I Need Advice

[TheRundownRabbit]

Im trying to get a girl I know to notice me more, we text and talk. I got to school with her, and for a short period of time, she liked my best friend (not anymore though, my friend didnt care much for her, so were cool). Im trying to get her more interested in me, Ive tried daily compliments, friendly chatter, etc. What do I do?

EDIT: Speak of the fuckin devil, shes textin me right now

9/29/10: I thought about it (for a long time) and Im gonna take your advice and just tell her how I feel tonight, wish me luck.

 

[Judgement101]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

17, and this girl is different (she isnt one of those preppy bitches.....she's unique)

 

[Judgement101]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

17, and this girl is different (she isnt one of those preppy bitches.....she's unique)

Not to sound like a jerk or anything but I have to say this. I really doubt she is different. It sounds like you are stuck in "The Friend Zone". You could take the direct approach and ask her out. I apologize if my post came off as offending.

 

[SpAc3man]

Just be a super nice guy. And listen to her carefully so you remember stuff she says, it will impress her

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

17, and this girl is different (she isnt one of those preppy bitches.....she's unique)

Not to sound like a jerk or anything but I have to say this. I really doubt she is different. It sounds like you are stuck in "The Friend Zone". You could take the direct approach and ask her out. I apologize if my post came off as offending.

No problem, I get that a lot, Im stubborn (some people say "not in the good way")

 

[child of lileth]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

 

[Judgement101]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

17, and this girl is different (she isnt one of those preppy bitches.....she's unique)

Not to sound like a jerk or anything but I have to say this. I really doubt she is different. It sounds like you are stuck in "The Friend Zone". You could take the direct approach and ask her out. I apologize if my post came off as offending.

No problem, I get that a lot, Im stubborn (some people say "not in the good way")

Just a heads up but you are going to get a lot of people saying one of two awnsers.
Normal People (15% of this site) will say: Direct approach and be nice
The rest will say: Some sort of thing related to sex with an inanimate object. (I wish I was kidding)

 

[ICanBreakTheseCuffs]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

don't forget to offer her a donut *wink* *wink*

OT:direct approach,if you wait for her it will be too late

[edit]wait how many of these threads have been posted each week?
I should do a thread on that

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

How old are you. At the ages of 13-17 girls only like the jerkish guys. Anything above that you should be ok just continueing on.

17, and this girl is different (she isnt one of those preppy bitches.....she's unique)

Not to sound like a jerk or anything but I have to say this. I really doubt she is different. It sounds like you are stuck in "The Friend Zone". You could take the direct approach and ask her out. I apologize if my post came off as offending.

No problem, I get that a lot, Im stubborn (some people say "not in the good way")

Just a heads up but you are going to get a lot of people saying one of two awnsers.
Normal People (15% of this site) will say: Direct approach and be nice
The rest will say: Some sort of thing related to sex with an inanimate object. (I wish I was kidding)

I wish you were kidding too, LOL

 

[Judgement101]

Just be a super nice guy. And listen to her carefully so you remember stuff she says, it will impress her

And then they normally go out with a complete jerk. (Sorry, this subject just brings up terrible memories)

 

[u4527646]

Just be a super nice guy. And listen to her carefully so you remember stuff she says, it will impress her

You better call Kenny Loggins, because that's the highway to the FRIENDZZOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONEEE.

OT: By the sounds of it, if you guys are friends, you just need to ask her out, but I wouldn't expect anything... It does (like other people have said) seem like you really are in the friend zone. And I'm not saying that you can't get out of it and into her pants (I mean, I have a few times), but it depends on the type of girl she is...

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

Its not that simple, she's.....a really complicated person (trust me I have never had this sort of thing happen with other girls......but the other girls if they reject me Ill be like "Pfft, whatever, your loss" but thats not the case here)

 

[Judgement101]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

don't forget to offer her a donut *wink* *wink*

OT:direct approach,if you wait for her it will be too late

[edit]wait how many of these threads have been posted each week?
I should do a thread on that

I think it's like 2.435 Per Week.

 

[Judgement101]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

Its not that simple, she's.....a really complicated person (trust me I have never had this sort of thing happen with other girls......but the other girls if they reject me Ill be like "Pfft, whatever, your loss" but thats not the case here)

Better than my situation. Turns out that I'm friends with a lot of girls because they think I'm gay -_-

 

[u4527646]

Just be a super nice guy. And listen to her carefully so you remember stuff she says, it will impress her

And then they normally go out with a complete jerk. (Sorry, this subject just brings up terrible memories)

This subject brings up AWESOME memories... I always tell them "you know, I'm a complete jerk" and they ALWAYS swoon... It's ridiculous.

 

[child of lileth]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

Its not that simple, she's.....a really complicated person (trust me I have never had this sort of thing happen with other girls......but the other girls if they reject me Ill be like "Pfft, whatever, your loss" but thats not the case here)

Okay, so she's special to you then? Even more reason to just go for it. If you don't do it, she'll never know how you feel about her. Trust me, the worst she can do is say no. You'll still be friends just like now. If she says yes, you got a date.

The thing is, guys seem to wait too long to make their feelings clear, and then get mad when they "get put in the friend zone" or whatever. Trust me, it's alot worse when guys aren't just upfront about it. You'll feel alot better once you just talk to her about it, and get it over with. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, that's just how it is. You can't really change that, but it's better to find out for sure, than to just not even try and put it off too long.

 

[Vesuvius Hetlan]

I just have one silly thing to say "Do a barrel roll, use the roof as a ramp and activate your nitro boosters."

Seriously though. Be yourself. Be enjoyable. Don't grab her ass until you are certain she will appreciate it.

 

[dmase]

Ignore her, lavishing attention on a women that thinks she can have whoever makes them more attracted to you.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

If you want to date her, and you already talk and stuff, just tell her you like her, and ask her out. Just be confident, and pretty to the point about it when you do.

Its not that simple, she's.....a really complicated person (trust me I have never had this sort of thing happen with other girls......but the other girls if they reject me Ill be like "Pfft, whatever, your loss" but thats not the case here)

Okay, so she's special to you then? Even more reason to just go for it. If you don't do it, she'll never know how you feel about her. Trust me, the worst she can do is say no. You'll still be friends just like now. If she says yes, you got a date.

The thing is, guys seem to wait too long to make their feelings clear, and then get mad when they "get put in the friend zone" or whatever. Trust me, it's alot worse when guys aren't just upfront about it. You'll feel alot better once you just talk to her about it, and get it over with. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, that's just how it is. You can't really change that, but it's better to find out for sure, than to just not even try and put it off too long.

No offense, i dont think I can risk that. I asked her to homecoming a few years back, and all i got was awkward silence and we stopped speaking for awhile until i said i was sorry, so I could only imagine what telling her I love her is gonna do