An actual date? Probably about 6 weeks ago... Then again it was my first wedding anniversary so a date was... well important. My wife and I don't go on 'dates' too often. They're expensive and if we plan on going out for dinner and a movie or whatever then we'll almost always invite a couple of friends along too.
How long ago was your last date?
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I'm not sure if this counts but 2 months ago me and my best-freind (who fancied me at the time, she's a girl as well) went to the cinema and the park.
Not sure if it counts, but it was fun!
Not sure if it counts, but it was fun!
5 months ago..damn, has it really been that long? When my last girlfriend dumped me out of the blue towards the end of may (This is the third failed relationship I've had in high school) I decided I needed a break over the summer from woman and their maddeningness. Um, tried to start up a fling with one girl in august, that didn't work, probably could've gone about that situation better. And yeah I've been a bit of an introvert this first month of school. I don't know why it's so hard for me to talk to girls I find attractive, especially when I'm kicking myself later at a bunch of missed opportunities. I've done it before, so I don't know why I can't now. Fuck fear.
We don't 'date' much in England. Me and my boyfriend live together, so we don't really go on dates as such.
We went to see Scott Pilgrim about a month or two ago, and went for a meal for our anniversary.
We went to see Scott Pilgrim about a month or two ago, and went for a meal for our anniversary.
A combination of shyness and paranoia that they'll somehow be offended by me being attracted to them.SimuLord said:
I hate myself sometimes...
well, never.
The result of this? Me thinking about stuff like "what is love?", "What is a girlfriend?", "If love is something relative to each others standards, do you need to be on the same "level" of love?", "Do you need interest or a degree of love to start a relationship?" for the 4 last years, just as I started university.. yeah my grades are having a hard time.
What's stopping me?
Part of the answer are said questions, most of people I have interest in are already taken. I over analyze everything, so if I think she's sending some messages part of my brain will take that as interest (the part of my brain I dislike a lot) and the other part will look at the circumstances and find a non interested reason for it.
What I believe are my standards and moral (if the girl is drunk I can't even consider anything since I might be abusing of the situation).
Or maybe my morals are just excuses I gives myself because I might simply be afraid of change and being annoying (not sure about it though, still analyzing that).
Everything I ever plan always fail.
Oh, and the fact I hate Clubs, but from what I've witness of a room-mate dating a club girl, I'm not missing much since she would be bound to get badly on my nerves.
Or maybe I'm never sure if she's already in a relationship, and being afraid to come of rude by asking? Great, I start to think too much again...
is that a satisfying answer?
The result of this? Me thinking about stuff like "what is love?", "What is a girlfriend?", "If love is something relative to each others standards, do you need to be on the same "level" of love?", "Do you need interest or a degree of love to start a relationship?" for the 4 last years, just as I started university.. yeah my grades are having a hard time.
What's stopping me?
Part of the answer are said questions, most of people I have interest in are already taken. I over analyze everything, so if I think she's sending some messages part of my brain will take that as interest (the part of my brain I dislike a lot) and the other part will look at the circumstances and find a non interested reason for it.
What I believe are my standards and moral (if the girl is drunk I can't even consider anything since I might be abusing of the situation).
Or maybe my morals are just excuses I gives myself because I might simply be afraid of change and being annoying (not sure about it though, still analyzing that).
Everything I ever plan always fail.
Oh, and the fact I hate Clubs, but from what I've witness of a room-mate dating a club girl, I'm not missing much since she would be bound to get badly on my nerves.
Or maybe I'm never sure if she's already in a relationship, and being afraid to come of rude by asking? Great, I start to think too much again...
is that a satisfying answer?
Good luck! The ps2 has too many awesome games to count...Vault101 said:He can have it back as soon as I find a copy of Shadow of the colussushyperhammy said:
and when I finish god of war 1 and 2
If this is your first ps2 then you will be busy for a long time.
Four years ago. I didnt become attracted to girls until a few months ago (seriously, I can remember the moment I realised),so all dates had to be instigated by the girl.
Whats stopping me now? I did say today that I would go out and ask some girls out, like, at bars and such. Then I realised its Sunday. Going out to town today would be weird. So I have to wait till at least Thursday. Plus, theres the fact that im about 4-6 years behind in terms of experiance; I live a fair while out of town, so if I drink I need to find a place to crash. Also im very confused as to what to do, and what to do for a date. Not complaining, just appealing for help with these. Im a bit out of my depth
Whats stopping me now? I did say today that I would go out and ask some girls out, like, at bars and such. Then I realised its Sunday. Going out to town today would be weird. So I have to wait till at least Thursday. Plus, theres the fact that im about 4-6 years behind in terms of experiance; I live a fair while out of town, so if I drink I need to find a place to crash. Also im very confused as to what to do, and what to do for a date. Not complaining, just appealing for help with these. Im a bit out of my depth
Uhm... Thinking about it real hard I'd have to say about... 2½-3 years.
Yeah...
Mostly my own fault, I have massive trust-issues backed with being a complete chicken.
Yeah...
Mostly my own fault, I have massive trust-issues backed with being a complete chicken.