Frankster said:
And if the girl of my dreams blows me off cos i wear glasses in private/when relaxing, then guess she wasnt for me after all so no worries there either.
For me it wasn't so much the 'gal of my dreams' that was the problem when I was younger. It was 'the girl who would otherwise be more than willing to shag me if I didn't have those damned glasses'. Seriously, with my glasses on girls say I look like Leonard from Big Bang Theory, and with contacts in girls say I look like Orlando Bloom in Pirates of the Carribean. Guess which incarnation of Uzo gets lucky?
In my own experience, whether it is simply the added confidence I have from not having to wear my coke bottle lenses (my eyes are so bad I have to go
crosseyed to focus on something minus specs/contacts - barely 3" focal range), I am almost guaranteed to score with contacts and have NEVER scored with glasses.
EVER. People who don't
need glasses seem to believe it's a confidence thing, but I call bullshit. I remember switching to contacts when I was just in the final weeks of high school before the HSC and
blam girls I had known for
years started actively seeking out my company. I got more attention from more girls in those 6 weeks than I had in the 6 years of high school.
On topic ... I'm over 30 now, married, and with 1 kiddie and another on the way. I still wear glasses/contacts, as does my wife. My kids will almost 100% require glasses, but I'm not going to make them go through high school without at least having the
option of contacts (whether I'm going to pay for them to be the daily option is another matter though lol).
I would love to do some kind of visual corrective surgery, but at my age and marital status it's simply not necessary. I
do however wear contacts when I'm going out or on business/at work. People react to me completely differently without glasses - I'm more commanding (instead of just seeing some 4-eyed geek, they see a good looking guy with muscles popping out of his sleeves and a confident, easy smile).