Make-up...WHY?

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Lukirre

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Females aren't the only ones who like to "look better" with make up.


If people can make themselves look more appealing by taking a few moments to apply some creams, then it's most likely that they will.
It doesn't all have to do with attracting mates.
Perhaps it's just because they enjoy the way they look with it on.

Though, what Hypothetical Fact said about dressing a certain way to get attention is very true.

I personally don't care whether or not someone has make up on, I just dislike it when they wear too much.

Edit: I wasn't using Tuomas as an example of something negative.
How could I?
*cough*
 

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riskroWe said:
Anyone who says women are just as good looking without makeup obviously does not live with 4 of them.
Actually, I do, in fact I live with 5 girls, and I reckon they all look just as good without makeup as they do with. In fact, that pretty much goes for every attractive girl I know...
 

Fairee

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Trivun said:
riskroWe said:
Anyone who says women are just as good looking without makeup obviously does not live with 4 of them.
Actually, I do, in fact I live with 5 girls, and I reckon they all look just as good without makeup as they do with. In fact, that pretty much goes for every attractive girl I know...
Emphasis there on the attractive. Those of us who are absolutely un-attractive consider it very useful.

Although this kinda goes against my last sentence, I don't really wear make-up, mainly because I'd rather spend that time on here. But yeah, make-up is good and makes some of us feel more confident about ourselves.

And anyone who says, you are attractive, is lying and will be shot.
 

Trivun

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Geek@Heart said:
And anyone who says, you are attractive, is lying and will be shot.
You don't really have much self confidence, do you? Believe in yourself!

God, I'm so cliched. It's true though, and I feel a strange need to defy your comment there...
 

Azhrarn-101

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Geek@Heart said:
Trivun said:
riskroWe said:
Anyone who says women are just as good looking without makeup obviously does not live with 4 of them.
Actually, I do, in fact I live with 5 girls, and I reckon they all look just as good without makeup as they do with. In fact, that pretty much goes for every attractive girl I know...
Emphasis there on the attractive. Those of us who are absolutely un-attractive consider it very useful.

Although this kinda goes against my last sentence, I don't really wear make-up, mainly because I'd rather spend that time on here. But yeah, make-up is good and makes some of us feel more confident about ourselves.

And anyone who says, you are attractive, is lying and will be shot.
You may consider yourself unattractive, however you can pretty much guarantee someone does find you attractive, even without make-up.
 

BonsaiK

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There are many reasons why women wear makeup, here are some:

(warning: rather unfunny but highly informative tl;dr ahead)

1. Confidence issues. Women are far more scrutinised for their appearance than men are, both by potential partners and also just culturally, in general it's traditionally been the woman's role to "be pretty". Of course, not all women think they are that pretty... hence, makeup. How attractive they actually are is besides the point (and highly subjective, anyway). Some women are better at resisting the cultural conditioning than others, just like some men are better at resisting peer pressure to be or do certain things than others. Women who refuse to wear make-up are thus often more inclined to be confident and individualistic. Once again, this has nothing to do with "attractiveness" or lack thereof.

2. A rite of passage. When growing up, wearing makeup is seen as something that women do as they approach adulthood, like wearing a bra, or like men's voices breaking. It's a defining marker of adulthood. Women who wish to "grow up faster" may wear makeup at an earlier age as an aesthetic signifier - in other words they're saying "I'm not a little girl anymore, I am a woman, I have a mature outlook". (Whether they actually do or not is besides the point.) It can be a way to fit into the "grown up world", but if no-one else is wearing any in the immediate social scene it can also be a way to assert individuality. Which leads nicely to...

3. Flirting/attention. Whether men actually find it attractive or not doesn't matter, heavy lipstick, enhanced eyelashes etc still sends out a message that someone is "out to impress" and may be open to (the right kind of) offers. Heavy makeup can be a way to stand out from the competition and get noticed in dating but also elsewhere. That's why musicians of both sexes tend to use it very heavily. Do they look great? Sometimes they do, sometimes they look downright ugly. But you notice them, therefore mission accomplished.

4. Enjoyment. Some women who don't buy into the whole "all women must look a certain way to be beautiful" bullshit that our society revolves around still apply makeup simply because they enjoy it. They enjoy experimenting with different looks, seeing what works and what doesn't, etc. They treat their face like an artist treats a canvas - a space in which to be creative and have fun.

So it's a mistake to assume that a girl with lots of makeup just wants to pick up guys or thinks she's ugly and is hiding behind it or whatever. Sure, that MAY be the reason for it, but there are also other reasons why people do it.

Having said all that, I'm a guy and I don't really like the way women look with makeup on. I prefer none. My current girlfriend tends to not wear any makeup at all and I'm pretty damn happy with that.
 

Nomz

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I'm a girl and I hate make-up. I know someone who doesn't go anywhere without it. She even puts it on before she goes downstairs. It's insane.
 

yeah_so_no

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I don't wear make-up because I hate the way it feels on my face, and my complexion is good enough that I don't need to (in, fact, when I go to try clothes on, the clerks always try to give me covers to put on to make sure my make-up won't get on the clothes, and are shocked when I say I'm not wearing in. I lucked out skin-wise and I know it). I used to wear make up in junior high, then decided I'd rather spend that time in the morning sleeping and I read a book called "The Mismeasure of Woman" that looked at a lot of the little discriminations women faced, and one of which was the cost of make-up some women have to wear for work but we have to pay for, even though we tend to get lower salaries than men. I was like, "Yeah, no," and that was the end of me wearing make-up.

But a lot of my friends do wear make-up, and it's because they want to make themselves look better. A small amount of make-up that's applied well can make a big difference--the few times I bother with lipstick and eyeliner, it does make a big difference.

Women are taught from day one that we have to be pretty. We're constantly being measured and measuring ourselves against the photoshopped and flawless women on TV and in magazines. We look in the mirror and we only see our flaws, not because we're neurotic but because we have it shoved down our throats that our value in is our looking pretty and we're conditioned to think we have to make ourselves look pretty for men.

Also, in professional situations, we're expected to wear it--some companies insist that women wear make-up. Ditto with heels.

And some of y'all saying women are weird and off and whatever because we wear heels and makeup despite all the harm it does to our bodies...yeah, and look at how a lot of men respond to women who DON'T make themselves look pretty and cute and do that girly stuff. She gets looked down on as "not hot" and as someone who doesn't take care of herself.

Oh, and men in eyeliner are hot.
 

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StarStruckStrumpets said:
I've been trying to get my head around this for quite some time. Girls/Women, why do you wear it? I don't know a single guy who actually cares, and apparently it's proven that guys only notice it when there is too much on. I for one, don't care what-so-ever. I just don't understand why it is worn. The most common answer I have is:

1) It makes people feel more comfortable with themselves.

This one is NOT TRUE. I mean, if it's only noticed when there is too much and it looks awful, how does that make you feel better?

Please explain to me! I don't understand! I'm crying for help! I need this problem solved. It's been in my head for a loooooooong time.

the answer is simple....it gives us guys something to buy them ;)
 

FallenRainbows

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Anonymouse said:
Easily taken care of my friend.
Example: 1 [http://www.girlshealth.gov/teenguide/images/beforeafter.jpg] 2 [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tK2ULykdFg4] 3 [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8BJguv0Y90]

Yes I am fully aware there is probably a little photoshop added as well but well. A relative of mine is a "model" and trust me. Before and after make up is a huge freaking deal.
I think he just won the entire internet.
 

Flap Jack452

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My friend at school puts on two different colors of eye liner, its really cool, but thats all the make up she puts on. Too much is just unattractive.
 

NeoDeath90

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Apparently it's like the attracting mates thing that animals do. But really, there's not too much of a point. If they do, great, if they don;t great. Doesn't really matter to me unless I'm dating Bozo the Clown.

This is why I'm glad I found my girlfriend. She never wears makeup because she can't. She's allergic to almost every makeup there is and it really messes with her skin, so whenever I see her, she's always in her natural beauty ^^
 

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The idea of makeup that you don't know it's being worn. If you can TELL she is wearing makeup it's too much. My fiance told me that and she's French so I trust her on this topic.
 

Fairee

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Trivun said:
Geek@Heart said:
And anyone who says, you are attractive, is lying and will be shot.
You don't really have much self confidence, do you? Believe in yourself!

God, I'm so cliched. It's true though, and I feel a strange need to defy your comment there...
Why should I believe in myself? No one else ever has!

As for defying me, you were warned. I have sent my best sniper up to Leeds.
 

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Geek@Heart said:
Trivun said:
Geek@Heart said:
And anyone who says, you are attractive, is lying and will be shot.
You don't really have much self confidence, do you? Believe in yourself!

God, I'm so cliched. It's true though, and I feel a strange need to defy your comment there...
Why should I believe in myself? No one else ever has!

As for defying me, you were warned. I have sent my best sniper up to Leeds.
By sending a sniper that pretty much means I personally believe in you, because I find it hard to not believe in anyone who's threatening my life.

That said, you don't know which Halls of Residence I'm in so you have no idea where to send said sniper...
 

Duskwaith

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Fake tan and make up, if done correctly can make women look soooo good if not then eww.

Make up has been around for thousands of years.
 

Fairee

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Trivun said:
Geek@Heart said:
Why should I believe in myself? No one else ever has!

As for defying me, you were warned. I have sent my best sniper up to Leeds.
By sending a sniper that pretty much means I personally believe in you, because I find it hard to not believe in anyone who's threatening my life.

That said, you don't know which Halls of Residence I'm in so you have no idea where to send said sniper...
Just because you (a stranger on the Net) are dumb enough to believe in me, doesn't mean I should.

Oh, I do know which halls of residence you are in. My secret organisation has ALL of your personal information. We even know about that time you stole those books.
 

hungoverbear

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I understand some makeup on girls, but what i dont understand are straight guys that wear makeup. its like.........why????
 

Trivun

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Geek@Heart said:
Trivun said:
Geek@Heart said:
Why should I believe in myself? No one else ever has!

As for defying me, you were warned. I have sent my best sniper up to Leeds.
By sending a sniper that pretty much means I personally believe in you, because I find it hard to not believe in anyone who's threatening my life.

That said, you don't know which Halls of Residence I'm in so you have no idea where to send said sniper...
Just because you (a stranger on the Net) are dumb enough to believe in me, doesn't mean I should.

Oh, I do know which halls of residence you are in. My secret organisation has ALL of your personal information. We even know about that time you stole those books.
(stage gulp) OK, now I'm worried...
 

Biek

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I know some women who are better off using some. And frankly I dont mind when people use it. Just dont use it on a dialy basis or overdo it.