How to please a girl, non-pysically.

[Polarity27]

So, I was wondering, how do you make a girl feel special, without getting physical beyond cuddling and kissing and such. And Im not asking for advice, Im asking for ideas, special things I could do for the girl I love

Stop treating girls like they're some exotic species that acts as one mind and is so incomprehensible that you need to ask an internet forum how to decode them.

In other words, you know her, we don't. What does *she* like? Only you know if she'd like a bouquet of flowers and a candlelight dinner or a night spent slaughtering n00bs by your side. If you don't know this, you haven't spent enough time actually talking to her.

You didn't ask for advice, but you posed an impossible question.

 

[StBishop]

Listen. To everything.

Buy them thoughtful gifts.

Make her dinner.

Go out of your way to make sure she has what she wants.

Clean the house (only applies if you live together, otherwise it's creepy for you to clean her house).

Make an effort to look nice for her.

Notice when she makes and effort.

Compliments (but only genuine ones).

Beyond that, ask a girl.

 

[Da_Vane]

Make her feel special and wanted. Let her know that she means something to you. Respect her and love her.

Treat her as a person, not a sex object.

I believe you speak with wisdom and of truth.

OT: Basically, what the guy I quoted said but also be creative. You know her better than us, do something for her that'll make her happy.

Normally, I wouldn't bother to object to this sort of thing, but actually I'm a girl. That's why I know this stuff. It's how I'd want to be treated.

I love having sex, but it's better to love and be loved, and it makes the sex better. You want to make penis jokes, I'll just laugh at your jokes, and then I'll probably just laugh at your penis too.

You have to set the mood. Sex is as much in the mind as it is in the body. Get a girl's heart and mind racing, and then the body will follow. Therefore you need to learn what's in their heart and mind - and chances are it's not going to be "your penis" when you first meet, no matter how much you try. More chance of it being "not having sex with you, so don't even try it or I will kick your arse..."

But don't sweat it - I don't have any easier time chasing girls than any of you. You just have to take it slow and treat them right (oh, and don't put them off by making penis jokes, especially if you are a girl!)

 

[Ham_authority95]

For me it is as simple as this: When my bf tells me that he loves me I feel like the most lucky girl on earth! No need for expensive presents ect. I mean of course that is nice too, but for me it doesn't make me feel nearly as good. OH! and remeber to hug her lots and lots :3

But hugging is a physical thing.

OT: Yeah, pretty much what she said. "I love you" is a powerful thing, though, and say it only if you really mean it.

Also, just be there for her, in both ups and downs, and have fun while you're with her. Good times tend to please people.

Yes, but it said "how do you make a girl feel special, without getting physical beyond cuddling and kissing and such." so I'd say that hugs are in that category.

Ah, makes sense now.