Is it moral to date my friends ex?

[Some bullets]

My friend and his girlfriend broke up (high school) Now she is getting into me and she is really cool in my opionion. The problem is I don't know what to do. Right know I am playing it safe and just stepping back contemplating the Bros before Hoes expression. Any input on the subject I am just looking for different views any help or criticism is much appreciated.

Edit: They have been serious for about year now.

 

[wrecker77]

Depends. How serious was it between your freind and the girl?

 

[Radeonx]

If he broke up with her, I see no reason why you can't go after her. He lost his chance, now it's your chance.

 

[Kuchinawa212]

Yeah it's not like there is some taboo to it. They broke up, which means they are both available. So I don't see why not

 

[Jimmyjames]

Who cares if it's moral? Hit that, brotha!

 

[annoyinglizardvoice]

Unless they had a really bad break-up, then no problem. If there were serious problems, and you blame her more than him, then you might want to think about it a bit more.

 

[Sassafrass]

No, but why not go for it.

 

[Chancie]

No way. However, that's the big rule for girls. Girls do not date their friend's ex. It's against the rules of feminine friendship. I honestly don't know if guys would consider it the same way...

But in short, no, I would not. It just seems wrong to me.

 

[Gardenclaw]

Could always ask your friend if he would have a major problem with it first......

 

[Berethond]

Could always ask your friend if he would have a major problem with it first......

Or he could date her behind his back.

 

[HanksfriendDarrell]

friends before bros, except after hos

 

[oppp7]

I don't think it's a good idea. It would be awkward at parties and such.

 

[Booze Zombie]

Just don't rub it in your friend's face and act natural, it should all go as good as it possibly can.

 

[The Youth Counselor]

Talk to him about it first. That's my advice to you.

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

As long as your friend is over her and they don't absolutely hate each other, you should be fine.

 

[pompom8volt]

Depends, if she dumped him then it's a diffident "NO" however if he dumped her it's probably alright. I'd still talk to your friend. if you think he still has feeling for her, or would upset him for some other reason i wouldn't do it, and as another poster pointed ouy: just act cool/ naturel and you should be fine.

as for "is it moral" my answer to that is yes, as long as it wouldn't upset your friend.

 

[The Austin]

Talk to him. If he's cool, than it's cool.

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

Unless they had SERIOUS relationship, theres nothing to say but "go for it". If he messed up its simply his fault, but If it was one of those "It had to be" things and they were in a serious relationship (Im not talking about sex, sex, more sex serious either) then I'd stay back.

 

[pulse2]

The bros before hos thing is bs unless the break-up was so bad that its not worth it.

Heres the situation, if he treated her like crap and she got dumped, my respect for that 'bro' would be ditched, if she treated him like crap, then its obvious shes a no no, she'll do the same to you, but if they split up normally, no tension included, why not? She may be better of with you then she was with him, if you're happy and hes a good mate, he'd be happy for ya.