Love and Relationships

[Transmet]

2 year relationship with the first. I was in my second year of university, he was in his first. He started becoming distant, emotional and whiny. Started accusing me of cheating, of only wanting sex from him. After a few months of that we calmed down. Even had our own little crew on campus consisting of him, me, my best friend, and his close friend.

Come December, my gall bladder decided to grow some stones and I went under surgery. He was there, came with me to the hospital, brought me a bunny plush, even spent the night with me when I was let out.
About 2 weeks later I was healed up well enough to walk and go to school. Then he dumped me. Said he wasn't ready to "give himself up" and fully commit to one person. Said how he had to get out in life and experience it himself. Then he fucked my best friend. About 3 days later she's on his arm prancing around the campus bookstore.

Safe to say, I no longer talk to either of them. He's a feminine manchild with a love for elves and crying cause no one understands his writing, and she's a dimwit with a high pitched squeal.



Best moment: The guy I'm with now is great. So far, the last 3 months have been littered with best moments.

 

[tomtom94]

Being beaten to a previous girl by my absolute penis of a friend.

That sucks. Why is he you're friend if he's such a dick?

I've had worse friends, and we do Greek together. Also they split up after a short while, which kinda helps...I guess...

 

[bak00777]

i rly suck at things of this nature. My problem is i cant properly read vibes that the girls give off and i either end up getting rejected or missing my chance(usually the former). Every girl in highschool that i thought i had a connection with ended up rejecting me without ever giving me a chance...

 

[MassiveGeek]

Hm.

I won't bother bringing up my worst memories, the two guys I've been intimate with before my current boyfriend were both rather single-minded and acted pure stupid, neither being a good match for me.

My current boyfriend however... I love every moment I have with him, wheter it be when we hang out with his friends, roleplaying and doing other nerdy things, or just lazying about at his or my place or our evenings that we spend together watching Deadliest Warrior or movies - even just chatting on msn. We're in a long distance relationship, which is both good and bad on my part because I like having time for myself. But sometimes I miss him terribly.

To me, the relationship I'm in now, I think is how it should be for anyone - experiencing genuine trust and being completely assured that what you feel is real. Even in awkward situations, it feels comfortable around that person.

When you're with someone you love... you're you. And they're them.

 

[Pimwing]

hmmm
worst: getting dumped by e-mail.

best: hmm i'm rather embarrassed by this but i had just broken up with my ex and a friend of mine said the day after: "let's go out". so we jumped on our bikes and drove to the city center. where i met this girl... Yeah i think you can guess the rest of the story. but point is it was not just a one night stand. I really love spending time with her. watching tv, playing guitar, playing games(mostly fps's and she keeps beating me XD) And after 2 week's we decided made our relationship official.
The only problem is that both my parents and my ex-girlfriend where actually quite angry and my parents at some point forbade me to see her. And this still stands it has been 1.5 week now. and i really really miss her.

 

[ThreeWords]

Being beaten to a previous girl by my absolute penis of a friend.

That sucks. Why is he you're friend if he's such a dick?

I've had worse friends, and we do Greek together. Also they split up after a short while, which kinda helps...I guess...

Wait, so the fact that he a) isn't the worst person you know, and b wasn't even happy with the girl you crushed on was somehow a good thing?

 

[Broady Brio]

Best/worst love/relationship moments? Yet to happen.
Comments on love/relationships? If it's a high school relationship, be prepared to dump/be dumped. They NEVER last long.
Things that make you think of people you love? Call me stupid, but I don't understand the question.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

I think I have made my opinions on this stuff quite known by this point. And I am way too fucking exhausted to deal with quote after quote after quote yet again.
But, to reiterate, I hate it with a passion for a variety of reasons that nobody gives a fuck about.

As for best/worst experiences, I haven't really had any.
I mean, I have kind of sort of had a thing with someone for a while which may or may not be ongoing I am not sure god fucking damn it is too confusing I want it to stop.
Why the hell do people willingly put themselves through this, anyway. All of this uncertainty and risk for even more uncertainty and risk.
I do not have the energy to deal with this crap.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

I like this girl right, but we arent in a relationship and she knows I have a "thing" for her, but we've grown distant, every time I think there is a chance I could be with her, something has to come up and shatter it. Eh

 

[KiLl_RoY]

Best moment:When i dumped her, oh boy i was so happy, she used to get angry with me all the time and she yelled at me a lot, besides she was WAY to friendly with her friends and i am extremely jealous so i felt awfull a lot of times
Sometimes i thought that she didn´t care about me.

Worst moment:The first time i kissed her. Because nobody liked her and all my friends got mad at me for having a relationship with her, well not all of them but most of them.

Oh boy im so glad i dont have anything with her now, she was a lousy girlfriend and made me suffer a lot.
PS:I am about to have a relationship with a friend of her.It´s not some sort of revenge, it just happend.

 

[Sara Fontaine]

Best Relationship: The one I'm currently in. Nearly five years and it's actually my one and only relationship ever. In school I was practically invisible and I liked it that way, and I met my boyfriend on a night out at 16.

Best Moment: There's been a few. But I would say the best ones are when we're laughing so hard about something we're crying. Our sense of humour is identical at times.

Worst Moment: The few months in which his (now former) best friend decided to try and split us up because he claimed he was in love with me. Truth was he just wanted to get his end away, and I knew that. So all he got for his efforts was a swollen jaw

 

[MelziGurl]

The best part, being proposed to...the worst, being told 10 months later he didn't feel the same anymore. It was my first serious relationship, so it was also my best and worst.

 

[masterkeaton]

Worst: Been going out with a girl (so far my only girlfriend) for a year, then she dumps me for someone else, just because he lived closer to her (long distance relationships FTL)

Best: Hasn't happened yet.

I guess it was my fault really, I'm no good when it comes to talking with girls IRL, and so far have yet to successfully ask a girl I like out.

 

[FinalHeart95]

Finally got the balls to ask out a girl today, and got a yes. So... yeah.

Although my dumbass friends almost ruined it. No, thinking about yelling "GET SOME!" isn't a good idea.

 

[Zaverexus]

hmmm
worst: getting dumped by e-mail.

Been there, Facebook dump, ouch.
But that girl was a ***** anyway so it turned out in the end

 

[Zaverexus]

I think I have made my opinions on this stuff quite known by this point. And I am way too fucking exhausted to deal with quote after quote after quote yet again.
But, to reiterate, I hate it with a passion for a variety of reasons that nobody gives a fuck about.

As for best/worst experiences, I haven't really had any.
I mean, I have kind of sort of had a thing with someone for a while which may or may not be ongoing I am not sure god fucking damn it is too confusing I want it to stop.
Why the hell do people willingly put themselves through this, anyway. All of this uncertainty and risk for even more uncertainty and risk.
I do not have the energy to deal with this crap.

It may be uncertain and risky at first but I think many people would agree with me when I tell you and all the other people who have expressed your view that when you find someone you are really happy with it's worth it.
If you get close to someone then you don't have that uncertainty because you know them, and you can enjoy your time together. Even if it doesn't last you can still enjoy the time in which it does.
I'm sorry if you haven't found someone with whom you are happy yet but that's no reason to give up on relationships as a whole. If you just don't want that then fine, but don't be bitter about it.

 

[xxmastermillerxx]

Well, all I have to say is that it sucks to be a teenager in a serious relationship.

 

[Jedoro]

Spoiler: This is how I feel about relationships

However, I'm willing to play and try to find a way to win until the day I die.

The best thing about relationships was knowing someone genuinely loved me for who I was. The worst was when the relationship ended. Details are irrelevant to me.

 

[Zaverexus]

Finally to my own OT:
Worst: after about four months of my closest relationship (at the time) with the first girl to whom I ever said "I love you" being told that she didn't love me anymore and didn't think we should speak to each other anymore
Best: got my first kiss a couple days ago ;D
Comments: most importantly: that both the best and worst moments have taught me just as much about how things work and getting to understand things a bit better everyday is the real best part. Happy to be in a great relationship with a girl I can be very open with.

 

[Composer]

Best moment? None
Worst moment? Asked someone out got rejected.
I had a big crush, and pussied out, on asking out.

Socially inept etc etc.

Yea anyway.

Happy for you people to have enjoyed some form of relationship.

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