Lol no, and she's rather immature to think so. The only way porn can hurt a relationship is if you are obsessed with it to the point that beating it to moving picutures is more important than your partner. Or if you frequent a porn theatre.
Is looking at porn cheating?
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Oh FFS. No it's not cheating, she sounds a little insecure maybe you should have a chat about it and explain to her that it's unhealthy to never find anyone else attractive. It's acting upon it that's the bad thing. Though I find it telling that you think she's being all MEMEME instead of maybe not feeling secure....
Also maybe she needs to check it out herself, she might understand better.
Also maybe she needs to check it out herself, she might understand better.
Yeah i know, i could only think of exhamples from Twilight though. That just shows you how well aquanted i am with female culture lol.Lidrial said:
Yet you remain single.Hubilub said:
Anyway, its not cheating, its natural to masturbate, but hey, some people think you can get pregnant from blowjobs, some people think that porn ruins relationships. Humanity bites.
First off, 4chan is probably the least risque of the chans, so I wouldn't worry about it. Second, as far as pr0n being cheating, I guess that's up to you, isn't it? Are you threatened by it? Is your relationship weakened by it? The person you need to talk to about such things is not a bunch of internet folk, but your SO.
In a way, it's rather insulting to see your man "getting off" on something else, as if she wasn't good enough. On the other hand, looking at porn isn't cheating in the literal means.
That seems like something that depends on the couple. In the same sense that some couples may be open to sex with others, some couples may not allow for pornography. If one has expectations for the other, and the other breaks those expectations, I think that fits a definition of cheating through being unfaithful to those expectations. Perhaps her expectations can be loosened or not, but I wouldn't say either position is inherently invalid.
That said, I look at it sort of like swearing: offensive to a person only if they've come to view it as offensive, and not (necessarily) harming anyone, and so not necessarily deserving that reaction.
However, there should be something said against willfully doing anything that you know will upset the other.
That said, I look at it sort of like swearing: offensive to a person only if they've come to view it as offensive, and not (necessarily) harming anyone, and so not necessarily deserving that reaction.
However, there should be something said against willfully doing anything that you know will upset the other.
Foolishman1776 said:
Yes, it is. Like most things within a marriage, however, it is by default. The couple can change the rules. I would hope it would be talked-about before the vows.
Outside of marriage? There are no couple rules outside of marriage that are not already part of civil law. If one party doesn't like it, they can leave.
Outside of marriage? There are no couple rules outside of marriage that are not already part of civil law. If one party doesn't like it, they can leave.
Oh come on, I've seen posts ten times as long as this. You don't really need to put TL;DR unless it's more than 2000 words IMO.Muzza-Maaate said:
Anyway, back on topic.
It's a gray area really. Some girls will get very angry about it (like your GF) and some girls probably won't care (haven't met any personally, but I'm sure they exist). Hell some couples watch porn together (from what I've heard, anyway).
If I were you, I'd change the names of my shortcuts to something that she's not likely to be interested in (power tools maybe, IDK)
Well, it's only cheating if at any time you want her to she satisfies you, and you still look at porn.
Other then that: no, it's not and it can help keep a relationship going, cos if you're in the mood and she's not, go bust one out and instead of being angry, you won't care anymore.
Other then that: no, it's not and it can help keep a relationship going, cos if you're in the mood and she's not, go bust one out and instead of being angry, you won't care anymore.
Awesome post!SultanP said:
That's a brilliant bit of insight there. This may even be expandable to taking nude pics of her for the times she can't be there in person for him. Talk about making her shut-up. lol
No, but I generally don't watch it anyway.
It's not really going to take you away from her, anyway, so it shouldn't be a problem. Unless you care more about porn than your significant other...
:S
That was dealing with the topic... but in regards to that specific example?
It sounds more like she went to one of your favourites to see what you're interested in, was greeted with lewd pictures of women, and was simply overly shocked.
It's not really going to take you away from her, anyway, so it shouldn't be a problem. Unless you care more about porn than your significant other...
:S
That was dealing with the topic... but in regards to that specific example?
It sounds more like she went to one of your favourites to see what you're interested in, was greeted with lewd pictures of women, and was simply overly shocked.
tough one...
one the one hand i should be enough for him, and he looking at porn somehow would make me feel that i'm not.
don't get me wrong, a guys fantasy is his alone and he is free to think about whatever he want's when releasing presure. but visually stimulating by looking at other people / girls is where i draw the line. one might argue that it's only "fantasy enhancement", but still...
to clarify, i'm not opposed to pornography, single guys go wild if you want to^^ but in a relationship you should be statisfied with your partner.
just my oppinion and therefore open for debate and systematic destruction by argument points ;P
one the one hand i should be enough for him, and he looking at porn somehow would make me feel that i'm not.
don't get me wrong, a guys fantasy is his alone and he is free to think about whatever he want's when releasing presure. but visually stimulating by looking at other people / girls is where i draw the line. one might argue that it's only "fantasy enhancement", but still...
to clarify, i'm not opposed to pornography, single guys go wild if you want to^^ but in a relationship you should be statisfied with your partner.
just my oppinion and therefore open for debate and systematic destruction by argument points ;P
I think she is a bit insecure about her body (even though it is MEGA hot (be jealous 
)). It took her forever to start to put out :3
)). It took her forever to start to put out :3