I need advice...

[Lizmichi]

Just go for it is the best advice I can give you. It's hard yes I know (I know all to well). If she says she has a boyfriend and then ask why just say you were curious, if not go from there.

 

[El Poncho]

I suggest you say that you like her and she will probably mention if she has a boyfriend or not.

Ok, well, I tried something similar to this, but it came out more like "you know, I really like talking to you..." and she just asked "why?" and I got nervous again.

Hmm, maybe you should ask her if she wants to go somewhere sometime. Although it's easier to tell you to do this than do it, since I get nervous aswell. Also I suggest that you think of what to say if she says why to your questions or something like that.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Ask her out, and soon too because if she said she liked you then you still have at least a decent chance, but the longer you wait the more your chances dwindle. Also, be confident and ask her yourself, don't get someone else to do it, girls like guys that are confident in how they act. Best of luck to you man, post back about what happens.

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

Ask her if she wants to see a movie with you. Scared? Suck it up and do it. If she says yes you'll be happy and if she says no you've lost nothing.

 

[Snowalker]

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Off topic: you beat me!, I can't believe you surpassed me in posts. Nice!

 

[Agent Larkin]

Just go for it. I did. I got turned down but I feel better for trying.

 

[shootthebandit]

if you never try you'll never know

the thing is, if shes not a close friend then it wont be awkward if she says no. just move on, if she doesnt like you for who you are then she isnt worth your time. i know its a cliche but its a cliche for a reason

im an ugly guy (and im not embarrassed to admit it) but i know that if someone likes me then its not for me looks (or lack there of) but for my personality. i recon you should think the same, if she likes you (or doesnt like you) for your looks then its not worth it. i recommend that you get to know her a bit better and see if you enjoy her company first

 

[Berethond]

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Off topic: you beat me!, I can't believe you surpassed me in posts. Nice!

We joined on the exact same day, you and I.

I win.

Slightly more on topic, you already know what to do.
You're just waiting for someone to say it so that you feel validated.

Therefore, do [insert Snowalker's choice here].

There you go.

 

[Snowalker]

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Off topic: you beat me!, I can't believe you surpassed me in posts. Nice!

We joined on the exact same day, you and I.

I win.

Slightly more on topic, you already know what to do.
You're just waiting for someone to say it so that you feel validated.

Therefore, do [insert Snowalker's choice here].

There you go.

I suppose your right...

But I just keep getting cold feet.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

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Off topic: you beat me!, I can't believe you surpassed me in posts. Nice!

Huh, I didn't even notice I had until you pointed it out. Kinda funny, I started out obsessing over my post count but now it barely seems to matter. ANYWHOO, you definitely need to ask this girl out, and post back about what happened so we can laugh at you erm.... make you feel better? I don't know, just ask her and if she says yes, go out and have some fun.

 

[Silver Scribbler]

Just go for it. If you don't you will fucking regret it.

 

[Broady Brio]

You could go outside of school just as friends rather than boy and girlfriend.

If she says no, which can happen. (Hopefully not.) Ask her why. She'll hopefully spill the beans, if she has a boyfriend or just busy that night. If busy that night, ask her to come out with you for fun like a film or something. Then if it went to plan, you will know more about her and you can make a decision if you want to go out with her.

Hope this helps you.
- Broady Brio
*Thumbs Up

 

[ddon]

What's so hard about telling her how you feel? Worst thing that can happen is she tells you she's already got a boyfriend, or that she's not interested. Either way, you know where you stand. If you really want to be with her, you'll grow the balls necessary to make a move.

i heard someone say that to their friend once. the guy got kicked in the balls and called a asshole. op i suggest you ask her friends what she thinks about you.

 

[Snowalker]

What's so hard about telling her how you feel? Worst thing that can happen is she tells you she's already got a boyfriend, or that she's not interested. Either way, you know where you stand. If you really want to be with her, you'll grow the balls necessary to make a move.

i heard someone say that to their friend once. the guy got kicked in the balls and called a asshole. op i suggest you ask her friends what she thinks about you.

Nice... that shot a lot of my confidense... Now I'm nervous for my balls... Damn..

 

[Macgyvercas]

My advice: If she has a Facebook, check it for her relationship status. If she's single, go for it. If not, do what I do when my plans backfire...PLAY VIDEO GAMES!!!

 

[quiet_samurai]

Ok, I know these threads get old, but my friends really aren't helping me and I'm at my wits end.


Ok, so last year this girl I liked for almost a year said she liked me. Well, cause of my idiot friends and my cold feet, I didn't ask her out. Well, I didn't talk to her over the summer and schools startedback and I think she still likes me. I've talked to her a little bit, and I really like her, but I have two problems. I can't figure out a way to find out if she has a boyfriend, and I'm not sure how to proceed without that knowledge. See we talk some on the phone, but very little, and some in person, but again very little, so I know I'm not in the "friend zone" but I also don't know if she still likes me that way anymore. So I do the stupid move and ask a bunch of random people on the internet for advice.


Thanks ahead of time

Just ask her if she has a boyfriend, or work it into the conversation somehow. Next time she talks about something being difficult or something say "Well don't you have friends or a boyfriend to help?" Just work it in there somehow man, it's really easy. Or you could just man-up and ask her out, even if she says no at least she will know you have feelings for her. And just because a girl says no now doesn't mean she won't say yes in the future.

I just don't understand the whole "I like someone and I want them to know it, but I don't want to tell them" phenomenon. Just go with your instincts, that's why we have them.

 

[Banana Phone Man]

People like confidence so tell her how you feel even if you feel like a complete idiot*

*I know I did.

 

[ddon]

What's so hard about telling her how you feel? Worst thing that can happen is she tells you she's already got a boyfriend, or that she's not interested. Either way, you know where you stand. If you really want to be with her, you'll grow the balls necessary to make a move.

i heard someone say that to their friend once. the guy got kicked in the balls and called a asshole. op i suggest you ask her friends what she thinks about you.

Nice... that shot a lot of my confidense... Now I'm nervous for my balls... Damn..

if she is nice as you say im sure you will be fine. and if she isnt nice that isnt the type of girlfriend i would go for.

 

[UnravThreads]

Whilst I'm not really one to talk (I'm crap at the confidence thing), all you can really do is ask her. Take a deep breath, do NOT think and walk up to her (preferably alone, so her friends don't giggle as it will most likely put you off) and just ask if there's a film she'd like to see and if you could take her, or something similar.

Either that or kick yourself for the next few years.

 

[skcseth]

You may be in the friend zone if you haven't talked to her all summer. And if you want to know something about a girl, ask her! What's the hold up?
As far as the not talking thing goes btw, if you two haven't talked all summer, and she didn't so much as make an attempt to talk to you during that time, it's safe to say she probably doesn't like you anymore.