chadachada123 said:
All very well argued. While I maintain my reservations regarding the casual use of words with particularly problematic connotations, I'm certainly aware of the importance of context.
The trap of context is that context is so incredibly easy to misconstrue, as well.
In short, I've certainly been known to say "that's so gay" in a joking fashion. But when I have, I've said it in the company of people I know will comprehend the underlying intention and sincerity (or rather, lack thereof) of that comment.
What I'm trying to say is that while I don't think people should spend their waking hours constantly fearing to cause somebody else offense (hey, sometimes offense can be a catalyst of substantial discourse and betterment), I do think it's worth considering how one might cause
needless offense, brought upon by something said or done without forethought.
I realise that is an argument of relative value as well, but I can't think of a much better way to put it.
...but no, no it wasn't my intention to claim authority on linguistics. Although I certainly see how I might've come off that way!
I have a tendency of getting overly didactic. Sorry about that.