How do you handle bullies?
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As almost everyone has recommended in this thread, when it comes to bullies they only understand one thing: violence. You can either go mental and beat the crap out of him, or if you don't feel like you can beat him even if you go absolutely mental, then a good solid whack with a blunt instrument (book, chair, pole, wood etc.) to the head, shins, stomach, back or balls will prove very effective in the long run.
I recommend a rather sudden, savage beating. I tolerated bullying for years and it all just kind of stopped after I made a point of beating everybody I could get my hands on over a few months.
Do it barehanded, as well. Really, it doesn't take much to take the fight out of somebody. Go for the nose, a black eye, or the side of the head.
Granted, you get to deal with some of the consequences but it's ultimately worth it. I'm not sure what the consequences might be where you're from, though, so bare that in mind.
Do it barehanded, as well. Really, it doesn't take much to take the fight out of somebody. Go for the nose, a black eye, or the side of the head.
Granted, you get to deal with some of the consequences but it's ultimately worth it. I'm not sure what the consequences might be where you're from, though, so bare that in mind.
i used to be bullied when i was in school, years 4-6, i hate to admit though.
telling the teachers does f*ck all. Teachers are panicky and useless in these situations, i only stopped getting bullied when i picked a fight with one of them. i know you say that you are smaller and weaker than him but it seems to me like getting out of this situation may be worth a few bruises, and after you have been in a fight with him no teacher in the school will allow either you or the bully to get within 10 metres of eachother.
i know teachers say that you should let grown ups deal with the situation instead of resorting to violence but teachers never recieve any actuall training on these situations.
telling the teachers does f*ck all. Teachers are panicky and useless in these situations, i only stopped getting bullied when i picked a fight with one of them. i know you say that you are smaller and weaker than him but it seems to me like getting out of this situation may be worth a few bruises, and after you have been in a fight with him no teacher in the school will allow either you or the bully to get within 10 metres of eachother.
i know teachers say that you should let grown ups deal with the situation instead of resorting to violence but teachers never recieve any actuall training on these situations.
Hmm, I don't have any bully-problems nowadays.
But I used to, back in school.
Actually, I got picked on for my glasses and my reaction was to hunt them down, grab them by the collar and shake them a little.
Afterwards, telling them to stop was pretty effective.
Yeah, anger can do that.
But I used to, back in school.
Actually, I got picked on for my glasses and my reaction was to hunt them down, grab them by the collar and shake them a little.
Afterwards, telling them to stop was pretty effective.
Yeah, anger can do that.
Show him you are better than him in every way possible. Also, try to fix your own self confidence first. I had self confidence issues in high school so people used to walk over me, even though I was pretty tall and able to kick some ass if necessary. Changing your self also changes people around you.
Of course, if this guy is just an asshole for no reason, he needs a lesson in manners. It'll do him good.
Of course, if this guy is just an asshole for no reason, he needs a lesson in manners. It'll do him good.
tell the teachers. If that doesn't work tell your parents and have them yell at the principle. If that doesn't work charge him with assault (If the law applies in that case. It does where I live, not sure about Sweden.).
As other have said violence is the answer, he deserves it if he's being a git, and if you do it in a secluded place then he won't be able to get you in trouble because it will just be your word against his. They won't have any evidence and if your a better student/ have friends who'll say they saw him attack you, then you'll get off scott free.
Ha! That is what i did, it took a while to get confident enough to actually hit the guy, but when i did, i beat the crap out of him! The good thing was that he never said anything to me, or picked on me after that.Drakulla said:
Teachers are a good option but also try working from the inside. You say you guys share friends, have your friends talk to him. Or at least tell them to knock off picking on you.
A teacher may have authority in school, but he might be more threatened if his peers come up to him and tell him to stop. Not even nesscessarily with violence, but a stern powerful confrontation may be just the thing. He may not even be scared of violence, but having all his friends walk out on him?...that might hit him where it hurts.
A teacher may have authority in school, but he might be more threatened if his peers come up to him and tell him to stop. Not even nesscessarily with violence, but a stern powerful confrontation may be just the thing. He may not even be scared of violence, but having all his friends walk out on him?...that might hit him where it hurts.
We've been half friends over periods. Half a year ago, he stopped teasing me, but then he started again for no fu**ing reason. He's not bullying me for payback or anything, he does it cause he's a tw*t.Daveman said:
Karate is good but see if there is a place in your area that teaches MMA(mixed martial arts). Karate teaches Karate, MMA is fighting, pure and simple. It will also make you tougher and more confident if you stick with it.
You said you had a 10 week summer break, get stronger get tougher and get in the mindset of enjoying brutal violence. Letting the red mist fall can be very effective if you can control yourself and do not actually kill him.
You said you had a 10 week summer break, get stronger get tougher and get in the mindset of enjoying brutal violence. Letting the red mist fall can be very effective if you can control yourself and do not actually kill him.
How hard is kickboxing, cause I've been thinking that I need to learn self-defense, and most of my siblings have trained it and says that it's hard, but a great way to defend yourself and get some well-deserved muscles.l33tabix said:
Just because you did it in the past doesn't mean he can do the same to you now. Just approach a teacher and explain the situation. If you play the bigger man and own up to your past mistakes, then I'm sure all will end well. People have a lot of respect for the one with a conscience. Also, hold your composure; don't let him aggravate you into doing anything to compromise yourself.crazyhaircut94 said: