When you said people shouldn't be taught to associate certain behaviours with the physical sexes, that was all hollow. Because in fact, if something isn't gender-"typical", it should be hidden from the poor kiddywinks who can't comprehend it.
I don't know I ever said people shouldn't be taught to associate behaviors with sex. If I did, it was poorly phrased, as that's not the issue. People shouldn't be taught they are obligated by their sex to participate in stereotypes, that is my position. But those stereotypes exist, and knowing them is part of participation in society. People should be taught the truth. Non-typical things don't need to be hidden, but teaching children that sort of thing is normal and fun is indoctrinating them with lies.
"You don't have to play with dolls because you're a girl" is correct.
"Playing with dolls isn't a behavior to associate with girls" is a lie.
"Drag queens are just people in silly costumes and not at all drawing from sexual imagery" is a lie.
And if you're willing to admit that drag queens are sexualized performers, you have to answer to why you're putting them in front of children.