Is Dance unmanly?

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HardkorSB

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Gentleman Adventurer said:
So I just sat though a presentation on South American dance. I really enjoyed it and would maybe like to learn some of those fantastic moves. That said, I live in a very conservative part of the United States. The beer drinking (not that there is anything wrong with beer), trucker hat wearing, good old boy type folk. I know some of my peers would disapprove of this, because they would view any dance as "girly" or, and I will not mince words, many dances were brought to the States by immigrants who many of my peers hate. But this made me think about what other people think on the subject.

So my fellow Escapists, what do you all think? Do any of you view dancing as unmanly?

Edit - I should have been a bit more clear in my post. I have already decided that I would learn a bit. I just wanted to know what my fellow Escapists thought on the subject. I just wanted people to know were I was coming from. That is my bad for being a bit unclear.

That said, thanks for all the positive comments!
I have some experience in the matter so I think I should say something.
I've been a dancer for 12 years now, tried many dance styles over the years but I'm mainly a street dancer.
Check me out (shameless self-promotion :)


I can tell you this much:
Women love this stuff.
You can really get some if you're a good dancer.
The things you hear about it being unmanly are mainly being said by the guys who couldn't get a girl in the club because there was someone there who could dance :)
 

Don Savik

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If you can call this unmanly... Then something is wrong with you!
I was just about to post some Takesomecrime video until you NINJA'D ME


YOU NINJA!!!! *points finger*

[sub]darn ninjas...[/sub]
 

AngloDoom

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Personally, I consider it rather unmanly. Then again I think the same of watching My Little Pony or dressing up as cutesy video-game animals to go for a picnic on someone's birthday...and I plan to do both those things before the week is up.

The bottom line is whether 'manliness' even matters to you. I'm personally sick of spending my waking hours worrying about whether strangers think I sharpen pencils with a sharpener or a carving knife.
 

Palademon

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KICK MANLINESS TO THE CURB AND BREAK THROUGH THE HEAVENS WITH YOUR DANCE!

Wait...that came out wrong.

Doing what you want without caring what other people think is what's manly. And it's not as if dancing can't be manly itself. In pairs it's usually very manly and romantic. Maybe not "GGRRR, I EAT ROCKS" manly, but the manly women may actually give a crap about.
 

Random Fella

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Dancing can be very manly
If it's a gentlemanly dance with a woman that is
None of this Justin Bieber pretending to be a woman dancing
Just dance like a man, not like a lady, and dancing is manly
 

the Dept of Science

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Ive said this before, Ill bring it up now. Its not that the act itself is unmanly, its that the act as a whole is an archaic artform that serves no purpose in modern connotations. It simply should no longer exist.
?Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself. It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.? - C.S. Lewis

Your argument is a slippery slope my friend. If you dismiss dance on those grounds, you may find yourself dismissing music, games, films, sport etc. on the same logic.

Furthermore, I hate to argue against this point on its own terms by justifying it's utilitarian value. The initial argument misses the point in the first place and asks me to do something that I shouldn't have to. But here it goes...
Dance is a great form of exercise. Because its fun, its easier for people to incorporate it into their daily routines than, say, sweating it at the gym for a couple hours. Studies have also shown that dancing can reduce the incidence of dementia. Aside from that, dance is a social activity. I believe that in "utilitarian" terms, that gives it an advantage over solitary pursuits like gaming, because meeting people and having good friends is one of those uncontroversially good things in life. You are also bringing joy to others, which again is an advantage it has over solitary pursuits. If you are a professional dancer, you can make money from it.
 

ElPatron

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OP, there is such a thing as manly dancing.... but Southern American dancing?

Nope.

TheKasp said:
If you can call this unmanly... Then something is wrong with you!
>skinny jeans
>All Stars
>what seems to be K-pop

I seriously hope "DATS DA JOKE".

Airsoftslayer93 said:
Flamenco and tango are all about masculinity, passion and romance, the bullfighter character is the very definition of a man.
The guy who tortures an animal in public is the definition of a coward.

Real men finish their prey off quickly and humanely, and only kill for food.

Gearabelle said:
the Dept of Science said:
duck tape
It's called "duct tape" and you can't wax hair with it.
 
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Gentleman Adventurer said:
So my fellow Escapists, what do you all think? Do any of you view dancing as unmanly?
Women LOVE dancing. It is up there with cushions, clothes, colourful things and diamonds. Women will fall for men who can dance. Men who can dance WELL are highly desirable. Ergo, a man who can dance well will not want for female attention while the "unmanly" men who can't dance will only watch. I would say a man who can dance is therefore more manly, not less.

I wish I could dance :-\
 

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As a female, I find a man who is willing to learn to dance (and men who CAN dance) incredibly sexy. Its also great for building muscle. I did modern jive dancing for a few years and the guys there were always swamped with girls wanting to dance with them... even the creepy guy... becuase it is nice watching the male body move like that. Go for it. Only pussy men who are worried about their masculinity because they are insecure think dancing is girly. Women find it awesome. Just don't wear tights...
 

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ElPatron said:
Airsoftslayer93 said:
Flamenco and tango are all about masculinity, passion and romance, the bullfighter character is the very definition of a man.
The guy who tortures an animal in public is the definition of a coward.

Real men finish their prey off quickly and humanely, and only kill for food.
Of course i agree with you, I'm a vegetarian myself. But I'm talking about the character that the dancer inhabits, Latin dance is just another form of acting.
 

The Artificially Prolonged

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You are constantly feeling up women, you have to have absurd upper body strength to toss women around like they do, and everyone can see whether you have a truly massive dong
This. -sigh- If only I was a good dancer.... I'm starting to believe that the stereotype that men who dance are pansies was made up by male dancers so us other lads would say sod this and go outside to play football blissfully unaware of the perks of dancing.

On topic

Go for it and damn what anyone else says. Anyway you could always 'serve' them with your moves to silence them.
 

Gordon_4_v1legacy

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irishda said:
Gene Kelly would've beat your ass for saying dancing's unmanly, and then he'd dance away like a boss.

In his own words
There's a strong link between sports and dancing, and my own dancing springs from my early days as an athlete...I think dancing is a man's game and if he does it well he does it better than a woman. Dancing does attract effeminate young men. I don't object to that as long as they don't dance effeminately. I just say that if a man dances effeminately he dances badly ? just as if a woman comes out on stage and starts to sing bass. Unfortunately people confuse gracefulness with softness. John Wayne is a graceful man and so are some of the great ball players...but, of course, they don't run the risk of being called sissies. One of our problems is that so much dancing is taught by women. You can spot many male dancers who have this tuition by their arm movements ? they are soft, limp and feminine.
So he'd also beat your ass for DANCING unmanly too, I guess. Dancing is exactly as manly as you make it.

Like a boss. Seriously, look at that guy by the standards of the day and he's probably fucking ripped.

Dancing like that means you are fit. In fact I recall that some of the best draftees for the Commandos in WWII were male ballet dancers.


captcha: swan song....if you insist.


And something tells me Old Blue Eyes could cut a fucking rug, anyone wanna challenge Sinatra's man credentials?
 

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TheKasp said:

If you can call this unmanly... Then something is wrong with you!
Well, I was about to say that nothing about dance is unmanly, but you just proved me wrong on that point, congratulations.
 

Auron225

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I think its something in which if we do it ourselves, we think others will think "How girly of you, you girl!" but its really rare someone will actually even think it. When I see a guy dancing who really knows how to dance, its more likely Id be thinking "Wow, I wish I could do that..."

So not the manliest thing you could be doing but I wouldnt call it unmanly.
 

Ne1butme

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The only things that are unmanly are activities that men can't do. In general, men can't give birth or nurse a baby (transexual conversions aside).

Last time i checked, men could dance.
 

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Depends on the type of dancing really, I'm pretty sure ballet isn't considered manly
 

Folji

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The first sign of doubting one's own manliness is questioning what's manly and what isn't.

True story.
 

Paladin2905

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Unmanly, perhaps.

UnGENTLEmanly, hell no. Learning to dance was one of the best decisions I ever made. (By which I mean actual dancing, not that crap people pass off for it in clubs, seriously- go learn tango or something.)

The only reason why dancing in considered unmanly is because other men usually don't know how to do it, and get annoyed when their girlfriends want to dance with you because you actually can.

Besides, how does the old saying go: time spent dancing isn't counted against your life.