How important is sex to you?

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The .50 Caliber Cow

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I enjoy sex. A lot. It is a big part of my life and I openly admit that. Some people call me a slut because of that. I dont care.

How do you view sex in your life?

Edit: Captcha: "do it now!"

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Vivace-Vivian

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Sex itself? Meh. Sexuality, attraction, and everything surrounding it is a big part. it's strange, most people around me think I'm an extremely sexual person but really, I'm more interested in contact in general then the act. Not that I don`t like sex, I just like the build up to it more.
 

The .50 Caliber Cow

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Liquidacid23 said:
reproduction is part of survival and survival is the only real "reason" any organism exists so it rightfully should be a large part of your life...
Some people think it should only exist if "love" exists there...
 

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Well I try to avoid it and thinking about it, for some reason the subject makes me uncomfortable and the just thinking about actually doing it terrifies me for some reason, I mean even if I just see a sexual image [small](porn)[/small] I just freeze, it's weird I mean I can deal with fires, earthquakes, floods, muggers and shoot-outs without even getting startled but sex freezes me in terror...
 

The .50 Caliber Cow

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Liquidacid23 said:
The .50 Caliber Cow said:
Liquidacid23 said:
reproduction is part of survival and survival is the only real "reason" any organism exists so it rightfully should be a large part of your life...
Some people think it should only exist if "love" exists there...
bah love is nothing more than a chemical reaction which is only an incentive to further ensure our reproducing... if you already understand the need than you don't need the added incentive... so you're just ahead of the curve... get laid, enjoy life and laugh at all those ignorant people who judge you :)
I say life is far too short to not have sex. Enjoy all the pleasures you can because before you know it you'll be hit by the stroke fairy and you'll be in a care home without any chance to do anything. That's what happened to me granndad :/
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Sex is like maths to me: it's everywhere, but it's for other people to deal with.
 

The .50 Caliber Cow

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Liquidacid23 said:
The .50 Caliber Cow said:
Liquidacid23 said:
The .50 Caliber Cow said:
Liquidacid23 said:
reproduction is part of survival and survival is the only real "reason" any organism exists so it rightfully should be a large part of your life...
Some people think it should only exist if "love" exists there...
bah love is nothing more than a chemical reaction which is only an incentive to further ensure our reproducing... if you already understand the need than you don't need the added incentive... so you're just ahead of the curve... get laid, enjoy life and laugh at all those ignorant people who judge you :)
I say life is far too short to not have sex. Enjoy all the pleasures you can because before you know it you'll be hit by the stroke fairy and you'll be in a care home without any chance to do anything. That's what happened to me granndad :/
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true true... just be careful what you apply logic like that too... me using that type of thinking has ended with waking up in a cold jail cell more than once...

I REGRET NOTHING!
I spent a night in jail once. Not fun but they let me go because my friends were the ones who had drugs on them. I was just there.
 

Screamarie

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Well seeing as the only sex I've had is fade to black implied sex with Garrus and Thane.....not much. Yeah, virgin. Don't really give a shit. If I ever met the right guy, sure, whatever, but if I don't I'll die a virgin and be content.

Believe it or not it is possible to survive without sex...though I know many people disagree with me.
 

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"An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex." -Aldous Huxley
 

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Vivace-Vivian said:
Sex itself? Meh. Sexuality, attraction, and everything surrounding it is a big part. it's strange, most people around me think I'm an extremely sexual person but really, I'm more interested in contact in general then the act. Not that I don`t like sex, I just like the build up to it more.
that's pretty much my policy as well. It's actually been years since I've had actual sex, but all of those other things are a big part of what makes me happy.
 

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Screamarie said:
Well seeing as the only sex I've had is fade to black implied sex with Garrus and Thane.....not much. Yeah, virgin. Don't really give a shit. If I ever met the right guy, sure, whatever, but if I don't I'll die a virgin and be content.

Believe it or not it is possible to survive without sex...though I know many people disagree with me.
I think it comes down to two main things.

1. A general 'don't knock it till you try it' attitude for a bunch of common things, mixed with 'you don't know what you're missing'.
Which you can probably follow at your own speed anyway, so not like there's even any reason to change the way you're doing things D:.

I've had this same thing with wanting people to try drinking (in moderation) and blow away a lot of their assumptions and see them hopefully have a good time and learn about themselves, and drinking probably has more capacity for disaster I guess, not that either should be taken lightly.

2. People seem to get off on introducing people to things (either indirectly or actually going out of their way to pursue you) and seeing you change/hearing about it and being able to say "I told you so". There may also be an element of "challenge accepted" nonsense to it somewhere.

Also I managed to stalk you across threads..which means I should really stop reading too many threads about sexuality :/.

Anyway..Less creepy and on topic..I feel like the absence of sexual attraction is more important to me than enjoying sex is. It's not really important as long as I feel like it's not missing entirely. Yeah it's fun but I'm not gonna try and force the issue when there's a bunch of stuff that's more important.

Captcha was "piggyback"..weirdly appropriate.
 

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Screamarie said:
Believe it or not it is possible to survive without sex...though I know many people disagree with me.
As someone whose love life has consisted of long periods of feast and famine, I'll agree it is indeed possible to survive without sex.
But it's not living.
Well yes it is, that was ridiculous hyperbole. But with a partner you trust, love and confide in it can be one of the best things that happens regularly in your life.
 

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The .50 Caliber Cow said:
I enjoy sex. A lot. It is a big part of my life and I openly admit that. Some people call me a slut because of that. I dont care.
I'm with you OP, except I've never been called a slut for it.

I start to get a bit moody and on edge if I go without, good job I'm in a serious relationship.
 

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isometry said:
"An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex." -Aldous Huxley
That doesn't make you seem as clever as you think it does.

OP: I enjoy it and my boyfriend and I have it regularly. I don't think it's a big deal though. It's great and feels amazing but it doesn't occupy my thoughts all of the time. I think most people need to relax about it.

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The .50 Caliber Cow said:
I enjoy sex. A lot. It is a big part of my life and I openly admit that. Some people call me a slut because of that. I dont care.
One of the healthiest attitudes there is to have about sex, in my opinion.
 

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It's like rollerskating. I guess it sounds like fun, and plenty of people seem to enjoy it. I probably would too if I could be bothered, I guess. But I'm not particularly passionate about it, and I don't feel any particular need to pursue it.
 

isometry

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Colour-Scientist said:
isometry said:
"An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex." -Aldous Huxley
That doesn't make you seem as clever as you think it does.
I meant to post another quote so that there would be more to think about, but I wasn't sure if the language was too crass for the forum, so I chickened out. In a spoiler:

"The most satisfying feel you can get in the gym is the "pump". It's as satisfying to me as "cumming" is, y'know? As having sex with a woman and cumming. So can you believe how much I am in heaven? I'm like getting the feeling of cumming in the gym, getting the feeling of cumming at home, and cumming backstage when I pump up and when I pose out in front of 5000 viewers, I get the same feeling, so I'm cumming day and night! I mean it's terrific...right?"

To elaborate on what these quotes mean when taken together, the greatest expression of human sexuality is to find some activity that is on the level of continually climaxing. To work on a mathematical problem for many years and finally be on the virge of proof, or to have perfect discipline and willpower in training for the world's most prestigious bodybuilding competition, the common feature is that it is like having sex in slow motion over a protracted period of time.
 

Vault101

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I'd like to have some at some point....but you know...thats all that "being social" stuff thats a bit of a pain


I don't put on a pedalstool like its some great big deal though
 

BreakfastMan

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Completely unimportant. I feel no need to receive it or give it to either gender. Luckily, that leaves me with much more time for important things, like video games, television, movies, music, and comics. ;D