It's still that underlying issue of entitlement though that I want to stop. I mean, it's fine if you get angry or distressed, but being nice does not guarantee you that thing. Unless you're being nice and get absolutely rotten and unfair treatment, I don't see how you could logically maintain your position as a selfless, nice person if you get angry out of some form of entitlement.Vegosiux said:That's quite human, though. I mean the "being upset about not getting something you want". Hardly anyone's a true stoic. I mean, sure, some people handle their disappointments worse than others, but you can't fault them for being disappointed if life didn't turn out the way they hoped it would have.Ice Car said:Don't be nice to get stuff, and then get angry when you don't get said stuff.
I use that word a lot. Entitlement. It's like you can tell that I hate it when people feel like they deserve something they don't at all or something. :/