How important is sex to you?
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Or not give a damn? That's how you would feel but plenty of other people wouldn't. If people want to live a sexually liberal life then they should go ahead and do that. A relationship with somebody more conservative like yourself wouldn't work out anyway because sexual compatibility is important in a relationship. What possible reason has anybody to "tone it down" other than people being narrow minded and judgemental?CODE-D said:I dont think people should live in that mentality. I dont know how many people your ...erm..."enjoying" but I know that I would be uncomfortable with that knowledge if I knew you but then again I respect women who are conservative as these days it doesnt seem like there are many around (men as well)and they seem like women worth winning the affection of.The .50 Caliber Cow said:I say life is far too short to not have sex. Enjoy all the pleasures you can because before you know it you'll be hit by the stroke fairy and you'll be in a care home without any chance to do anything. That's what happened to me granndad :/Liquidacid23 said:bah love is nothing more than a chemical reaction which is only an incentive to further ensure our reproducing... if you already understand the need than you don't need the added incentive... so you're just ahead of the curve... get laid, enjoy life and laugh at all those ignorant people who judge youThe .50 Caliber Cow said:
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Do what you want I guess but if people are noticing enough to call you a slut you might want to take some introspection or tone it down a little.
Why should people have to change their lifestyles because slut-shamers aren't comfortable with it?CODE-D said:
If you don't want to have a lot of sex, fine, but don't put down others because they enjoy it.
I wouldnt say so. I would say that means you have willpower of steel. Im 18 and me and my girlfriend are both virgins.Forlong said:
I see sex as a compliment to a relationship, it's nice but not the reason I choose to be with someone in the first place, if I was in it for the carnal pleasure I'd jerk off and be done with it, simple pleasures don't need complications.
romance and love are important to me, to dismiss them as nothing more than chemicals or a social manipulation trick (yeah, the terms are misused beyond count) seems like a disservice to oneself, they're part of what makes us human, what makes me who I am.
to me, sex symbolises trust and affection, deal with it carefully but without shame, and hey, the flipside is also true: you don't need a long-term relationship in order do it.
CAPTHA: know thyself
...spooky.
romance and love are important to me, to dismiss them as nothing more than chemicals or a social manipulation trick (yeah, the terms are misused beyond count) seems like a disservice to oneself, they're part of what makes us human, what makes me who I am.
to me, sex symbolises trust and affection, deal with it carefully but without shame, and hey, the flipside is also true: you don't need a long-term relationship in order do it.
CAPTHA: know thyself
...spooky.
It's great fun, a reliable way to share some endorphines. Best enjoyed with someone you love, although more casual affairs certainly work. Friends with benefits is always fun.
It's a biological urge, but it's no bother managing, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Just remember to be responsible about it. The humble rubber is one of the greatest inventions out there. Use it! And don't trample any feelings, it can end quite badly for everyone involved. Oh, and don't be ashamed of a biological urge that have been hardwired into you that you can't help, and don't be ashamed of the lack thereof. Repressing or angsting over the bedroom-business isn't a good idea in the long run.
It's a biological urge, but it's no bother managing, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Just remember to be responsible about it. The humble rubber is one of the greatest inventions out there. Use it! And don't trample any feelings, it can end quite badly for everyone involved. Oh, and don't be ashamed of a biological urge that have been hardwired into you that you can't help, and don't be ashamed of the lack thereof. Repressing or angsting over the bedroom-business isn't a good idea in the long run.
Sex and related things are quite fun, but I'm quite fine when I'm without them.
Being without cuddles is much harder though.
Being without cuddles is much harder though.
I said she doesnt have to but might want to considerate it.Colour-Scientist said:
I dont know who the people calling her slut are and I dont know who she is so I have no reference and am taking no sides, they might be average people and she might actually be pretty slutty or she she might be a little promiscuous and theyre just in her face.
I dont know
You dont know
So lets not argue.
I want to have sex, but I see the repercussion's it can have, so I save it till I am deeply invested in a relationship.
When I was a teenager, I fucked everyone who shuffled into my field of vision. And being Bi-sexual that amounted to a whole helluva lot of people. Now I really don't care so much, which isn't to say that I don't still enjoy sex. I do quite a lot. And It is my opinion that sex helps build good relationships. I just don't have to have it every other day like I used too.
I enjoy sex, and I used to enjoy it quite often a few years ago. But then I made the personal choice to not be intimate with someone unless I actually liked them, and they liked me. Sex for sex's sake stopped being fun to me -- little things that you can ignore with someone you care about are glaringly obvious with someone you don't. And I don't necessarily mean some perfect lover person that you are in love with ... just someone you actually LIKE. Beyond physical attraction. It came to a point that right after the act was done, I would think "wow, I would have enjoyed myself more if I had been playing my Playstation/watching Lifetime/pleasuring myself". So I just stopped. I don't miss it all that much (I feel that the longer you go without it, the easier it is to deal), and when I do feel raunchy, I take of that on my own time.
So sex isn't all that important to me now, mainly because I'm not having it. I do still think the act is awesome, I'm just jaded off of my previous sexual encounters, so I'm looking for something a bit different.
So sex isn't all that important to me now, mainly because I'm not having it. I do still think the act is awesome, I'm just jaded off of my previous sexual encounters, so I'm looking for something a bit different.
I'm going to awnswer this question, with a very simple statement.
I'm 16.
S'all that needs to be said.
I'm 16.
S'all that needs to be said.
I enjoy sex, but it's not an all-consuming thing for me. Although being in a committed long-distance relationship can get frustrating on that score occasionally.
If I had the ability to reproduce asexually, through mitosis, I wouldn't. Then I'd have 1 person to interact with that didn't want to be there in the first place. I prefer limiting my social interactions to fragging noobs and leading 25 raiders against THE BIG BAD.
I find the question strange. I have sex. It's a great way to maintain the relationship I have with my boyfriend. I enjoy it. If I were removed completely of my sex drive, I would only really mourn it so far as it would be much harder for me to satisfy my boyfriend, though.
About the Aldous Huxley quote, entheogens > sex every time for me, and I think it highly likely he was referring to same having read 'Doors of Perception' and 'Heaven and Hell'.