How to please a girl, non-pysically.
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Well instead of being mushy gushy and searching for ways to be romantic, just be yourself and have fun. Lovey dovey gets anoying if theres too much of it. If she likes you its because you're you so just relax and have fun. Girls love fun more than anything. Also, as a man you should be your own person with goals and aspirations. The ladies love a man that has something productive going on that hes passionate about. Doing the above will make it seem to her that just being around you is romantic.Everin said:So, I was wondering, how do you make a girl feel special, without getting physical beyond cuddling and kissing and such. And Im not asking for advice, Im asking for ideas, special things I could do for the girl I love
I'm not sure that's the best way to make someone "feel special". In fact, it sounds like the total opposite.Monkfish Acc. said:
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Give her something that took you a lot of time, thought, and effort with a highly personal touch. Make it yourself if possible, and to make someone feel special you have to give them something special. The best gift I've gotten from a girl is a self-made card that contained all the original 150 Pokemon painted on in highly spastic ways, because one of the things we always used to talk about was Pokemon.
Personal to us, thoughtful, took time to make. Perfect.
If you're taking the gift-giving approach, that sounds like EXACTLY the right way to do it, that gift sounds both lovely and thoughtful. Shouldn't be the only thing, though. Really, there is little you can do that will work immediately, just be there for her, either as a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, etc. Be encouraging. Do that consistently, and it will please her more than any necklace, no matter how nice.Mr.Numbers said:
I was really happy the other day when my boyfriend made me a magic deck. Blue was the only colour I hadn't really touched, and I mentioned that I was thinking of getting into it but needed to get some blue cards first...
Later that week he gave me a bunch of his blue cards, but he didn't just hand them to me... He crafted them into a starter deck. I thought it was really sweet (Deck needed some serious modifications, but that's half the fun =D).
Later that week he gave me a bunch of his blue cards, but he didn't just hand them to me... He crafted them into a starter deck. I thought it was really sweet (Deck needed some serious modifications, but that's half the fun =D).
There is a concept called love languages that has been really good for me and my gf/wife of the last 7 years. Basic premise is this. People speak a certain language in how they express love and how they best receive it. Figure out what her language is and speak it to her as much as possible. For all you know it might actually be physical. Here is a link to the theory in full explanation
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/
Replace the ''How to'' in your title with ''Why'' and that's all i can say
Honestly, though... it's hard to say, for no matter how much we want all women to fit in an easily analyzable category, though most do, all of them are different and all that jazz.
Get to know her, and show some fuckin' initiative. Women really are a mystery, no matter who you ask. Probably has to with their PMS. Good Luck, Casanova
Honestly, though... it's hard to say, for no matter how much we want all women to fit in an easily analyzable category, though most do, all of them are different and all that jazz.
Get to know her, and show some fuckin' initiative. Women really are a mystery, no matter who you ask. Probably has to with their PMS. Good Luck, Casanova
I'm a girl and I agree with this. If you want to get her a gift every girl has a favourite flower and gemstone. I'm about the most tomboy girl I know and even I do. Take time to find out what she loves. It will show you put thought into it.blackbobcat said:
Share one of her interests, take her somewhere she likes or do something she has mentioned she wanted to do, cook her favourite food
Well in my experience of obsessive, clingy, and otherwise insane ex girlfriends I never was able to fully figure this out.
Be an overall nice person, tell them what you think and what you feel, let them know either by telling or showing (not physically) that they are important to you.
If you do this correctly you should be alright. If however after this they still think you are a horrible person they are just crazy, have impossible expectations, and are not right for you. (see above)
Be an overall nice person, tell them what you think and what you feel, let them know either by telling or showing (not physically) that they are important to you.
If you do this correctly you should be alright. If however after this they still think you are a horrible person they are just crazy, have impossible expectations, and are not right for you. (see above)
I agree. Compliments are the cornerstone of any successful relationship....as long as you pay attention. If they get a new haircut, new outfit or if they wear glasses one day instead of contacts, point it out and tell them it looks good on them.TimeLord said:
What I do is I find out what they like, and hide it somewhere with a note attached. My ex for example loved white chocolate and purple flowers. So I would hide a single purple flower in her purse with a note attached like 'I miss you' or 'have a good day' before I went to work. Or sometimes whenever she hugged me I would slip a small white chocolate bar in her pocket/handbag.
Warm up birthday gifts are a great idea too. Say her birthday is on the 15th, get her a small nick nack that you think she'd like on the 12th, 13th or 14th. That way she knows you won't forget and that you're thinking of her.
It depends on who you are and who she is. Long ago when we were really broke, my husband went to the library and borrowed some books he thought I would like, wrapped them and that was my christmas present. I was so happy! I'm a big reader, and he had put a lot of thought into the selection.
It's the little every day stuff that matters. I wake up and breakfast is ready, or the car is already de-iced when I go out to do it on a cold day.
On the other hand... I know a girl who want presents, the bigger the better, and if you can't afford them, then you're not the boy for her.
It's the little every day stuff that matters. I wake up and breakfast is ready, or the car is already de-iced when I go out to do it on a cold day.
On the other hand... I know a girl who want presents, the bigger the better, and if you can't afford them, then you're not the boy for her.
Cooking, humor and shoes. I did that 'how well do you know women' test on facebook and got 100% even taught i've never had a GF. Sitcoms thought me most of it.