Of course she's sometimes right but i'm not going to admit that to her.StarStruckStrumpets said:I don't mean to doubt your parenting abilities, but I take issue with that last comment a great deal. Fair enough, I can understand 10 year olds needing to be put in place. They nag for things, and need to be shown certain values, whether it be money or whatever.
I just need to clear this up. Are you saying your stepdaughter is never right, or that she can never win? Because I can understand the latter.
Ah, I understand now.Rawne1980 said:Of course she's sometimes right but i'm not going to admit that to her.StarStruckStrumpets said:I don't mean to doubt your parenting abilities, but I take issue with that last comment a great deal. Fair enough, I can understand 10 year olds needing to be put in place. They nag for things, and need to be shown certain values, whether it be money or whatever.
I just need to clear this up. Are you saying your stepdaughter is never right, or that she can never win? Because I can understand the latter.
Not yet anyway.
Maybe on my death bed i'll admit that sometimes she had me beat and I used long words that made absolutely no sense and prattled on about various other things that had nothing to do with the debate in hand to make it look like I know what I was talking about.
She is in University studying criminal psychology and forensics, i'm an ex Para.
She uses her brain, I shot at things at got involved in bar fights in lots of nice countries.
While I am a well travelled intelligent guy life wise, academically i'm lacking.
The comments in my post were aimed at humour, I love my kids and would never treat them like they were numpty's.
Quite the opposite, I want my kids to do far better than I did. Granted I had an amazing time in the army and I know have an easy job working accounts from home but i've had to drag myself through hell to get here.
In the riddle's (for Humpty-Dumpty's origins are as a riddle) original 19th-century form, Humpty-Dumpty was explicitly referred to as a "he" ("Threescore men and threescore more/cannot place Humpty Dumpty as he was before"), which is likely the source of the notion that Humpty-Dumpty is male.EeveeElectro said:As for a little story, my niece is 8; I picked her up from school one day and she had drawn me a picture of Humpty Dumpty, but she'd drawn Humpty as a girl.
I said, "You do know Humpty is a boy?" she replied, "it doesn't say in the poem that Humpty is a boy, so I drew her as a girl."
I was stunned, it was something I never picked up on in the past. Not all kids are stupid who don't deserve an opinion like a lot of people would have you believe.
Children have a certain knack for being very candid about their opinions, and can ignore certain things like connotations or bias when they look at things. Things like that come with age and experience, which at that point they don't have. So yes, I think children can provide refreshing views on things. Simpler views, and at times shortsighted ones, but we as adults have a habit of staring too closely at what is directly in front of us to see the big picture. Children don't have that problem as much.retyopy said:-snip-
There were gay Nazisretyopy said:Or let's say, hypothetically, that I was. Does that lessen the value of my opinion? Does that make my part in a discussion less worthwhile?
Let me explain. For reasons that have gradually been lost to mankind, I was thinking about age. This eventaully led to me thinking about the value of a ten year olds opinion, which eventaully led to this discussion: Does age lessen the value of opinions/the worth of their part in an argument or discussion? And I'm not talking about teenagers. I'm talking about 10-12 year olds, those idiotic little twerps that continue to call me a gay nazi ****** who sleeps with his dog(there beinng several problems with that statement, one that gay people were persecuted by the nazis, and two that I don't have a dog).
And you might say, 'It doesn't, but no ten year olds are going to put together a valid argument.' That is wrong. I have spoken to ten year olds that could hold their own in a debate with their parents. I was a ten year old like that. But apparently, age is the factor that decides how much your opinion is worth, and age can totally be used against you as an insult.
And no, I'm not 10. How could you think that? I'm 9! (By the way, that was me making a funny. So don't murder me. I was joking.)