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Stasisesque

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I don't.

At least three of the people on my friends list are real life friends, and others are only there because they befriended me. I don't mean to be antisocial, but as I don't spend a lot of time here and frequently forget about it for months at a time, I haven't really thought about making any sort of lasting friendships.

But I hope I'm at least amiable towards everyone.
 

Cazza

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I have 4 Escapist friends. 2 added me when I said I was new all those years ago. Another I picked up quickly after we had a reply thing going in a thread and the last one I helped them design a logo for the group we were in.

I rarely request friends I feel I'm a forgettable person. In real life and the internet. So when someone notices me and takes time to be an online friend I accept. Last thing I want to do is request a friend and then lose them later when they go "who the f is this? Gone /deletes me"
 

natster43

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I don't often friend people, most of the time other people friend me first. The one time I remember befriending someone was because in a thread like 5 of their posts in a row made me laugh.
 

Rainboq

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Daystar Clarion said:
I've been added by more than 100 posters, and I probably don't recognise the majority of them.

I befriend those who I actually like and recognise on the forums.
This. Although I generally make a point of getting to know them then adding them if I like them.
 

Eclipse Dragon

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Myndnix said:
I have no friends on this site, primarily because I'm too nervous and/or intimidated to talk to people privately.
I could probably do with trying some of your methods, fellow posters.
You don't necessarily need to talk to them in PM,
most of the people I've met, I've just spoken with a ton on the forums.
 

BENZOOKA

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TopazFusion said:
SckizoBoy said:
my inbox is one long line of messages with the same subject
Oh, yours is like that too?

My inbox goes something like this:

Code:
Your avatar
Code:
Your avatar
Code:
Your avatar
Code:
Your avatar
Code:
Your avatar
You get the picture ...
I know the feeling. Although I've noticed you keep changing yours, while for me it's just about this one. I should finally upgrade it. After a couple inquiries I switched to pretty much just replying with a copy-paste of the most comprehensive, yet encapsulated, response, describing the origins of it.

edit: It's about half and half, sending and receiving requests, although I haven't friended anyone in ages. Usually it's some users who I've talked with or who share the same views and can bring them up intelligently, etc.
 

Mr F.

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Not been around here long enough to make friends with anyone. On other forums I used to add my actual friends as friends but, after a few... misshaps I have stopped telling anyone I actually know where I spend my time online. Had too many... Experiences of hatemail and whatnot.

Its not that I am anti-social or anything, I just try and keep my online and offline lives very, very separate. If anyone wants to talk to a less then ordinary gamer (That is, I admit to no mental illness, no anxiety disorders, no anger issues, I do not claim to be more intelligent then most of the planet. All of which make me "Abnormal", at least it seems that way due to the reaction of most when anything about mental illness or intelligence comes up. I mean, 46.3% of those who posted in that "Rate your intelligence" thread are apparently of above average intelligence. Which makes no sense) then feel free to add me. I like talking.

So... I have yet to make friends on the escapist.

But hopefully that will change at some point.

EDIT: Apparently I make friends through using posts like this one. Keep up the trend people, I have a month to kill and I am so bored, so very bored, there is only so much warhammer one can paint in a day!
 

Kragg

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does friending people actually do anything? like show their posts in a diff colour or ... ?
 

Exius Xavarus

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I don't, typically. In my 2 years here, I've got one friend. It takes a long time before I make friends. Because when I make friends, I make sure they're worth having. Despite that, however, I'm the "everybody's friend" type of person. White, black, Asian, gothic, nerdy, geeky, emo, mentally retarded. All these kinds of people and more. Although this clashes with my general position as a people hater, but whatever.

As for friends here on the Escapist, uhh...I don't talk nearly enough to make friends with many people. My one and only friend came from both of us being avid Dark Souls players in the Dark Souls User Group. Although our topics of conversation are often more than just that game. Like games in general! I'll talk all day about games. But I'm typically silent otherwise(which would explain why you'll typically see me in the Gaming Discussion Forum).

Colour-Scientist said:
I usually wait for people to friend me but sometimes I'll make the first move.

I generally won't friend people I haven't spoken to at some point. There're some people I talk to quite regularly on this that I'm not friends with, I'll make them come to me!
Might I inquire the kind of discussion that typically occurs in your User Group? I was considering joining it, but I would like to be sure that I'd actually participate. So that I don't end up joining and making the group look bad for leaving soon after joining because it wasn't my thing.

Whoopsie. Forgive the typo.

Kragg said:
does friending people actually do anything? like show their posts in a diff colour or ... ?
Not particularly. I'm no lawyer so don't take my word for it, but I think all it does is allow you to find your friend's posts more easily. I'm not entirely sure, myself, other than having your profile say you're ______'s friend. However, showing your friend's posts in a different color idea is a neat idea, I must say.
 

Colour Scientist

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ExiusXavarus said:
Might I inquire the kind of discussion that typically occurs in your User Group? I was considering joining it, but I would like to be sure that I'd actually participate. So that I end up joining and making the group look bad for leaving soon after joining because it wasn't my thing.
Well, it's only been running a few days and there have been a lot of different discussions between different people. It's all fairly light-hearted, just chatting really.
Well you can always join if you want to and then leave if you don't enjoy it. No one's going to take it personally.
 

Exius Xavarus

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Colour-Scientist said:
ExiusXavarus said:
Might I inquire the kind of discussion that typically occurs in your User Group? I was considering joining it, but I would like to be sure that I'd actually participate. So that I end up joining and making the group look bad for leaving soon after joining because it wasn't my thing.
Well, it's only been running a few days and there have been a lot of different discussions between different people. It's all fairly light-hearted, just chatting really.
Well you can always join if you want to and then leave if you don't enjoy it. No one's going to take it personally.
Ahh, yeah I saw it the first day it was up and I saw Anime as one of the subjects and I was like, Right up my alley! But then that changed and I was like, D: But chatting sounds nice enough. It gets lonely lurking the forums sometimes. :P
 

Shinsei-J

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I have yet to use this friend option.
It all seem a bit of a foreign concept to me.
One day it may happen but alas, today is not that day...
For even if you friend me, I won't see it till tomorrow.
30 minutes till 12PM you see.
 

Cazza

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Shinsei-J said:
I have yet to use this friend option.
It all seem a bit of a foreign concept to me.
One day it may happen but alas, today is not that day...
For even if you friend me, I won't see it till tomorrow.
30 minutes till 12PM you see.
YAY Perth. anyway I'm off to bed as well.
 

Fappy

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I generally wait for others to friend me. Sometimes I realize that I have been talking to a user a lot and don't have them on my friend's list, so I add them. Actually come to think of it... there are a lot of people I have been talking to lately that aren't on my friend's list. Guess it's really not all that important on this site.
 

Scarim Coral

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Most of the time I let them friend me althought a few times I did it first because that person share an interest similar to my althought that the reason why most people had friend me in the first place.