Is sex ever "just sex"?
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Uhh for certain reasons of certain parties on the website. I am compelled to say no.
Done for the right reason with the right person it's never "just sex"
Uhh for certain reasons of certain parties on the website. I am compelled to say no.
Done for the right reason with the right person it's never "just sex"
it depends you can have a relationship and "make love" or you can just have sex for the sake of getting off
i think it depends on the situation really
i think it depends on the situation really
That last one would also argue that we don't eat food or drink water to live, we do them for the pleasure from them. Nothing we do is just biological according to your last paragraph. My point is that biologically, we're conditioned to want to do these things for pleasure, the pleasure motivating us to do things that help us live or in this case reproduce. And yes, doing it for pleasure is a frank, biological purpose.Mimsofthedawg said:
And don't say "lol" after your sentence, everyone here's very annoyed by that.
ALl depends on the situation, sex is just sex in technical terms but we all know that "sex" isn't just the act of getting "stuck in".
Its the whole ritual involved if you will, on that train of thought were just like animals with our social bonding and actually getting to the point of "sex". If you think about that way the whole dating thing is just like a bird flapping its wings and squarking really loudly to attract a mate.
Also, I'm a kinetic person, I need touch so to me I need physicality.
Its the whole ritual involved if you will, on that train of thought were just like animals with our social bonding and actually getting to the point of "sex". If you think about that way the whole dating thing is just like a bird flapping its wings and squarking really loudly to attract a mate.
Also, I'm a kinetic person, I need touch so to me I need physicality.
Most of that is a "well, DuH!" comment. I mean are you telling me that people usually have a underlying reason for their actions? Here I was just willy nilly doing things for no rhyme or reasons all my life.Mimsofthedawg said:
Sarcasm aside, yeah people have reasons for doing just about everything they do. Even if it is just the crazy making them get the axe, that is still a reason.
You know what's even better than all that?GamerPhate said:
The fact that you know that and that it doesn't affect your daily life at all. You don't go through life, get a bar of chocolate and say "Hey, I am having dopamine pumped into my brain lulz". You're just happy.
Therefore, the chemistry of the brain has no bearing on everyday life. That is, unless you're an M.D. searching for a way to solve "Issue X" with humanity.
A wise man said.... The value you put on your change is all you can spend it for....
Think about that one.....and then go have some SEX
Think about that one.....and then go have some SEX
This.A random person said:
Being a person who has engaged in both long term monogamous relationships and one nighters, both answers are correct. It is both a biological repsonse and the desire to enjoys ones-self.
Being someone who has experienced both sides of the intercourse spectrum, there is just sex, some of it is two people who want it and will get it, or two people who are looking to do something they wouldn't want to do with someone they knew, something new something experimental
And then there is the sex with someone who you love, which for one doesn't leave you with a empty feelin inside, and smiles in the morning, =D
And then there is the sex with someone who you love, which for one doesn't leave you with a empty feelin inside, and smiles in the morning, =D
bleh. I wont have sex with a women I'm not emotionally attached too. might as well use a prostitute at that point, and I'll pass.
instinct tells us to do whatever we like, at the moment we like it, emotions,prejudice, narrowmindedness,fear and all other little emotions, get in the way and fuck it up
I dont think the question is "do people have sex just to have sex anymore" I think the question could be phrased more dilligently in the direction: Do people even realise their emotions make them predictable and captive to their own mind?
one cant just DO something for the sake of DOING something, if you have to think and feel about it,thats the point im trying to make, dont you ever just for the sake of doing something, do things without thinking and never ever ever ever even for a microsecond think back "huh why did I do that?" or "I liked that"
if one really does something just for the sake of said action being done, one must be 100% indifferent towards the subject, and the outcome.
so the truth is.. in my opinion anyway, Humans cant do anything just for the sake of doing something without it turning into some major philosophical life altering experience(exaggeration)
I dont think the question is "do people have sex just to have sex anymore" I think the question could be phrased more dilligently in the direction: Do people even realise their emotions make them predictable and captive to their own mind?
one cant just DO something for the sake of DOING something, if you have to think and feel about it,thats the point im trying to make, dont you ever just for the sake of doing something, do things without thinking and never ever ever ever even for a microsecond think back "huh why did I do that?" or "I liked that"
if one really does something just for the sake of said action being done, one must be 100% indifferent towards the subject, and the outcome.
so the truth is.. in my opinion anyway, Humans cant do anything just for the sake of doing something without it turning into some major philosophical life altering experience(exaggeration)
