How do you handle problems? Be honest!

[Brandon237]

With shouting, screaming, hair-tearing and crying if it is death or personally related.
Yeah, not accordingly.

And oddly enough girls are where I have had considerably little stress or trouble. In fact it has been amazingly good and simple for me there. Although life seems to make up for that by being a bastard to me at bad times (like now).

 

[Vonnis]

I normally just pretend the problems aren't there. Making sure I'm not sober too much is a great help with this. Somehow, either by ignoring something long enough or coming up with an alcohol-inspired, absolutely retarded solution, most problems disappear. Those that don't just get bottled up, labelled, and neatly arranged on a shelf.
I do not recommend this to anyone.

 

[DonSolo]

I handle them with gloves of course, that's what any considerate and wise being would do! Think of the germs that live on problems, my word.

 

[Kenami]

Everyday problems I just think up the easiest solution to. Girls, however, defy logic and thus require a cigarette.

I don't smoke but I a 100% agree with this post.

 

[thylasos]

I tend to just walk off or politely attempt to diffuse the situation, in terms of confrontational ones...

I've never hit anyone, or even shouted at anyone in anger, in so far as my memory goes.

Talking, largely. I suppose, is how I've resolved problems in the past.

Or, if that's too tough, I'll fall to heavy drinking for a couple of days and then have another go.

 

[ModsDeleteThisAccountPlease]

Keep up with my oblivious idiot/iron woobie schtick and bottle it up till its behind me. Seems to work so far....

 

[hawkeye52]

through a massive series of maladaptive coping (i.e. ignoring it) usually that works except atm since I want to go out with a girl who i see every day and have deep conversations with from anything to everything but am stopped short in the fact that she is a lesbian -.-

 

[Ladette]

Physical Problems: Find the simpliest solution with the fewest negative consequences and do that.

Emotional Problems: Laugh until i'm over it. I make jokes to myself, point out any possible irony, and follow the logic that life's a joke anyways so you might as well laugh.

 

[ashrossy]

being in the middle of an "argument" at the moment is pretty awkward. I have Autism though so I tend to have a weird view on things. I think what I have done in this circumstance is the most appropriate I also appreciate how other people can have opposing views. I also realise that it's more socially acceptable to be more hard headed and no matter how much the other persons views may seem more logical in hindsight people tend to stick to what they see and can't seem to admit they're wrong, therefore I tend to do the same things more to fit in with other people.

The real way I handle problems? I look at them objectively and act as the same as other people i've observed. That doesn't always work out well for me but that's what compromises are about. I find it so odd that people can't take an objectively at something and forget what they personally think.

Poeple find it so frustrating though when I look at things in a cold-hearted and un-emotinal. Infact I made a fairly life-changing descision based upon the fact that it made the most sense for mine and my girlfriends relationship over the course of about 10 years. we're not happy in our current state but I know it'll pay off in the end.

 

[SilentCom]

The little problems I don't find too difficult to handle but the big ones are more than a little difficult. They don't happen that often and you're never prepared for them.