As I said, I had never actually knew any transgender people, but if what you are saying is true, then there is no problem.drisky said:I would just like to note that its pretty rare that a transgender person won't tell you before any make outs occur. The whole "surprise penis thing is, for the most part, a myth. Transgender people know that it is in bad taste not to bring it up before a relationship starts, even after having all the surgeries. Aside form that what they were born as shouldn't matter. Transgender people recognize that most won't be ok with it sexually and will bring it up before anything physical happens. They know it will come out eventually and are not out to trick the straights (or gays for the matter). The chances of your scenario happening are extremely slim. Also I believe, having to live your life as the wrong gender, is probably more traumatizing then unwanted make outs but that is just me. Pretty much all trans people people have been thought depression.VMK1991 said:I can not sat that I ever personally knew any of the mentioned categories, but my opinion is:
Being gay, lesbian or bisexual is fine with me (as long as gay guys don't try to make "moves" towards me), because it is their sexual prefference. Must I be disliked by other humans because I like black-haired women? Of course not.
I still think, that most humans must be straight, well, you know, so that kids would have both biological and mental connection to both of their parents.
Transgender though... *sigh*
Listen, my opinion is that if this person does not hide his/her state, then it's...well...managable.
But if this person, for the sake of example, lets call her Sam(born Samuel, now Samantha), meets a guy, a straight guy, and tells him that she women all the way, that means that she is LYING(yes LYING)to him in a very unrespectable manner. To make it simple, eventuall this guy will find out that he has been making out with another guy. In "already" female body, but still.
Imagine what kind of trauma the guy will get.
That is my opinon.
P.S. And I never said that being born in a wrong body is less traumatizing, because, well, I can't know, I was born in a body I pretty darn like.