I would offer a counter-experience: My own brother. We were a military family when he was born, and so we moved around a lot. By the time I was born most of that was over, but it had left marks on him. He'd gotten so used to making and losing friends over a matter of months that he just sort of shut people out. He tried to open back up when we finally settled down, but everyone pretty much rejected him around here. He even tried sports specifically, since he was pretty decent at most of them, but that really only brought his social status to "barely tolerated", and he knew it. He came to hate people in general. He turned to playing games with me and my dad because it's the only place he felt like he fit.SteelStallion said:They aren't close to comparable, and I can tell you that from experience, my little brother was incredibly awkward socially, and it's because he was s a shut in that played video games all the time. When we spent a summer at my cousins in the suburbs, he had nothing else to do but come outside with us and play ball. He made a few friends, became more comfortable talking to people and came out after the summer a better person in general, so much that he overcame a lot of problems he had at school the following year.
Over the years, he connected to other people who played games in the area. He made friends through it, and started to overcome his hatred of people. He's far from perfect these days, but video games gave him friends. They gave him a wife, who never would have met him if they hadn't met over an online game. Honestly, I think they are partially responsible for giving him his life. If he hadn't had something to turn to, I'm not sure what he would have done. I was too young to help him, and my dad had his own baggage that has a tendency from putting forth as much effort as he wants to to help people. So don't tell me video games are harmful. They gave me my brother back, even though he was for years what the South Korean government would describe as an obsessive gamer.