I've 17, a virgin, never gotten drunk (though I did have one drink on a few holidays, my mom was fine with it), and never even /seen/ drugs, let alone used them. Smoking grosses me out, my grandpa did it and the guy who lives beneath us won't stop doing it.
As for your morals, stick to your principles if that's what you really want. But try not to be judgmental or push people away just because they tried something different, made a mistake, or had sex before. There's nothing wrong with sex, and the only reason I wouldn't date a guy who's had it before is if I thought he'd try pressuring me.
I'm not a shut-in or unattractive (I hope), but I just know what I do and don't want to do. The lack of sex can be explained by my aesexuality, and illegal substances don't hold appeal to me. They dull your senses and make you act like an idiot- makes being the sober one at a party much more interesting anyway. XD
As for your morals, stick to your principles if that's what you really want. But try not to be judgmental or push people away just because they tried something different, made a mistake, or had sex before. There's nothing wrong with sex, and the only reason I wouldn't date a guy who's had it before is if I thought he'd try pressuring me.
I'm not a shut-in or unattractive (I hope), but I just know what I do and don't want to do. The lack of sex can be explained by my aesexuality, and illegal substances don't hold appeal to me. They dull your senses and make you act like an idiot- makes being the sober one at a party much more interesting anyway. XD