As someone said earlier, post the facebook exchange, then we'll judge.
People who are smart/think they are smart/smart relative to the people they associate with often times don't get basic social communication, tone, presentation, ect.
BUT really, bias is often times underestimated in people. You might be the biggest douche-popsicle to walk the earth without knowing it, because it doesn't matter how smart someone is, bias will cloud their judgement as thoroughly as anyone else.
So...pics or it didn't happen? or something.