How to please a girl, non-pysically.

[Esotera]

Bake her a cake, decorate it with some special writing, then post it to her. Like, in an actual envelope (after wrapping it in clingfilm). I've done this a few times and it works really well, because everyone likes cake, and she definitely wasn't expecting it.

Or you could take her shopping? That always cheers up my female friends.

 

[MissDK]

For me it is as simple as this: When my bf tells me that he loves me I feel like the most lucky girl on earth! No need for expensive presents ect. I mean of course that is nice too, but for me it doesn't make me feel nearly as good. OH! and remeber to hug her lots and lots :3

 

[BlackSaint09]

Go out of youre way to make her happy in ways other than sex.

 

[Thebiggestpanda]

So, I was wondering, how do you make a girl feel special, without getting physical beyond cuddling and kissing and such. And Im not asking for advice, Im asking for ideas, special things I could do for the girl I love

Well instead of being mushy gushy and searching for ways to be romantic, just be yourself and have fun. Lovey dovey gets anoying if theres too much of it. If she likes you its because you're you so just relax and have fun. Girls love fun more than anything. Also, as a man you should be your own person with goals and aspirations. The ladies love a man that has something productive going on that hes passionate about. Doing the above will make it seem to her that just being around you is romantic.

 

[Crazy_Dude]

Just be nice to her. Honestly it isn't that hard.

 

[Danny Roberts]

learn to spell the word physically...?

 

[AngloDoom]

How about

treat her like a person.

I'm not sure that's the best way to make someone "feel special". In fact, it sounds like the total opposite.

OT:

Give her something that took you a lot of time, thought, and effort with a highly personal touch. Make it yourself if possible, and to make someone feel special you have to give them something special. The best gift I've gotten from a girl is a self-made card that contained all the original 150 Pokemon painted on in highly spastic ways, because one of the things we always used to talk about was Pokemon.

Personal to us, thoughtful, took time to make. Perfect.

 

[Avatar Roku]

SNIP

I earn 8 dollars an hour but needed to buy a nice present for my GF...I bought her a silver necklace with a small, perfectly crafted kitten on it...

She really liked cats, it was beautiful, and it went out of the way a lot.

Also it cost me 10 hours of work >.>

If you're taking the gift-giving approach, that sounds like EXACTLY the right way to do it, that gift sounds both lovely and thoughtful. Shouldn't be the only thing, though. Really, there is little you can do that will work immediately, just be there for her, either as a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, etc. Be encouraging. Do that consistently, and it will please her more than any necklace, no matter how nice.

 

[maninahat]

What? There are ways to please a woman that doesn't require my penis?


I must investigate this further...

Well don't stop with your penis, whatever you do. The poor girl still needs a laugh.

 

[Oracle144]

I was really happy the other day when my boyfriend made me a magic deck. Blue was the only colour I hadn't really touched, and I mentioned that I was thinking of getting into it but needed to get some blue cards first...

Later that week he gave me a bunch of his blue cards, but he didn't just hand them to me... He crafted them into a starter deck. I thought it was really sweet (Deck needed some serious modifications, but that's half the fun =D).

 

[feeqmatic]

There is a concept called love languages that has been really good for me and my gf/wife of the last 7 years. Basic premise is this. People speak a certain language in how they express love and how they best receive it. Figure out what her language is and speak it to her as much as possible. For all you know it might actually be physical. Here is a link to the theory in full explanation

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/

 

[Assassinscreed548]

Replace the ''How to'' in your title with ''Why'' and that's all i can say
Honestly, though... it's hard to say, for no matter how much we want all women to fit in an easily analyzable category, though most do, all of them are different and all that jazz.
Get to know her, and show some fuckin' initiative. Women really are a mystery, no matter who you ask. Probably has to with their PMS. Good Luck, Casanova

 

[Mischa87]

Remember important days, and the days of firsts, first date/kiss/ect, and remember every detail about those firsts

 

[Moonlight Butterfly]

HOWEVER if you went down to the store and brought say.... i dunno some Paua earrings or something because Paua is her favorite stone/shell thats different because it shows you have put thought into it....

I'm a girl and I agree with this. If you want to get her a gift every girl has a favourite flower and gemstone. I'm about the most tomboy girl I know and even I do. Take time to find out what she loves. It will show you put thought into it.

 

[mental_looney]

Share one of her interests, take her somewhere she likes or do something she has mentioned she wanted to do, cook her favourite food

 

[wwjdftw]

well, You basically have to say things that if you said to anyone but your girl would make you look like a creep, and if you said to another man would have you shunned from society... that's pretty much it

 

[Mikeyfell]

How do you please a girl? Use your tongue.

To give her compliments and idle conversation you sicko.

 

[Nargleblarg]

Well in my experience of obsessive, clingy, and otherwise insane ex girlfriends I never was able to fully figure this out.

Be an overall nice person, tell them what you think and what you feel, let them know either by telling or showing (not physically) that they are important to you.

If you do this correctly you should be alright. If however after this they still think you are a horrible person they are just crazy, have impossible expectations, and are not right for you. (see above)