanisms by which the body stores fat. The assumption going into that equation is that a surplus calorie intake results in fat storage, but it's a surplus of blood glucose which results in fat storage, not calories. Carbohydrates increased blood glucose far more than protein or fat. More importantly, it's also possible, based on other metabolic factors going on inside the body for people to gain or lose body fat based on how their resistance or sensitivity to insulin changes without ever changing the calories coming in or going out. Calories in less calories out is a relationship which has literally never panned out in any clinical study, which is why telling people to cut back on foods high in carbohydrates such as sugars and grains is far more useful advice for fat loss than telling them to count calories.

Dastardly said:
But the science clearly states that mass and energy can't come from nowhere. Refute that, and maybe you'll show me what I'm "not understanding."
Nobody is saying that they come from nowhere. But relating a change in mass to a change in energy through a simple arithmetic equation is not only wrong, it's misleading.
 

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3 balanced meals a day, no snacks. I don't drink fizzy juice (that was really on orders from my dentist but helps with diet too). I run 4 miles, 3 times a week and do a circuit workout 4 times a week.

To be honest, it's hard, I am a HUGE eater and naturaly lazy but it does REALLY pay off. It all about breaking the cycle and then ingraining it so hard that it becomes routine.
 

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Why does everyone answer metabolism? If that is a major factor in their weight, it doesn't matter anyways because it's obviously not helping *you*.

Losing weight is just a matter of less intake, more output. Eat smaller portions and become more active. It's pretty simple, honestly.
So my answer (without knowing anything about said people except that they have eaten fast food) is that they probably bike/walk/run more than you, or spend less time sitting around.
 

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There is no magic to it, your body is a function of the stresses it regularly endures. If your intake is greater than what you burn off, your metabolism slows, your body is less efficient and you gain weight more easily. The reverse is also true. People who somehow seem to "eat so much, never exercise and stay thin" will not do so forever. As they continue to do so, their metabolism slows and they WILL gain weight and be in the same boat you are now.
 

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Kytseo said:
I've wanted to lose weight for a while now, and I have tried nearly everything (except diet pills and starving, I have my standards). The weird thing is that quite a few people I know tend to stay thin despite regularly eating burger king and such. I know some of them do work out, but some (like my girlfriend) somehow can stay thin without working out and despite apparently eating a lot (hell, I'm in much worse shape than my girlfriend, yet I have an easier time walking, thank you Mini-Boot Camp). I gotta ask, when it comes to those people, what's their secret?
I'm just naturally awesome. Although I can't put on muscle either, so it has its downsides.
 

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Sometimes its a genetic thing, you know glandulars problems
Have you tried sports (and by sports I mean like basketball or fotball 4 a long time)?
 

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Their secret is that they don't "try" exercise and a healthy diet. They DO exercise and maintain a healthy diet. Get it? This shit takes time, and if you don't stick with it it'll never work. People think they can expect results because even just going a week seems really hard to them, but that's not good enough. Weight loss can take months, serious weight loss can take years. The secret isn't a secret at all. It's the one thing everyone has been telling you that you need to do to get good at anything your whole life. Perseverance.
 

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Mastodonic said:
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A great metabolism. I eat McDonalds at least a few times a week, and rarely eat healthy "It's been 5 weeks since my last vegetable..."
Rubbish. You burn on avg 2000 calories a day depending on your weight. A big mac only has 540 calories. So the avg person could eat 3 to 4 big macs a day and gain no weight. It has fuck all to do with "metabolism" and everything to do with MATH!

calories in - calories used = net loss/gain

The End.
You can't do math without accurate stats. You have no idea what my meal is. Also, factor in that I don't just eat one meal a day, try 2-3 and 1-2 snacks.
Accurate stats and examples didnt appear to be a factor when you offered up your original anecdote about metabolism and how it directly applied to your situation. You were happy to make vague references to you unhealthy diet without any numbers as testamony to your "amazing metabolism". At least I offered a real example of how an unhealthy diet would not contribute to weight gain regardless of metabolism.
All these anecdotes about "godly metabolisms" and "being able to eat all the crap i want" are bunk and deeply steeped in misconceptions of what "a lot" really means in terms of calories burnt and calories consumed.

It's lazy and misinformed. Barring genetic disorder or regular exercise, no one has a faster or slower metabolism that accounts for weight gain/loss. It is entirely calories in, calories used. you can speed up your metabolism by putting on muscle mass and exercising but suggesting any reference to a "naturally fast" metabolism is a myth.
Just because I didn't list out all my food intake over a week, and my exercise, my opinion is invalid? I'm sorry, I suppose you've been living in my body for the past 19 years. I know what I eat in the average week, I always get told what would happen if most people tried eating my meals if they were say... 25 or 30. Even some people my age (usually overweight) or younger ***** at me, telling me I'm so lucky that I can eat that way. So your idea is everyone has the same metabolism? I find that hard to believe since I've TRIED putting on weight, and couldn't gain a pound. Then I have fat friends who avoid soda and fast food like the devil, and are still 200+ pounds.

A few years ago, you could have argued that it was because I got a lot more exercise, but now I barely have time for any, so it's not like my body is consuming a lot of calories for that reason.

P.S. Out of curiosity, if I maintained the same exercise and diet habits for the next few decades, do you REALLY think that I will maintain the same weight? I want to know how illogical you are.

Owyn_Merrilin said:
Slayer_2 said:
A great metabolism. I eat McDonalds at least a few times a week, and rarely eat healthy "It's been 5 weeks since my last vegetable..."
How do people do this? It's only been a few days since my last vegetable, and I feel terrible because my body isn't getting all of the nutrients it's expecting.
I dunno, I think my body has just adapted to it. If starving people can survive on scraps of bread, I'm sure I can make it by without veggies.
 

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Kytseo said:
I've wanted to lose weight for a while now, and I have tried nearly everything (except diet pills and starving, I have my standards). The weird thing is that quite a few people I know tend to stay thin despite regularly eating burger king and such. I know some of them do work out, but some (like my girlfriend) somehow can stay thin without working out and despite apparently eating a lot (hell, I'm in much worse shape than my girlfriend, yet I have an easier time walking, thank you Mini-Boot Camp). I gotta ask, when it comes to those people, what's their secret?
If you drink a lot of Soda pops, juices, and anything with a high sugar content, you can eliminate them from your diet for relatively swift results. I drink those VitaWater-Zeros for my "sweet drink" now, and I'm better off for it.
 

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Kytseo said:
I've wanted to lose weight for a while now, and I have tried nearly everything (except diet pills and starving, I have my standards). The weird thing is that quite a few people I know tend to stay thin despite regularly eating burger king and such. I know some of them do work out, but some (like my girlfriend) somehow can stay thin without working out and despite apparently eating a lot (hell, I'm in much worse shape than my girlfriend, yet I have an easier time walking, thank you Mini-Boot Camp). I gotta ask, when it comes to those people, what's their secret?
well for me i just dont feel hungry in the morning so i drink alot, and then i have a small lunch and a big dinner/ snacks at night. it isn't healthy but im 6'2 and 150 lbs. My advice is just to try to have smaller meals spread out during the day, keeps you full longer and reduces snacking and eating alot at one time. Or go to college/university on a budget lol.
 

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Really simple actually, don't snack, it works well, oh and a daily exercise of some sort works well.
 

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Not eating, duh, thats why "skinny" people are usually thin,
but you wanna be fit which requires diet and exercise.

Just chalking it up to your "metabolism" is confusing for some because it means catabolism(building of molecules, in this case fat) which correlates to how much you eat vs anabolism(breakdown of molecules for e, again fat) which pertains to exercise.

Building muscles always helps along with casual cardio.
 

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Gamblerjoe said:
mysecondlife said:
AVOID WHEAT. wheat's being healthy is a big misconception.
avoid high fructose corn syrup, hydrogenated oils, sugar, dairy, white rice, cream... (a lot of things white)

embrace... oats, brown rice, millet, egg, kale, omega 3, potato, avocado, sprouted grain bread (look them up), etc.


edit: also... don't be afraid of butter. use it all you want. just avoid that "I can't believe its not butter!" crap. and speaking of butter, avoid margarine as well.
x EvilErmine x said:
^^^ That and the fact that they probably skip some meals, as long as you get enough vitamins and minerals then you actually don't need the calories that three meals a day provide.
Zetion said:
Yeah. I cut out soda and processed carbs and the weight melted right off. You'd be surprised OP.
Mallefunction said:
Your friends who can eat what they want are lucky. I'm like you as well. I have to work out 5 times a week for 2 hours and even then I'm still 20 pounds heavier than where I want to be (I'm at the high spectrum of a healthy weight for my height and age so I'd rather be in the low spectrum if I can help it)

Don't try to go for unrealistic goals though. I remember even as a kid I had thighs that touched. I was a STICK, but my thighs never had space between. So I don't expect to ever be one of those thinspo girls 5 inches of nothing between their thighs because I was never like that even when I was a kid and had a faster metabolism and ran around a lot more.

Just keep exercising and try to do short bouts of cardio. No tread mill shit unless it's for just 5 minutes straight (running, not walking) and then go back to weights. Then after a while, do another short but hard burst of cardio.

Also, whatever you do, don't avoid things like fat, carbs, butter, etc. If you make a baked potato, feel free to stick some butter on that *****. Our bodies need those fats and oils and depriving them of it will not help you lose weight in a healthy manner.

What you WANT to avoid is processed and fast food. I recommend picking up a cook book or even learning to make some fast simple meals on the stove. I am addicted to my rice cooker (Rice in 30 minutes and I add whatever flavorings and veggies I want to that) for meals and rice is really damn cheap in bulk...also pretty much keeps for a long ass time (pasta as well)

Anyway, that's my recommendation. Hope it helped!
This is all incorrect. Dont listen to a word of it. Everyone who said "metabolism" wasn't paying attention to the question.


Scytail said:
Personally I switched to smaller (and healthier food) portions and a little bit of exercise. Little yoga and freeweight stuff and Ive dropped from 250lbs to almost 200lbs. Wasnt fast but I feel better about myself and life now. Oh, and water! sweet delicious water, cut out all soft drinks!
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x EvilErmine x said:
^^^ That and the fact that they probably skip some meals, as long as you get enough vitamins and minerals then you actually don't need the calories that three meals a day provide.
I hear that skipping meals can cause your body to store more fat, so that it can survive another long period without food.
The Last Parade said:
if you eat several small healthy meals by day your metabolism will quicken, that'll help =)
This is all correct.

The short answer is diet, exercise and DISCIPLINE. It takes self determination to improve your health.

To elaborate: You must eat roughly 2000 calories per day (give or take depending on your genetics.) Eating less will not make you lose weight, not unless you are literally starving yourself, which would be stupid and extremely unhealthy. Instead of eating 3 meals per day, eat 6 small meals per day that add up to 2000 calories. Its hard at first, but eventually you'll find that you cant even eat large meals anymore. Your diet needs to be balanced. Make sure you are getting sufficient carbohydrates, protein, lipids, and water. All of these things are necessary to survive, but they must be consumed in proper proportion. Cutting any of them out will cause your body to react negatively. Everything you have heard about cutting out carbs and all that nonsense is just crap people make up to sell books. Getting in shape is not easy, but if someone says that they have a method that IS easy, people will listen to them. They are full of shit though. Also, make sure you take a quality multivitamin. Even if you are eating vegetables and such, a good multivitamin will provide you with specific amino acids that will aid with your recovery and endurance.

As far as exercise goes, you dont have to kill yourself. I do personally, but thats my personal decision. I train in Mixed Martial Arts, so its kind of necessary. Jogging is enough for some people, but if you want to look better in addition to improving your health, you need to do specific exercises. Pick a program and stick to it. Buy a workout DVD you see on an infomercial if you want. They all work.

Sleep is also important. Get 8 hours of sleep every night. Two 4 hour stretches is also fine, even if they're broken up. Getting more than 8 hours is bad, but getting less than 8 is significantly worse. There are certain processes that your body can only perform properly while you sleep.

Last but not least is supplements. I take Mass XXX and creatine. I use a lot less of both than the label (and GNC employees) say to take. I DON'T recommend taking nitric oxide enhancers. I make small shakes and use them as meal substitutes, particularly the meals that immediately follow my workouts. Here is how I take creatine: First off DON'T LOAD!!! This is very bad. It stifles your body's natural production of creatine. This process produces several extremely important byproducts you need. Some of them are only produced in this way. What I do is take half doses for one week. Then I take full doses for 2 weeks. Then I take half doses for another week. Then I take a month off. Repeat.
i would really like to know what I said is incorrect considering I lost 30 pounds from January
 

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It's not just to do with what you eat etc. It also involves metabolism

Low motabolism - endomorph, fat people
Medium metabolism - mesomorph, muscly people
High metabolism - ectomorph, skinny people

People with high metabolisms can eat loads and stay skinny, because their body processes the food so fast, but not a lot is absorbed by the body, hence the skinnyness. But people with low metabolisms can eat less but stay fat.

Fitness videos can help a lot (sounds wierd but hear me out). I started a program called Insanity about two months ago. Since then my metabolism has sky-rocketed. I was an endomorph because I didn't do a lot when I was younger, but now I'm more of a mesomorph.

If you want to work out, you have to give your all. Otherwise your metabolism won't increase. As for food, just keep an eye on what you eat.
 

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There really is no skill behind it...just naturally thin *eats iced mince pie*

Though I am expecting to wake up one night when I'm 30 and find I've turned into the Blob.