I'm not sure what the point of those is. Seriously, who are they for?dagens24 said:Those stupid Spike TV video game awards shows are worst. I watched the last one (first and last time I'll ever do that).
I'm not sure what the point of those is. Seriously, who are they for?dagens24 said:Those stupid Spike TV video game awards shows are worst. I watched the last one (first and last time I'll ever do that).
I do feel I need to point out that there's a difference between "Bullying" and "Criticizing"; one involves pointing out and telling people of their flaws (criticizing) and the other involves degradation of someone by another individual who usually gets some sort of self-satisfaction out of degrading said someone (bullying). Bullying is never quite justifiable, no matter how appropriate the situation is.ResonanceSD said:On the one hand, yes, it's terrible to mock him for his awkwardness.shuza said:I agree with your point, but did we have to make that guy a poster boy for this whole situation? I don't know anything about him, but I can guarantee that the small amount of confidence this guy had is now destroyed forever.
Good point, the culture definitely needs to change, but let's not use bullying to make it happen.
On the other, bullying when deployed in instances where behaviour brings shame upon the entire world of gaming is an excellent form of behaviour modification.
You honestly don't see anything wrong with spreading a picture of a kid who's obviously a little awkward as it is around? Now we can see from the picture that he most likely doesn't have a way with women. I will guess he's shy and maybe introverted. He enjoys the booth babes and is there any reason he shouldn't?Dennis Scimeca said:The man and woman kissing in the V-J Day picture probably didn't intend to be creating an iconic image that would ring throughout the remainder of American history, but some pictures speak a thousand words and that's why we look at them.shuza said:I agree with your point, but did we have to make that guy a poster boy for this whole situation? I don't know anything about him, but I can guarantee that the small amount of confidence this guy had is now destroyed forever.
Good point, the culture definitely needs to change, but let's not use bullying to make it happen.
The picture of that kid brazenly snapping a shot of those booth babes so perfectly represents why it's silly to call E3 an "industry event." GDC is an industry event. The D.I.C.E. Summit is an industry event. Neither of those events are going to generate a picture of a kid brazenly snapping a photo of two booth babes because to the best of my knowledge and experience there ARE no booth babes. That's part of what makes it pretty clear that they are "industry events" attended by professionals.
Had I spent the entirety of the column berating the kid in that picture, I would have to cop to a charge of bullying. As it stands, I think you've used the word inappropriately at best, and at worst the charge can be seen as trying to create sympathy for someone engaged in blatantly sexist activity which I have no issue pointing out.
Pro tip: if someone calls you out for doing something and you don't think you did anything wrong, you don't feel bad when someone calls you out for it. Should that kid become aware of this conversation and feel ashamed for being caught in that picture, and never ogles a woman like that so obviously again, I can't say I'm going to feel badly about it. There's a place for that sort of thing, and it's called a strip club.
To be honest I wouldn't be surprised if Dennis was a little insecure about gaming, I certainly am. It's only recently that gaming isn't universally perceived by the mass media as something for reclusive shut ins and nerds.Yopaz said:You honestly don't see anything wrong with spreading a picture of a kid who's obviously a little awkward as it is around? Now we can see from the picture that he most likely doesn't have a way with women. I will guess he's shy and maybe introverted. He enjoys the booth babes and is there any reason he shouldn't?Dennis Scimeca said:snipshuza said:snip
Now this entire article is about how terrible it is that the gaming industry uses booth babes and how stupid it is to believe that we are interested it. Posting this picture wont make him become a better person. If he finds out or anyone he knows finds out it will probably make him more introverted.
Now what is the problem with people like this guy. It gives gamers a bad name... Really, if anyone is so insecure about their gaming hobby that they feel they need to humiliate any gamer who "gives gamers a bad reputation" then I don't know what to say. I like games and I know there are people out there who aren't like me at all. There are Atheists out there with different opinions than me and that are so intolerant that I want to punch them. I am still an Atheist and I have no need to humiliate anyone who "gives Atheists a bad name". I am secure and confident in my opinions, thus I can live with people sharing them and at the same time being awkward about it. I am also fairly certain that the picture was shared without his consent.
Still think there's nothing wrong with sharing that picture?
Wasn't it only like a two second clip?Wolfram23 said:gratuitous boobs in Far Cry 3
With his tongue literally in his cheek, I figured he is trying to keep a firm grip on his phone.Cousin_IT said:Poor guy. That was probably the first time he had the opportunity to take pictures of women without risking arrest.
Well, he's insecure about his hobby because of the way some people think of him because of this. Is a bully who bullies smaller kids less of a bully just because he does it because he's insecure because his parents are getting a divorce? Is he any less a bully because he picks on a kid who already got problems of his own?Alexnader said:To be honest I wouldn't be surprised if Dennis was a little insecure about gaming, I certainly am. It's only recently that gaming isn't universally perceived by the mass media as something for reclusive shut ins and nerds.Yopaz said:You honestly don't see anything wrong with spreading a picture of a kid who's obviously a little awkward as it is around? Now we can see from the picture that he most likely doesn't have a way with women. I will guess he's shy and maybe introverted. He enjoys the booth babes and is there any reason he shouldn't?Dennis Scimeca said:snipshuza said:snip
Now this entire article is about how terrible it is that the gaming industry uses booth babes and how stupid it is to believe that we are interested it. Posting this picture wont make him become a better person. If he finds out or anyone he knows finds out it will probably make him more introverted.
Now what is the problem with people like this guy. It gives gamers a bad name... Really, if anyone is so insecure about their gaming hobby that they feel they need to humiliate any gamer who "gives gamers a bad reputation" then I don't know what to say. I like games and I know there are people out there who aren't like me at all. There are Atheists out there with different opinions than me and that are so intolerant that I want to punch them. I am still an Atheist and I have no need to humiliate anyone who "gives Atheists a bad name". I am secure and confident in my opinions, thus I can live with people sharing them and at the same time being awkward about it. I am also fairly certain that the picture was shared without his consent.
Still think there's nothing wrong with sharing that picture?
I never got the vibe that the author was targeting that person who took the photo, that image just happens to represent what having booth babes at E3 does do the credibility of "mature gamers". It's not a matter of "this guy gives gaming a bad name", it's that E3 is giving gaming a bad name by creating scenarios like this in the first place.
That picture has hit twitter, it's hit reddit (front page or r/gaming which means views above 10,000), it's out there. Using it one more time in an article on the escapist does not constitute bullying. Yeah, it sucks to be that guy, however that's how the internet works now. Annoying facebook girl didn't want to be annoying facebook girl but here we are.
Are you being sarcastic or do you honestly mean to imply that women desire to put on skimpy outfits, stand all day in a hot crowded room and be ogled by less than desirable men? (To put it politely) Dammit man, most mobile phones have internet connectivity, if you're that desperate for breasts google search them. If that's not good enough, commit and go to a strip club.Blargh McBlargh said:I find it absolutely mindboggling to see all the recent hate for booth babes. They're just doing their job, goddamn. :/
I, for one, thoroughly enjoy ogling a nice set of boobies whilst checking out the latest games.
As for "a place and time for such things", do you also think it should be forbidden for women to dress skimpily just because they WANT to? 'Cause lord forbid if the little kids see them~!
But there's a difference between wanting money and wanting to do the act. I can imagine people willing to do the job (After all, booth babes do exist) but I can hardly imagine many genuinely enjoying the job. I just don't think we'd be destroying any dream jobs by removing booth babes.Blargh McBlargh said:I'm not saying that all women want to do that, but there are certainly plenty of highly attractive women who have no problem using their looks to earn their money. Just because you haven't met them personally, does not mean they do not exist.Danzavare said:Are you being sarcastic or do you honestly mean to imply that women desire to put on skimpy outfits, stand all day in a hot crowded room and be ogled by less than desirable men? (To put it politely) Dammit man, most mobile phones have internet connectivity, if you're that desperate for breasts google search them. If that's not good enough, commit and go to a strip club.
I don't think anyone has a problem with the booth babes as people, it's the shameless way they're used, what that says about the people who go to conventions and the discomfort caused by the mix of the two.
So yes, there are much better and more appropriate times and places for these things.
Hell, look at the crapton of women on the internet who are part-time camgirls just to earn a little extra cash.
I'd play that game.ResonanceSD said:A lot of game devs need to read this line.Dennis Scimeca said:There's a place for that sort of thing, and it's called a strip club.
Blargh McBlargh said:I find it absolutely mindboggling to see all the recent hate for booth babes. They're just doing their job, goddamn. :/
I, for one, thoroughly enjoy ogling a nice set of boobies whilst checking out the latest games.
As for "a place and time for such things", do you also think it should be forbidden for women to dress skimpily just because they WANT to? 'Cause lord forbid if the little kids see them~!