I would like to propose...

[tippy2k2]

Yeah, sorry dude. It's kind of hard working with a thread topic that has to do with emotions since there is so little information on emotions to begin with. I hope I didn't do anything to offend you though, was just trying to understand how people interpret things better.

No, I wasn't offended at all, I'm just using a bit of my dry humor (maybe I poured it on a bit too much? to point out why I think that notion is just not true.

 

[Vault101]

I think most of the time people will stick with one...but still able to apreciate attractive people of the same gender

[small/]I mean theres nothing odd about apreciating some girl on girl is there?[/small]

You know what you should get through your head? Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean that we're all like you.

Here's a new proposal. I won't go around telling you that you're secretly a deranged heterosexual and you don't question my orientation. How is that for 'middle ground'?

Btw, there's nothing special about 'middle ground'. I tend to see people use it when their ideas are so baseless they can't work on their own merit and have to go off some illogical idea that the middle ground is ideal.

Also btw, you totally said people get off on being raped when you said that any kind of sexual activity can and will get you off. You might want to consider what the hell you're saying before you say it. I think that phrase alone is emblematic of the amount of thought you put into this and considering what other people would want.

whoa....you seem rather angry

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

No thanks.
I think that would be very misleading. I'm afraid I might end up being solicited for sex by men and it would be really awkward when I turned them down.
"But aren't you a bisexual?"
"Well, yeah, but I don't like the cock."
"So you're biromantic, then?"
"No, I like the women."
"...But you're bi..."
"Yeah."
"So you like both?"
"Nope. Not a big fan of cock."
"But you're bi."
"Ayup."
"Surely you must be able to recognize some men as handsome or attractive to call yourself bi?"
"Well, as I'm sure you will agree, considering that you're propositioning me, I am fairly stunning... [http://art.penny-arcade.com/photos/1087535149_PNScU-L.jpg]"
"You're only autosexual...?"
"What? No, I don't fuck cars! How would you even do that? I mean... the tailpipe would scratch everything up and... *shiver*"
"No. 'Autosexual'. Sex with yourself. Having the hots for yourself."
"But I can't stick my dick in myself... Unless... I guess I could try to bend my dick back to my asshole..."
"If you could do that you'd be in pornos."
"Yeah. *zips pants back up* My dick might be impressive, but not that impressive apparently."
"So you're not autosexual?"
"No sir."
"You're bisexual?"
"Yeppers."
"Would you like to come back to my place then?"
"I've already told you: I don't want to touch your dick, damnit."
"You don't have to be the pitcher you know. You don't have to touch any dick at all."
"I'm not interested in having you touch my dick either!"

etc. etc.

I just wanted to say that made me giggle, a lot.

You're my hero.

 

[The Pinray]

Every so often i take a gander downward and say "Damn, that thing is nice!"[footnote]I'm always naked.[/footnote]

Other than that, men aren't exactly my thing. I can appreciate a handsome fellow, but I'll do it from a distance. No touchie, please.

Oh, and watching two dudes bump uglies doesn't exactly get the old engine running, either.

So no, PROPOSITION DENIED.

 

[Goofguy]

Sure, I may look at a dude and say, "gosh, that man is devilishly handsome" but that doesn't mean I want him to have intercourse with me.

 

[Easton Dark]

[small/]I mean theres nothing odd about apreciating some girl on girl is there?[/small]

Not one bit.

I guess in that way, I am a lesbian.

 

[Suicidejim]

I can appreciate a good looking man I suppose . . .

His eyes . . . they draw me in like magnets. I would let that man to unspeakable things to me. And/or David Tennant. Other than that, I'm good though.

 

[sethisjimmy]

simply that it is impossible not to get turned on by someone doing something that would be considered sexy.

Considered sexy by who exactly? And what type of sex are we talking here? Man-Dog sex, Child-Adult sex? Insect sex?

This is just too subjective a topic to be worth arguing about. Simply put, what some people find attractive, others don't. I don't really see how you as an individual feel you represent "everyone" in your sexuality.

Edit: To clarify, I'm not using the tired old fallacy that homosexuality is equatable to pedophilia or bestiality or the like, I'm just pointing out that not everyone is attracted to "sex" in any form.

 

[Vault101]

[small/]I mean theres nothing odd about apreciating some girl on girl is there?[/small]

Not one bit.

I guess in that way, I am a lesbian.

you can't be a lesbian if youre a guy...for some reason straight males love girl on girl

and aparently straight females love guy on guy

 

[MPerce]

I would like to propose...

YES!!!

Oh, you're not proposing to me?
.....whelp.

Now about your question, I don't see why you're trying to establish a middle ground when it comes to sexuality. Everyone's in a unique situation. People are straight, gay, and everything in between. I can appreciate an attractive man (hello, Neil Patrick Harris), but actually doing anything sexual with one? Good God, no.

And not everything sexual turns everyone on. A lot of people have foot fetishes. I find feet to be disgusting. Every single aspect of sexuality is subjective, so looking for a middle ground is pretty tough.

 

[Dags90]

And not everything sexual turns people on. A lot of people have foot fetishes. I find feet to be disgusting. Every single aspect of sexuality is subjective, so looking for a middle ground is pretty tough.

I think he's arguing that because most anyone can get aroused by physical stimulation from either gender, they're bisexual. I guess that would make most people robosexual too, given the bevy of mechanical sex toys for both genders.

 

[templar1138a]

*shakes head slowly* No, we're not.

I am straight. I get turned on by women I see as attractive. There are guys who I see as attractive, but they don't turn me on.

Now, if my fiancée offered me a threesome with another woman in exchange for her getting a threesome with another guy, then I would definitely engage in some sexual acts with a dude I thought was attractive enough (not as far as penetration, though). But I wouldn't be turned on by it, and I wouldn't do it for my or his pleasure. I'd be doing it because I know it would excite my fiancée and would make her more inclined to engage in similar activities I find exciting once the threesome with another woman happened.

But here's what I thought was really stupid in OT:

To put it simply, no matter who you are, any kind of sexual activity can and will get you off, even if your too shy to admit it,

You know what can constitute as sexual activity? Being hog-tied, getting scalding hot waxed dripped on your naked chest, having your nipples hooked to a car battery via alligator clamps, getting a glowing hot iron rod shoved up your ass, and getting your dick/clitoris cut off and eaten. I kid you not, these are things that can and do turn people on [http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rule+36]. I'm pretty sure my revulsion at the thought of those activities doesn't stem from me being "too shy."

My captcha is "get out." I think it's talking to you, OP. Get your head out of the clouds and do some research on Rule 34 and 36 before making this kind of statement.

 

[Easton Dark]

you can't be a lesbian if youre a guy...for some reason straight males love girl on girl

and aparently straight females love guy on guy

How dare you tell me what I can and can not do/be! Sexist.

And... do straight girls (ie you, you are their ambassador now) like guy on guy? I know my girlfriend does, but she's bi, so that doesn't count.

 

[theheroofaction]

Well, considering that one of the most popular types of porn to exist exists mostly so men can wank to something man free, I'm gonna say no.

 

[chiggerwood]

Um I'm Asexual I don't get off on anybody. Actually the thought of sex for me is unpleasant at best. Mind you I know when some one is attractive, I'm not blind, but what you're saying is fucking retarded. Also the dick is the most horrifyingly ugly thing in existence. I almost believe that God was just screwing with humanity when he made the dick.

God: Hey Jesus come here!

Jesus; Yeah dad what's u... OH DEAR what is that?

God: a human penis.

Jesus: Apparently you don't want them to have sex... ever.

God: No, no, no, no, I'm gonna hardwire their brains to love this thing.

Jesus: *looks at God for a minute* WHY?

God: Boredom.

Jesus; I'm going... somewhere, bye.

 

[Vault101]

you can't be a lesbian if youre a guy...for some reason straight males love girl on girl

and aparently straight females love guy on guy

How dare you tell me what I can and can not do/be! Sexist.

And... do straight girls (ie you, you are their ambassador now) like guy on guy? I know my girlfriend does, but she's bi, so that doesn't count.

I think its definetly a thing...not only Yaoi but aprently trashy romance novels as well..I think, obviously not for all females

 

[Easton Dark]

Also the dick is the most horrifyingly ugly thing in existence.

:<

*pets* don't listen to that person, little big guy.

I think its definetly a thing...not only Yaoi but aprently trashy romance novels as well..I think, obviously not for all females

I wonder what's so erotic about that for women. *shrug* I can tell you why straight men like lesbians, but no idea why two men would get to a woman. Of course, I've been told I don't understand women that well. And it's true. I'm very confused by the opposite sex.

 

[solemnwar]

[small/]I mean theres nothing odd about apreciating some girl on girl is there?[/small]

Not one bit.

I guess in that way, I am a lesbian.

you can't be a lesbian if youre a guy...for some reason straight males love girl on girl

and aparently straight females love guy on guy

I don't D| In fact I'm getting over a knee-jerk hatred towards the yaoi/slash/whatever stuff due to it being kind of rammed down my throat some years back by some very irritating friends. It never did anything for me, really, and they constantly trying to tell me that I SHOULD and MUST love it or else I was a homophobe... yeah. That doesn't help things.

 

[ImperialSunlight]

Yeah, I'm gay, not bi. I know this because even if a beautiful woman (you don't have to be attracted to know whether they are attractive) took off all her clothes in front of me, started dancing sexily and allowed me to have sex with her (which I wouldn't), I wouldn't be aroused. I wouldn't really care at all. On second thought, it might be a little awkward, and I'd probably want to go somewhere- anywhere -else, but besides that, no feelings.