fix-the-spade said:
SonicWaffle said:
However, if you're doing a job you love, does it matter that you're getting hate for it if it's what you want to be doing?
Yes it does, it matters very much, a constant stream of abuse is about the fastest, most reliable way to end someone's love of a job.
Equally matched, in this case, by a constant stream of praise and awards. Sure, we tend to focus more on the negative, but doubtless there was also a huge amount of response telling Fish what a good job he was doing. In my mind at least, the pairing of praise and doing something that I really, truly and genuinely wanted to do would be more than enough to overcome the abuse. And I say this as someone who is seriously concerned about complete strangers thinking badly of me; in my spare time I write about games for a small blog, without too wide of an audience, all of whom tend to be smart and fairly decent people. However, when one of my articles got picked up and shared around by the Penny Arcade Report, I went into spasms of panic and kept refreshing to see if anyone had left an abusive comment yet calling me a ****-flavoured lollipop.
From everything I've seen of the guy, Fish has a much, much thicker skin when it comes to taking and dealing out abuse than I do, so I guess my confusiong arises from the fact that he let the abuse get to him so badly.
fix-the-spade said:
The police isn't a good comparison, they gets months of training specifically designed to help them deal with the abuse that gets aimed at them, they also have an extremely direct set of abilities to strike back when abusers go too far. You don't get face full of pepper spray and arrested the moment you threaten a game developer on twitter after all.
OK, it was a bad example, but regardless of training or ability to strike back, the point is that some people will do a job that entails abuse because it is the job they want to do. Fish clearly wanted
really badly to be a game developer, even if he was a bit of a douche about it, so I didn't really think that abuse would be enough to turn him off the life path he wanted so much.
fix-the-spade said:
[Most people don't get to 'answer back' like that, in fact they live the complete opposite of that, if they answer back at all it's more or less guaranteed to put that job they 'love' in jeopardy. That's a horrible way to live no matter how much you love the rest of what you do.
Phil Fish did answer back, though. He gave abuse in his turn. I'm not saying that justifies the abuse he received, just that he was hardly a shrinking violet throughout the affair. He's a very confrontational man, by all accounts.