Zombiefish said:
irishda said:
Because its the sexual desire itself that's the problem, not simply his treatment of it. He needs psychiatric help, not a cartoon. And it's not comparative to murder fantasies. Depictions of violence are for a variety of reasons, and are not always seen as bad by society. But child pornography is for one reason only.
And rape is hardly better. In the criminal hierarchy, pedophiles and rapists are on the bottom, and they're not very far apart. He may not have been harming anyone (yet, or that we know of), but that doesn't mean he shouldn't be getting help.
Why is his sexual desire an issue if he never acts upon it by harming another human?
And are you implying he can be cured?
No, but contrary to popular belief, repression is not at all the terrible thing people believe it to be. The brain is so completely susceptible to conditioning that any habitual response to an emotion is taken as habit. So, for example, if a man is aroused by the image of children, and his response to this arousal is to sexually release it, then his brain will program itself to seek release every time he's aroused. But, say he's trained to respond to the arousal in a different matter, or even to see the object of arousal in a completely different light, then I think he'll be better off. Certainly wouldn't have to worry about people going on his computer.
As a stoic, I find the latest fad of "if you have an emotion, you must act on it, or it'll tear you apart" rather horribly insulting. People are strong-willed when they want to be, they don't have to follow their heart's every desire, especially when it's something such as being aroused by child pornography.