i've gleaned a few things trying to decipher your problem.
1) You are panicky. Stop that. Panicky is no way to enter a relationship. Calm down. Take deep breaths. Relax.
B) This girl sounds weird. I mean, who doesn't like compliments? Maybe she doesn't like compliments from you? Or maybe she's into being abused in which case you should be a dick to her and tell her she looks like crap.
III)You think she would say yes even though she might not say yes? Your logic makes me feel panicky. If she's dating another guy, I'm pretty sure that she will say no unless you actually want to be in that "friend zone" because that's where she'll have to put you if you start hanging out and stuff.
4)You act like she's the last girl on earth just because she's different. Hell, I dated a "different" girl once. She nearly strangled me to death because she "loved me so much". I wish I was kidding because that crap is traumatic. Being different doesn't make a girl special. It's not the differences you should be thinking about, its the similarities you and her have.
Final word: Don't want her. From your description, there is disaster written all over this scenario, the kind of disaster that leaves you more miserable after than you were before. If I were you, I'd skip this girl in favor of someone more close to home. Someone who likes most of the things I do but has a mind of her own. Someone who likes adventure but also enjoys the comfort of home. Someone who hates night clubs but loves bars...
I'm sorry. I was projecting. Anyway, forget that girl.
1) You are panicky. Stop that. Panicky is no way to enter a relationship. Calm down. Take deep breaths. Relax.
B) This girl sounds weird. I mean, who doesn't like compliments? Maybe she doesn't like compliments from you? Or maybe she's into being abused in which case you should be a dick to her and tell her she looks like crap.
III)You think she would say yes even though she might not say yes? Your logic makes me feel panicky. If she's dating another guy, I'm pretty sure that she will say no unless you actually want to be in that "friend zone" because that's where she'll have to put you if you start hanging out and stuff.
4)You act like she's the last girl on earth just because she's different. Hell, I dated a "different" girl once. She nearly strangled me to death because she "loved me so much". I wish I was kidding because that crap is traumatic. Being different doesn't make a girl special. It's not the differences you should be thinking about, its the similarities you and her have.
Final word: Don't want her. From your description, there is disaster written all over this scenario, the kind of disaster that leaves you more miserable after than you were before. If I were you, I'd skip this girl in favor of someone more close to home. Someone who likes most of the things I do but has a mind of her own. Someone who likes adventure but also enjoys the comfort of home. Someone who hates night clubs but loves bars...
I'm sorry. I was projecting. Anyway, forget that girl.