Is roleplay sex okay?
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I still don't buy it. You could just as easily put "rping" under a game. The only difference between a flash game and this is that it's now multiplayer over the internet. You don't know this person unless this person chooses to tell you this information, and even then it could be a lie. You don't know. Hell, the boyfriend could be a lie.Valdus said:
I could see everyone's concern about this if the girl in question is within reach, say next door or in the other room. But if she's far away in another province/state... Then just make sure it's okay with her and yourself. Again, the worst of this is that the boyfriend asks her to stop, and the best is that he gets a damn good night of fucking.
Apparently we're disconnected from all of humanity, Randomfox. Want to burn an orphanage or something? Watch a crowd from a distance and sigh?
Hey, if we can't stick with the rest of humanity, we gotta at least stick together... Makes me wonder why we don't have our own conventions or some shit.
Yup... pretty much this.Bara_no_Hime said:
The only thing you can really do would be to make sure the boyfriend's ok with it
She wouldn't be "roleplaying" with you if she didn't want to have sex with you. She did this intentionally, so she WANTS to cheat on her boyfriend. Whether you let her or not, is up to you.
Only knowing lies about another person doesn't change that you're interacting with them. It's the interaction that makes it cheating for me. As I said - you wouldn't go into great detail RPing your character going to the toilet or even various other mundane everyday tasks.BeerTent said:
Are you roleplaying through your characters, or are you interjecting yourself into the roleplay? If two characters have sex because it's what the characters would do, from a purely artistic/literary view, that's fine. But if you consider the character an extension of yourself and are playing it as such, then it might descend into a fantasy, which makes the situation more complicated.
Basically, are you using the characters as writers, or as a way to interact with each other? The type of roleplay makes a big difference, since in one way she's probably more personally invested, but in the other she's just being true to the character. If the former, I'd avoid it. If the latter, avoiding it could (hypothetically) be breaking character.
Again, I'm not sure what type of roleplay this is, but if it's the kind I'm used to then in-character and out-of-character should be separate anyway. But if it makes you uncomfortable anyway, time-skip is your friend.
Basically, are you using the characters as writers, or as a way to interact with each other? The type of roleplay makes a big difference, since in one way she's probably more personally invested, but in the other she's just being true to the character. If the former, I'd avoid it. If the latter, avoiding it could (hypothetically) be breaking character.
Again, I'm not sure what type of roleplay this is, but if it's the kind I'm used to then in-character and out-of-character should be separate anyway. But if it makes you uncomfortable anyway, time-skip is your friend.
It's texting, so even if it wasn't your characters, but you who did it, you wouldn't be having sex, you'd be text chatting about sex, which is very different.
I wouldn't have minded if my girlfriend did it, especially not with some dude she hadn't even met, but just talked to online.
if you want to do it, but is afraid it'll cause her problems, ask her aout what her boyfriend would feel about it, who knows, he might be okay with it.
After all, it's not like he doesn't watch strange naked women online anyways (i know, i'm assuming, but i'd be supprised if he didn't watch porn)
Ofc, if you plan to meet her in person later on, her boyfriend might not be thrilled about.
I wouldn't have minded if my girlfriend did it, especially not with some dude she hadn't even met, but just talked to online.
if you want to do it, but is afraid it'll cause her problems, ask her aout what her boyfriend would feel about it, who knows, he might be okay with it.
After all, it's not like he doesn't watch strange naked women online anyways (i know, i'm assuming, but i'd be supprised if he didn't watch porn)
Ofc, if you plan to meet her in person later on, her boyfriend might not be thrilled about.
If it was something he/she'd do around someone else and part of the story, or was part of something else. Yeah, I would, actually. Okay, explaining 7 or 8 lines about using the bathroom isn't something I'd do, sure I'll give you that. But other mundane tasks we do every day, cooking, cleaning, even how he/she types on a keyboard or walks.Valdus said:
And even then, where do you draw the line? They don't know each other, they don't see each other... What would you think if you over heard your girlfriend talking about sex to someone else, even another guy, or one of her "girl"friends? Perhaps explaining things in detail?
It's alien to me that you would restrict someone you'd invest that much trust into. And for what? Because you don't trust her to hop on a plane to go fuck someone in NS because her character, Isabella had a fun time in the sack with another fictional character? If that's the case, why be with her anyway?
If you're uncomfortable and worried about it enough to ask, there's probably something to it.
If you need it for story progression (having done something like this myself, and my character needed to get pregnant), you could always fade to black. That's worked for me.
If you need it for story progression (having done something like this myself, and my character needed to get pregnant), you could always fade to black. That's worked for me.
